Marriage & Divorce - 5 December 2007

some ladys at my work were talking about how your weak if you leave and you should stay for better or for worse...and i just thought i would get ya'lls opinion on it.
how do you feel about seperation and divorce?

2007-12-05 04:24:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i work for the state of NJ in the accounting division .. nice job .. i have always been independant ... since the age of 16 i am 25yrs old. i am a college student part time ... education degree .. my husbands wants me to quit my job go to school full time ... sounds great !! but that would mean depend on him for everything .. money expenses ... anyone advise on or experience ... on this should i leave my job or stay part time student full time employee part time housewife ?

2007-12-05 03:41:34 · 39 answers · asked by spanishangelita 1

or should i avoid even speaking to women i find attractive? i ask because a woman in one of my classes keeps talking to me and wants to email back and forth about assignments. she knows i am married and she has never been appropriate but i have a guilty conscience for even talking to her, like maybe i shouldn't at all since i know i would date her if i was single. i would never, ever cheat, so that's not a possibility. i just wonder if it's inappropriate to talk to her at all, or if it's innocent.

2007-12-05 03:37:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

After all, Bill Clinton said oral wasn't and that's with another human. I would really appreciate solid answers not smart aleck ones (although I know I'll get both).

2007-12-05 03:31:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

divorcee records for free? or if not free, who is the most reliable source on the internet?

2007-12-05 03:30:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 03:29:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think the high divorce rate is primarily contributed to immature behaviors and attitudes of many Americans. Since the military develops self-discipline and respect, which are two qualities that are seriously deficient in America, I think the divorce rate will go much lower because many more Americans will respect and love their significant other much more and will develop more self-discipline, which would help prevent them from cheating or doing anything else stupid.

Also, after being in boot camp for a long time and being deprived of female companions, I developed a more heartful respectful for women. I don't know why, I guess when as a guy you go through such a painful experience for so long without women it makes you appreciate them more. Kind of like how you appreciate a nice, warm meal after going on a hunger strike.

I could be very wrong, and most people (including me) would think that this is a crazy idea. But I'm just curious to know what you guys would think about it.

2007-12-05 03:10:01 · 12 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4

I am now 15 and I lost my daughter on april 17, 2006 and this past christmas was soooo hard because her daddy and i couldn't be together any longer because of the way he chose to deal with her death can i do to deal with the pain this christmas??

2007-12-05 02:43:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 02:42:26 · 8 answers · asked by varsha g 1

Went over to a friend's house to watch a football game last weekend. Of the twenty couples there, 11 are divored or divorcing. I had a chance to meet the "new women."

Man, you should see these whooores. Some of them are known loose women. ( I live in a small community. ) The others are clearly sluuuts, not someone you owuld take home to relatives or to a work fuction.

If I leave my wife it won't be for that.

What's up, fellas?

2007-12-05 02:42:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have a great sex life and pretty much everything is good but he has said a few times that he wishes I would kiss him more. Does this mean he needs more attention or what? Or does it mean anything at all?

2007-12-05 02:38:45 · 21 answers · asked by I got answers! 4

My kids are already getting mommy a really nice bracelet for Christmas albeit paid for by me since my two toddlers don't have money.

I'm clueless what to get my wife. We set a really low limit on what we're spending on each other this year $50, because we're saving for a trip in February. I've already got her a few little stocking stuffers.

She's hinted at earrings or watches, and I've seen a few nice ones. However, I don't think she'd want just a jewellery only Christmas.

Would you have a problem if you main gift from both your kids and your spouse were jewellery?

2007-12-05 02:27:42 · 28 answers · asked by CHARLES R 6

It could be there all it is work,eat and sleep like as if your single, lack of or no internation (like conservation or doing things on weekend). With the holidays here i think its worst emotional when you are feeling alone.

2007-12-05 02:09:13 · 19 answers · asked by just hanging around 5

My partner says he can't get to sleep in our bed and has, for the last 4 or 5 days gone to sleep in the spare room. He says I wake him up. We have been under alot of stress lately. Our sex life hasn't changed much.

2007-12-05 01:59:14 · 29 answers · asked by nesta 2

2007-12-05 01:57:20 · 14 answers · asked by orange c 4

2007-12-05 01:55:24 · 11 answers · asked by Stephanie A 1

When my bf and I got together 2 1/2 years ago he did not explain to me the true nature of his relationship with this girl. He led me to believe that it was a casual thing when it wasn't. Now I realized that he did not even have time to get over her. Am I the rebound girl and what should I do? Sometimes I feel that we should take a break and let him see if he wants to be with her.

2007-12-05 01:51:43 · 8 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4

My friend....lets say Mark ...has had his wife tell him full of joys that she is pregnant again. They already have 2 children 9 and 5. She was over the moon .......i congratulated him. Then he told me that he had a vasectomy 2 years ago, and i remember him going. He is asking me what he should do...he is devastated. How the hell do you give advice to this.......any ideas.

2007-12-05 01:43:53 · 36 answers · asked by tezz 2

Hello
I have been married ten years. To a man that was first loving to me and then kind of drifted off in his own shadow to speak.
So After having two kids now 5 1/2 and ten boy and a girl, I got my life on track. went to college 14 units. certificate in teaching with childcare.
My husband is not knowing proper disciplne and the home gets kind f chaotic. He works 6pm to 6am as an engineer and does not know hot to adjust to things or persistance.
I am very flexible unless people do not accomodate well like 50/50 then I walk away.
I feel this marriage has been a one way street.
the only things I feel are risky are my health I have lupus
my childrens needs
and the money. I have a bit saved up but thats what it all boils down to and he does make a good salary, so I am going to be ok if he wont be a dead beat dad in the end???
ADVICE THANKS
ps we also have a 4,000 mortgage and he never listens to my advice. Two homes. lol! OMG divorce and get $? 4K?

2007-12-05 01:43:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married for 11 years and have a couple kids (not babies any longer). My wife seems to have lost all interest in sex and/or spending time with me. When I try to talk to her about it, things usually go sour and everyone feels bad. I would like to talk with a woman who may be in a similar situation as my wife. I am looking for a woman who is between 30 and 45, in a stable marriage, but has a "reduced" sex drive (that would be your call). I would like to talk openly about the physical relationship I have with my wife, so it would be best if you were not inhibited or easily offended. I would like to explain my concerns and questions over email, so if you think you can help me out please reply to this question or email me through the link on my profile page. Thanks

2007-12-05 01:37:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

when it comes to an engagement ring?

2007-12-05 01:35:14 · 21 answers · asked by Andy J 1

Well, I found out yesterday that my husband cheated... but this is what happened.
He didnt have any physical contact with anyone... it was actually a version of "phone sex" but through text messaging... including sending pictures to one another through text messages and all of the typical things someone would say during phone sex... so of course I see this as cheating.
He hid it from me for a couple months and it wasnt until I noticed on our phone bill that he was texting this girl that he supposedly didnt like, that I questioned him...and he finally admitted.
Frankly, I'm disgusted and angry. I dont even understand why he would feel the need to see another woman naked and talk to her like he would talk to me during sex.
What should I do? I feel like I need time alone from him, but I also feel like I just need to yell at him...
I guess I'm just confused.... so I really dont know what I'm asking here.... but any general advice?

2007-12-05 01:33:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband just told me last night that (against my wishes) he has remained friends with the girl he cheated on me with. I am feeling hurt and full of hate right now.

2007-12-05 01:24:38 · 28 answers · asked by cat 2

Before we decide to move in together? I'm asking experienced people and not from a religous view point. I'm almost 25, he's 29 and we have been together for 5 years. I still live at home with my parents by choice, He is well off i.e. house, other property investments, makes over 100k a year, neither of us have children..... I have never lived with a guy and I am a little scared but something is telling me that we should get married first. I don't want to live with him & we have a big fight and I'm back at home after a year...or should we get engaged and live together for sometime first? (I just feel like a scared immature girl for not knowing what to do.)

2007-12-05 01:23:29 · 15 answers · asked by Tiffani 2

I am at my wits end... we have a 7 yr old boy and 4 yr old girl and just a 6 month old german sheperd puppy. When my husband comes home from work, which is usually 8 hours., he goes straight to the puppy and basically ignores the kids. I have tried telling him about it and nothing changes. I feel that its a lost cause. But he has never really payed any attention to the kids.

How would you deal?

2007-12-05 01:21:16 · 25 answers · asked by luv my gsd 1

My friend got married about a year ago and his wife does not want to change her last name. She has no particular reason. Is that weird?

2007-12-05 01:12:17 · 28 answers · asked by Mr. Q 3

2007-12-05 01:08:59 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

are men and women desighned to live together? and if so why cant we get on? why are men nags and moan if us women are not in the kitchen 24/7 ???

2007-12-05 01:04:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 1o weeks pregnant and I work full time and my husband and I run a dance school and dance company. So my schedule is work 7:00-3:00 and dance rehearsal and 4:30pm-8:00pm on mon, tue, wed and fri our schedule was working fine because we are building something and I felt really positive about that. We want our dance school to be our main source of income. Now that I pregnant this schedule is really getting hard I spoke to my husband yesterday about quitting my job and I would just work on the business so it could come along faster. We got into a big argument because I make majority of the money and he feels like if I quit I will be making our family struggle on purpose and he got very upset. He also said that people have been working pregnant for years and I should be stronger that that and I am diverting from our plan which was for me to work and after the baby take off. He really made me feel bad he said he has the same schedule as me and he is able to make it. He is not pregnant. After our conversation yesterday I am going to stay at work but am I selfish for asking to stop working he made me feel so bad he said he is trying his best and he is tired and has the same schedule as me but he is making it work. He also said people would love to just stay home and work on a business but it is not reality. I realize all these things but I still feel so tired some days I can barley concrete. Was I wrong? {Please no hurtful answers yesterday was hurtful enough I can’t take any more mean things said}

2007-12-05 01:04:21 · 42 answers · asked by juv 1

what do u think of a woman whos so ambitious that she doesnt marry ............... or even if she gets married she asks her husband not to think abt kids until she achieves her goal!! is she right ?

2007-12-05 00:47:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous