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Question

Ok im a newly wed and we been having trouble with the relationship..he keeps receiving Naked pictures of a girl that he works with..I have cought him with those pictures twice and i confronted him!! But he would always tell me that those pictures didnt mean anything to him and that he would make sure not to receive those pictures anymore..he promised and he said that he Loved me and will stop right away..i believed him and forgave him.. But today i check his email and guess what i find? yup, new naked pictures of that same girl..cuz he would receive the pics in his cell and then from his cell he would send them to his email..He thought he was sleak..(the only reason i go thru his stuff is cuz he brokethe trust that i had for him) What should i do now? is having naked pics of a girl/boy u work with acceptable if your married? He promised to stop and he didnt should i forgive and forget or just leave him for good? is this cheating?

Answer 1

Having naked pictures is not cheating, but being as these pictures are of a girl he works with, you have to wonder. You said that he's trying to be sneaky about it, which sends alarm bells ringing. If my husband had nude pictures of a girl he worked with, I'd fly through the roof. Confront him about it, tell him that you are not stupid, and he needs to quit lying and sneaking around. I'd be willing to bet that if he hasn't already slept with this girl, he plans on it, so if I were you, I'd cut my losses and run.

Answer 2

IT IS WRONG. He is forwarding the pics to his home email because he likes the pics. If he didn't want them he would delete them and tell her to stop because he is married. Think about it. There may be a lot more going on than you know.

Or take it to the next level, print out a nice full page copy of the naked picture, go to his work and ask the receptionist "Who's this and can you have her come here?" Tell her to stop or you'll post the pic all over the net and her bosses car.

Or... print several copies and post them all over all the cars in the parking lot.

Answer 3

Yes, this is infidelity, big time. You have the right as his wife to check up on everything he is doing. Especially with other women. Get a key logger or webwatcher for the computer and then you will be able to see everything he does. Give him the choice of her or you. If he chooses you, he has to provide proof of his faithfulness at all times in every way. If he chooses her divorce him. Don't sit there and let him get away with this. Don't let him try to blame it on you, or tell you, that you are wrong to invade his privacy. He has no privacy when he is a married man.

Be strong, stand up for yourself.

I like what jobsearc says to do. She'll think twice before she forwards naked pictures to anyone else!!!!!

Answer 4

This doesn't sound good, and he probably is cheating. Why else would he keep naked pics of another girl. If he really wasn't interested in her, he would have stomped it immediately. He obviously doesn't have respect for you, or he would have told her to stop. In my opinion, porn is porn, and a lot of guys have it, not a big deal, but to have naked pics of a coworker is absolutely not acceptable, and if he's sending them from his cell to his email address, then he wants to keep them. Not good. The picture doesn't look good.

Answer 5

I would leave. It might not be cheating as far as having sex, but I once heard this from a "religious" person (my ex). If you've looked at someone with lust in your heart, you've already cheated. It's not acceptable for him to do this. I would hit the friggin ceiling if it were my husband bringing home pics of a girl he works with.

Sweetie, the only thing I can tell you is to get out of this mess before it's too late. If the trust is broken, it will never return, you will always be suspicious of his behaviour.

BIG HUGS and I'll pray for you. If you need me, email me anytime.

Answer 6

Hunny, confront him, and let him know that you are a your wits ends, I don't know if leaving him a thought. But yes getting naked pics is cheating to me, it would be diffrent if after the first time it stoppped, but of course it didn't. He didn't remove her number from his phone....But You shouldn't go though his stuff either, if that is what you think you must do then you have no real marriage....

Answer 7

May be its not cheating but surely its perversion. Try get the no of the girl - warn her .. tell her that you have all the picture and if she keeps doing this - you going to mail it back to her boss/ employer.

After that - if he comes to know of this and get angry - you can be sure that he is cheating and be prepared to be thrown into hell, otherwise things would start getting normal.

Best of Luck

Answer 8

It's unacceptable.

The fact that he lied about it is even MORE unacceptable.

What you need to be asking yourself is WHY is this girl sending naked pictures of herself to a married man?

He's breaking your trust, and your marriage vows.

You need to have a serious talk about this. Yes, you need to forgive him, but you don't have to be a doormat.

Answer 9

the naked pics of another girl or boy for that matter is unacceptable you need to have another talk with him and maybe have him seek help. i mean its the other womans fault also cause she keeps sending her pics to him maybe you can confront the ***** and tell her to stay away from your man

Answer 10

That is NOT acceptable. Did you ever ask him why he is getting the naked pictures? I suggest telling him that he gets one more chance to knock off the nudey pics or you are out.