Marriage & Divorce - 5 December 2007

My husband said he wanted to give me a creampie, but he can't cook or bake all that well.

2007-12-05 07:41:00 · 11 answers · asked by Sandy O 1

2007-12-05 07:40:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

and now there is a baby thats involved... he says he loves me and he wants to be with me but he feels he has to stay with her to be a good dad WTF should i do?!!?

2007-12-05 07:40:22 · 18 answers · asked by fina87 3

anything i do..even if its correct she has the balls to criticise me ... and wehn my sil.. her younger dil.. demands food on bed cos she had a NORMAL delivery ...and has trouble walking in house..mil is ok with that ,
iv been married 8 years but i have not much say .

if i go to holiday and i WANT my kids to be with my mom im having a hard time thinking how to convince them???

2007-12-05 07:39:47 · 3 answers · asked by barley 2

Ok im a newly wed and we been having trouble with the relationship..he keeps receiving Naked pictures of a girl that he works with..I have cought him with those pictures twice and i confronted him!! But he would always tell me that those pictures didnt mean anything to him and that he would make sure not to receive those pictures anymore..he promised and he said that he Loved me and will stop right away..i believed him and forgave him.. But today i check his email and guess what i find? yup, new naked pictures of that same girl..cuz he would receive the pics in his cell and then from his cell he would send them to his email..He thought he was sleak..(the only reason i go thru his stuff is cuz he brokethe trust that i had for him) What should i do now? is having naked pics of a girl/boy u work with acceptable if your married? He promised to stop and he didnt should i forgive and forget or just leave him for good? is this cheating?

2007-12-05 07:39:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok im a newly wed and we been having trouble with the relationship..he keeps receiving Naked pictures of a girl that he works with..I have cought him with those pictures twice and i confronted him!! But he would always tell me that those pictures didnt mean anything to him and that he would make sure not to receive those pictures anymore..he promised and he said that he Loved me and will stop right away..i believed him and forgave him.. But today i check his email and guess what i find? yup, new naked pictures of that same girl..cuz he would receive the pics in his cell and then from his cell he would send them to his email..He thought he was sleak..(the only reason i go thru his stuff is cuz he brokethe trust that i had for him) What should i do now? is having naked pics of a girl/boy u work with acceptable if your married? He promised to stop and he didnt should i forgive and forget or just leave him for good? is this cheating?

2007-12-05 07:38:32 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hold hands-
kiss-
cuddle-
hold each other at night-
sex- is it better worst not as much or just get it and go to sleep?

How have things changed since you've been married vs when you were dating?

2007-12-05 07:38:23 · 13 answers · asked by atchison5_07 1

My parents got divorced about two years ago and I'm over it.
I live with my mom, but see my dad on the weekends.
Once, I met his friend Carrie, she seemed nice, but I couldn't cope with her. She kept telling me to appriciate my dad and the things he does for me. Which is what my mom tells me too. And both my parents always tell me to speak my mind so I said, "I already have a mom to tell me these things, I don't need you to." She seemed offended, I didn't care, she isn't my mom and she never will be.
I didn't even know they were dating, my dad just says 'friend'.
They have been 'friends' for 5 months now, and my dad said they are getting married in February and my sister and I might be able to live with them.

What do I do?

2007-12-05 07:36:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 07:33:29 · 37 answers · asked by ? 4

we were together a yr she was in the army&got out in Aug,was moving up here,was supposed to stay with fam in D.C. for the wkend,instead she started talking about finding jobs there&a house for herself,stopped saying I love you&stopped calling me baby,told me she needed space.the only time she said she loved me was when she needed money&she got over$5,000from me.she just stopped calling me her phone is off&I had no way of contacting her,after a mth she called me asking me to help her shes about to possibly get arrested&Im her only aliby.that was thanksgiving day&I havent heard anything from her since.I still love her very much eventhough theres apart of me that hates her,we had alot of bad times,she was emotionally,psysically abussive&cheated several times.let me add she was my 1st everything.but I remember the good times.I still have no way to get in touch with her what should I do,about my feelings&helping her??

2007-12-05 07:31:30 · 18 answers · asked by shine 1

but he told me this after we moved in. he didn't tell me this in the beginning of our relationship . was i used ? ( btw i moved out ).

2007-12-05 07:29:04 · 7 answers · asked by rodriguez m 3

I've been married for over 15 years and have children. There is an attractive young lady who works on the same floor as me. As a guy, I couldn't help but stare sometimes, and I think she finally figured I was eyeing her. She started flirting with me from afar. I tried avoiding her once I noticed that, but then I started having feelings for her. I learned that she us also married. It seemed like she changed her mind about me because her flirtatious looks stopped. Then she was back at again. It's like a game. Now u have tried to completely avoid her, but it's diifficult when she's just down the hall. Was it my fault and did I lead her on? Now I think she's fallen for me and is probably wondering why i'm avoiding her.

2007-12-05 07:22:27 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1

cleening and now its getting to the worst of me. my house SMELLS SOOOOOO BAD. I sometimes feel like I live in a dirty fish tank!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! caus all the stuff is every where dirty and old food that smells soooooooooooooooo bad

:(

its also bad caus I cant ever let anyone in my house

I have to make up lies about the bathroom and be like "OH WERE WAITING FOR THE PLUMMER" to snak out the toilet :(
but everyone still no's im a slob...wich I dont care, I SWEAR to it, but i still dont let anyone in, unless its my little sister who is ten years younger thin me, im 24 she is 14 and she is a slob to so I no she wont really care :P

2007-12-05 07:21:03 · 27 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4

Quick background: I am going through a divorce right now, and things are actually getting a little easier. My soon-to-be ex and I have had a few talks about a lot of stuff. The split is over something that happened several years ago, and just couldn't be let go, but in the meantime, enough time has passed, and enough changes have been made, for things to go relatively calmly, because we've both been able to realize it's in the past. So there isn't any present hatred or anything.

He is seeing someone, VERY soon after moving out, though. It hurts me a lot, but I am trying to deal with it, and am starting to come to accept it a little more. And my kids are crazy about her. Even I have to admit, she does seem genuinely nice.

This afternoon, my sons (4 & 6) and I were talking about making Christmas cookies, and a little later, about Christmas presents. My six-year-old wanted to know if I'd help him make cookies for "Miss C" for a xmas gift. (NOT FINISHED)

2007-12-05 07:19:44 · 51 answers · asked by CrazyChick 7

alimony from my ex! Is is selfish of me to stay single?

2007-12-05 07:17:39 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous

http://cgi.ebay.com/Set-Of-3-Silky-Nylon-Brief-Sissy-Panties-PRETTY_W0QQitemZ260189565609QQihZ016QQcategoryZ63854QQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem

2007-12-05 07:13:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been dating a guy for about 9 months. It was wonderful when we first met. Then we had the issue of his Ex interfering (3 yrs. sep. & divorced). He made changes and things improved, cause he wanted me in his life. I have always been open with him from the beginning about everything (not overly so). Always calm and communicative about stuff. No yelling or swearing, not my style. This is the thing, he always speaks in general statements, such as "I see you in my future", "I will do anything for us". He has never really opened up or talked about deep stuff or the future. He is an overly nice guy w/ a good heart. He says he "use" to be open. I don't know if the Ex beat him down or if it is just me? I have told him he can always talk to me and he says he feels he can. I just don't see it. How do you build something when you don't share deep feelings, thoughts and talks? He says he loves me. Can you help someone to open up or not? And if so, any ideas how?

2007-12-05 07:11:48 · 20 answers · asked by 2008girl 3

I am suffering a lot becasue of my wife. I got married one year ago, its arranged marriage and everything was done in 15days. Intial days of my marriage she is scold me about i am eating too much and i am ugly, not good and she created all the lies stories and telling to her parents. After one month of my marriage she gone to her parents house and didn't return and told the all created stories to her parents and they are also believed her. My self and my parents ask to come home but didn't come, after some days they realized and come to my home and told appolgies. After that I and my wife went to Singapore for my projoject. Here also she behaved same and created stories and telling to her parents. She is telling she didn't love or like me and i am not good by looking. she is pregnet now, she is in india with her parents, last 4 months no contact. Her parents believe her and creating mess to me. They are saying they will file the case. Its muslim marriage she is also muslim. please help

2007-12-05 07:10:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I called legal aid to get a lawyer for a divorce about 3 weeks ago and i finally got the paper work in the mail to start the process but iam so afraid to go thru with it even though my marrige is not working and i need to move on but im afraid.

2007-12-05 07:09:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

How much of the truth did you tell him?
I caught my wife having what I interpreted as an emotional affair of sorts. All she said they did was kiss on two occasions. But, of course I fear or have a suspicion there was something else. How honest were you?

2007-12-05 07:05:07 · 13 answers · asked by Here&Now 2

Keyword being "happily"

2007-12-05 06:56:59 · 36 answers · asked by danashelchan 5

He has a lot of girls on his myspace that he doesnt even know he changed his profile to single and he tells them that we are seperated(not true) he calls and tells me he loves me and that everything is ok. We have a 7 month old little girl and he has only been around her like 5 weeks of her life. we decided to solve our problems when he gets home because this is stressing us both out but i need advice if he comes home and wants to leave me??

2007-12-05 06:56:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am so mad at my bf because he always cancels his plans on me last minutes before letting me know...so that I could not make any other plans because it's already always late...it has happen in past many times and I ignored it and tried to dont make a big deal out of it....Im a kind of person who sticks in her tplans..values her time very organized..I got mad because he is too inconsiderate and doent respect my time that I planed to be with him already..(Im not talking bout emergeny times I definitly understand that situation ) But canceling for bullshit reasons pisses me off. I feel so angry and unhappy because this attitude is to immature...That makes me feel unimportant and so that..I was so mad at him and didnt answer his calls..untill now..so I dont know what to do...Im still so mad and also want him come and apologize for what he has done..need some help to calm myself down and some advice how to talk to him to get the best result out of it without hurting his feelings.

2007-12-05 06:48:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my husband for 2 1/2 yrs, married 15 months. He works fulltime and I'm a college student. A month ago, we moved fifty miles to be closer to his son (from city to rural area); and I'm still unhappy- we both said we needed a house, but I don't drive, and I sit around a house until he gets home- sometimes I want to tell him we've made a mistake, because we moved so he and his son could be closer, I see my daughter even less, had to get rid of my pets, at least in the city I could go out, get around-- here I am totally reliant on him? Is it just shock of the move, I keep thinking I can find a at home job, but I'm tired of mood swings from tears to unhappy to contentness all in a day

2007-12-05 06:39:17 · 29 answers · asked by Brandee 5

I don't know why I can't enjoy the simple things anymore, but he is screaming for more attention! I'm trying to kiss him more and sit closer to him on the couch when we lounge after work but I just don't know what else to do! I don't have anything to talk about with him and I haven't been enjoying making out or sex much. All I can think of is to start conditioning myself to like the things he does! How do I handle this?

Notes:
- I have been very depressed lately and unmotivated to do anything.
- He's been moody too, snapping for no apparent reason.
- We're somewhat newlyweds (May 31, 2007)

2007-12-05 06:38:57 · 14 answers · asked by Crofton S 2

although we made up ..he is out of station and we fought on texts!

its all about the fact that i dont show off FALSE love for my niece( hubbys brothers daughter)

and wehn my brother and sis in law left my niece with her nanny at my home for 6 hours ...(3pm-9pm) i was not very happy and their unthankful attitude and saying that HEY I wont ty its ur duty ,, she is ur kid"

im just perplexed and was talking to my spouse that they acted weird and my hubby got mad at me!!!

2007-12-05 06:38:52 · 4 answers · asked by barley 2

My husband and I are seperated and he is determined he will not have to pay me a dime. Is this true? I am going tomorrow to file seperation papers.

2007-12-05 06:37:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 06:32:22 · 4 answers · asked by Racy! 3

My wife quit her job, went abroad on holiday while I kept things going at home for four months. She has found it hard to get a job and said we should sell the house, but why shoudl I lose out on the home? Don't I deserve her support now, just as I gave it to her? I am fed up with her indecisiveness and when we got the house we did it on the basis we both worked. I don't earn enough to cover us both. So what to do?

2007-12-05 06:30:47 · 15 answers · asked by jonoxk 3

2007-12-05 06:23:27 · 19 answers · asked by demetre a 1