My wife wants oral from me. But whatever I do she is not happy and says I am doing it well.
How can I know what is the best way?
2007-12-05 13:16:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have her shave all of her pubes off....it is way more sensitive when shaved. Also try putting a mentholated cough drop in your mouth, the warmth will drive her crazy! When your doing that put a g-spot vibe inside her. I GUARANTEE she'll LOVE it!!
2007-12-05 15:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by Kingler 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
COMMUNICATION!!! Ask her what her likes and dislikes are. If she wants oral from you then she should be willing to tell you what she likes or doesnt. Every woman is different some like clitoral stimulation, while others prefer tongue penetration, while still others enjoy just licking and teasing and sucking.
Also, it really matters if you enjoy performing oral on your wife. I love giving oral just as much as getting it. There is something satifying to me, after having spent 30-40 minutes on my partner and feeling her tremble and knowing that I gave her an oragsm or 10 that way.
Talk to each other
2007-12-05 13:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by 6474 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She wants oral from you, but whenever you do she is not happy, and you want to know the best way to give her oral? She owns the equipment and knows how to get the best response from it so I would go to the source. Ask her about previous experience she has had and how it felt when she achieved...if she will be honest with you and will help you to better understand what she wants done and how to get her there.
2007-12-05 13:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by DWInSTL 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Bro, you should be asking the ladies this question, as they are the receivers of oral sex and they KNOW what they like. Its no use asking us fellas as we only think we're doing it right but our ladies could be faking that they like it! If you're still worried about doing oral correctly there are books around which should be quite helpful, but really put this question to LADIES ONLY!
2007-12-05 13:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by Badass 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yeah... you are definitely doing something wrong....you should try some serious tongue exercises....to strengthen that muscle...take that negative criticism she gives you and use it to blow blow blow her mind.......go back after a few weeks and rock the clam like it's covered in your favorite chocolate...or you might just want to cover that in chocolate to spice it up a bit.... also try to do a little suck action here and there on the clit and all around the vagina...just remember the clit is your friend....make time for that....
2007-12-05 13:36:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell her to to tell you when it's feeling good. Here are my tips: Listen for the moans to increase, watch for the legs to start shaken and twitching, and the stomach muscles will tighten and loosen. You can feel most of these things and when you do, your probably doing good!
2007-12-05 13:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You'd better start reading some lady magazines, get some porn, have your wife point out the way she'd like it done!!! come on man, get with the program!!!
2007-12-05 15:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's best to have her instruct you on what feels good to her. Laying back complaining without any feedback on what feels good to her you'll be lost forever because every woman is different.
2007-12-05 13:23:20 · answer #8 · answered by JAY920 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Practice practice and more practice..........she'll let you know if your pleasing her. Don't be afraid to ask her if your doing it right! It may be new for her also. Have fun with it!
2007-12-05 13:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by michael w 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u should be asking women this question! i can give u some ad v ice, but i'd rather not do it on here!
2007-12-05 13:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋