Marriage & Divorce - 5 December 2007

2007-12-05 14:40:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well. from the begining she NEVER liked me. she was always tell my husband (then boyfriend) that i was always cheating on him. Now she did this for almost 2 years. She stopped when we got married. Now we have a baby in the picture. We went over her house and she kept telling me how i should care for my daughter, and she also put some a&d ointment on my daughter without asking me. ( i was in another room) It really bothered me. I never gave ANYTHING to her kids without making sure it was okay with her. I have ointment for my daughter and i would have put it on her IF she had a rash, but she clearly didnt. Anyways, my husband told her before to not tell me how to parent and she got all pissy. Now both of his sisters hate me and have threatened me because i tell both of them they arent going to have a relationship w/ my daughter until they can respect me and my wishes. Also, they just started up again saying they seen me with another man and i am cheating. Am i wrong? What should I do

2007-12-05 14:34:45 · 11 answers · asked by Amayas Mommy 2

i have always thouth of who i was with my mate.. had equal share..to what i had. i had a credit account with 850 dollars..with radio shack.. my bf max it out..i had to remind him of his kids,, and put it on my other card..no mention of what i may like..he has not got me anything.. but everytime we go to the mall it is a new jeyersey.. is all guys like this

2007-12-05 14:32:56 · 9 answers · asked by vis 7

Scenario: his second marriage, her first (both married 8yrs)
She left for 1yr, came back (went to another country - didn't keep in contact with husband) When she came back she accused him of not paying joint bills when they were together, yells at him in front of coworkers (they called her psycho) to get his attention - he at first wanted nothing to do with her.
Her family upset at her for leaving him
His 1st wife (he has child with her) upset at him because of chaos/disruption in sons life - son loved 2nd wife before she left
Husband takes 2nd wife back - both try "dating" again ~ he insists on sep. bank accounts, expecting 2nd wife to "freak out" at any time.
Husband also desperate to be in relationship. Very lonely when she left. Didn't find new gf while she was away. Gives wife 2nd chance even tho "he never gives 2nd chances"
Match made in heaven or hell? Do 2nd chances work? For 2nd marriages too?

2007-12-05 14:32:45 · 8 answers · asked by Azul 2

I think the high divorce rate is primarily contributed to immature behaviors and attitudes of many Americans. Since the military develops self-discipline and respect, which are two qualities that are seriously deficient in America, I think the divorce rate will go much lower because many more Americans will respect and love their significant other much more and will develop more self-discipline, which would help prevent them from cheating or doing anything else stupid.

Also, after being in boot camp for a long time and being deprived of female companions, I developed a more heartful respectful for women. I don't know why, I guess when as a guy you go through such a painful experience for so long without women it makes you appreciate them more. Kind of like how you appreciate a nice, warm meal after going on a hunger strike.

I could be very wrong, and most people (including me) would think that this is a crazy idea. But I'm just curious to know what you guys would think about it.

2007-12-05 14:29:58 · 11 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4

I also just recently got a divorce from a marriage that shouldnt have been. Me and my friend been hanging and got close he proposed after i was divorced and now in Iraq through the holidays = ( The only reason I stayed here in this town was for my fiance when he returned otherwise i would have moved home near family.
My ex and I are civil putting our child first and this will b his first holiday w/o both parents. I know my fiance well enough that he would not care that i spend the holiday with them for the child. another friend of mine says i would be dumb and foolish what would fiance think. I think fiance would rather me spend time with them (for child) rather than be alone for Christmas. My family is too far and i nee to save money.

The delima question should i accept the invite and go to ex's or just spend Christmas alone?

2007-12-05 14:29:07 · 10 answers · asked by tiggermouse73 3

This couple lives or lived recently in Columbus OH.

2007-12-05 14:26:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for 5 months to my HS sweetheart who I've been with for over 6 years. We don't do much when he gets home from work (I'm currently looking for work so I'm at home all day). I find myself really bored cause we just watch tv, play on the computer, or occasionally play a board game. I don't mind doing these things so much but after a while I want to try something else and he also wants the tv off not longer after watching and just likes the silence (I dont). I'd like to go out but we don't have TOO much $ and don't know what to do. We don't drink, we don't like to dance, and we're not sporty types of people...neither of us can come up with anything to do and we're just getting frustrated with each other. Also new in town, dont know anyone.Does anyone have any suggestions for how to make this marriage more interesting. I don't even find myself that interested in being with him physically lately since I find myself bored when we're together the rest of the time..please help

2007-12-05 14:25:12 · 15 answers · asked by Melissa L 3

We've been married for five years and for the last year and a half, he never hugs, touches, or kisses me or even looks me in the eye. i believe he may have fallen out of love with me. He treats me very nice, but He is always preoccupied and never wants to spend anytime with me. We went to Ft. Meyers beach this past summer for our fifth anniversary, and he never laid a hand on me. What could be wrong? Another woman? or what?

2007-12-05 14:08:28 · 46 answers · asked by orange sky 6

he never tell that love me and never call does he hate

2007-12-05 14:02:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

and he's decided that he wants to take vacations with her and take time away from our girls. I've been keeping my children which I absolutely love the time I get with them, we have a blast but what's so sad is after about two days, my girls ask for their dad. I told him tonight that it wasn't fair he keeps taking time away from them and making this woman a priority. Trust me I don't want them back but I feel so bad for my kids. I told him enough is enough why doesn't he start thinking about his kids.

2007-12-05 13:58:51 · 12 answers · asked by ooolala 2

Is it because they like they like other women?
Or do they go to watch their husband/boyfriends?

2007-12-05 13:51:06 · 20 answers · asked by Tica 2

I've been legally married to my ex who lives in Great Britian. However, we have been legally seperated for almost seven years. Yes, seven years he lives there I live here. I went to a lawyer for a divorce and he told me I would have to hire a International Immigration divorce lawyer. When I went to see one it was over four thousands dollars for a divorce to a man I haven't seen in six years. Isn't there like a law that if you been legally seperated for so many years you could be considered divorced. Kinda like common law marriage, but divorce? If there is such a thing does anyone know what it is called?

2007-12-05 13:48:27 · 5 answers · asked by whateva12 2

I'm an Indian Hindu girl married 1.5 yrs back(marriage registered,no kids) after which I went to UAE.I came for vacation alone to Parents & then to in-laws who dint want to keep me & mentally tortured me so much that i came back to parents.I had also brought my gold set alongwith me from UAE to keep in my mother's house,but had no intention to leave husband.Also my husband isn't getting my visa issued now.So I'm still in India.I wrote to him to support me with 20,000/- monthly as he was supporting me with just 3,000/- monthly and that too only after we had written to him.I'm thinking of filing 498A case against husband & in-laws,which they came to know in advance.Now my in-laws claim that I left him on my own,left in-laws too out of choice and now demanding money from husband to extort & harass him.But I have no such intentions.They say I HAVE LODGED FALSE 498A CASE.What do I do now?My family is too simple to fight for me & I have no support.

Will I get justice?My in-laws are cunning.

2007-12-05 13:47:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 13:46:15 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2

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2007-12-05 13:39:45 · 17 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4

how would I go about getting a marriage certificate in MA?

2007-12-05 13:27:17 · 16 answers · asked by beachgirl111982 2

2007-12-05 13:24:28 · 18 answers · asked by brenda w 1

For instance one spouse is unable to perform and the other spouse has been very frustrated for years and there is no chance of anyone being caught or hourt? Is this EVER okay?

2007-12-05 13:22:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife can't seam to bond with my 2 kids she has 1 and I have 2 from previous relationships they live with us full time boy 7, girl 6 my wife feel guilty for her feelings but has no ideal what or how to change it any help, ideals?

2007-12-05 13:22:46 · 11 answers · asked by maxhighlife 1

My wife wants oral from me. But whatever I do she is not happy and says I am doing it well.
How can I know what is the best way?

2007-12-05 13:16:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

sometimes i feel if i had, had more partners our sex life would be fine. he asks me what is it that i want him to do and i just dont know. now i dont have sex at all with him and i love him so much and i want to please him but i dont know how and im only 20 been married since 18

2007-12-05 12:59:35 · 15 answers · asked by ladysmokejs 1

nothing..

2007-12-05 12:55:45 · 12 answers · asked by Gurlcheater 1

My ex gf and I are still in each others lives even though we broke up a year ago and have dated and "BEEN" with other people. We always seem to end up back with each other. She always says she jsut wants to be friends and Iam fine with friends with benefits situation. Recently, a good friend of hers told me she still has feelings for me, and compares all the men she meets to me, and I still have feelings for her. However, she says she doesnt want a relationship.. is she trying to convince me or herself. We have been hanging out and communicating a bit more often than usual as of late. We had a bad break up, both at fault,but cheating was not a factor. I was fine how things were but now that these things have come to light, I am unsure what to do. Is she wanting me to take the intiative or not. I would rather have what we have now than nothing at all. I have been taking it slow. any ideas recomendations, suggestions... I am confused

2007-12-05 12:54:01 · 3 answers · asked by 6474 2

2007-12-05 12:44:15 · 26 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4

my ex won't let mee see or talk to my kids. i pay my child support, she call cops on me when i go to pick them up. when i don't give my ex extra money i don't get to talk to kids for weeks, they moved 2hrs away when she stole my kids from me, sometimes i could not see them because of work, when that happens i don't see or talk to them for weeks. what do i do

2007-12-05 12:23:49 · 20 answers · asked by scottytotaken 1

My husband ignored me for over a year. I did the wrong thing and cheated behind his back. He found out and we decieded to make it work. Then he starts to cheat on me with three different women in front of my face. I get that he wants "revenge" I accepted it and now we are back at square one. Im tired of trying everything. I want attention. Im not a gimme gimme gimme person, but a hug and kiss weekly would be nice. We wont tell me that he loves me or hardly any affection unless its sex. I have told him over and over that im sorry, he wont say a thing about what he has done. Im done with the relationship but everytime I say Im going to leave and go back to my home town, he begs me not to. But nothing ever changes. I know Im not perfect, but am I taking to much. When its good between us its good, but it never is. Should I just choke it up and leave? I dont know what to do.

2007-12-05 12:21:32 · 28 answers · asked by ? 1

Well this make him cheat do I need to lose the weight?

2007-12-05 12:20:17 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

We just got married in June, and we are saving everything that we can so that we can move out of our crappy apartment and into a starter home. We even already told all of our family that we are going to do a small Christmas this year, and also agreed not to even buy for eachother. Then he took a work trip for a sales convention to Vegas. He was only there Monday-today and he gambled away $600! It may not seem like much to you, but to us newlyweds that is a fortune!

I am just so hurt that he doesnt seem to care about our home and the goals that we set for ourselves, or about me! He gets home late tonight. How do I approach this? I am SO angry...

2007-12-05 12:15:27 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous