Marriage & Divorce - 5 December 2007

can some one help me?

2007-12-05 17:54:14 · 8 answers · asked by getterdonejweaver 1

2007-12-05 17:53:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 17:52:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

want 2 settle down with some one who has everything.

2007-12-05 17:50:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here lately I do nothing. I am home all the time without a car, I don't work, I have no friends, no life. I am married but he is hardly here. I feel so Isolated. This has been going on almost a year. Has anyones life ever gotten like this, it is almost like I am scared to get out there and socialize again. I don't know what is wrong with me.

2007-12-05 17:44:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

He doesnt like to recieve gifts...Seriously... at first I thought he was just saying it to be cool. But I bought him an mp3 player and he really seemed weirded out like he didnt understand why I bought it for him. Then he told me that he really doesnt like to recieve things from me he just likes to give me stuff. Is that odd to you?

2007-12-05 17:42:29 · 17 answers · asked by ♥Kimchi♥ 4

no matter what i buy my husband he never seems to like it. one year i decided to give him money, then he used it for the bills. now im back 2 buying him something...what can i get. we are very low on cash right now...what can i get thats nice and not expensive

2007-12-05 17:41:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Age and race doesnt matter,but how can we find each other?

2007-12-05 17:13:38 · 11 answers · asked by rich 1

My very soon to be husband is making final arrangements to join the military so he can go to Iraq. Although I agreed to be supportive & willing to raise our family of 6 on my own because I know how important it is to him to be active in a war. But now that the time is so near, I feel a bit of resentment. As if he's not in any concern about me or our family. And most of all, I haven't been honest about how I really feel... I'm terrified that he may not even come back!!! With no intentions on changing his mind, should I be truthful with him on how I really feel? Is it selfish of me to feel this way? If I hold this in will I regret it later? I really want to do whats best for all of us. I haven't spoken to anyone about this yet & its heavy on my mind. Any suggestions??

2007-12-05 17:08:32 · 10 answers · asked by lovie808 2

i think i am. i had such high hopes in college.

my dating life sucked in high school...never had a girlfriend (but i have had random encounters so its not like im a library nerd).

i looked so forward to college to start dating...doing well grades wise...hopefully find a girlfriend that i can take out to eat, go to the movies with, do all the stuff couples do...valentines is always depressing

well im at the UNIV of Alabama and nothings changed...the girls are still prudes...holyer than though types....boys and girls are usually just friends....

what should i do? im thinking about just goin to college in vegas

2007-12-05 17:05:55 · 5 answers · asked by Greg D 1

do you know of a website where i can find women to share fantasies and chat about issues? everything i have found turns out to be robots?

2007-12-05 16:38:54 · 14 answers · asked by sarah l 2

It doesn't bother me, but would that bother you?

2007-12-05 16:33:54 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been in the same miserable relationship for 6 yrs and i want out but i dont know how to do it. We argue all of the time and whenever we're not arguing, we hardly speak at all. we dont even watch tv in the same room. Sne acts as if everything is fine but she cant be serious. p.s. kid involved. I love my daughter and want to raise her but i dont think i can take anymore. Advice Plz

2007-12-05 16:29:46 · 10 answers · asked by the dude 513 1

My daughter and her boyfriend have been together for a short time but they insist they are in love and want to marry in a year or two. The problem is, my daughter is pregnant! This was not on purpose. She was on the pill. Anyway, her father and I think they should have a small, quiet wedding right away. They say no! What are the pros and cons to this. My daughter thinks that we want this just to save us some embarrasment. I said either marry the guy or get rid of him because why subject a child to a lifetime of being pulled between the two of them if they don't marry.

2007-12-05 16:29:39 · 22 answers · asked by followtheson 1

Guys,Mens,Ladies,Women,
be honest pls!
1:Your realt age?
2: Your Status?

Please let us not pretend this time.... thank you....

2007-12-05 16:21:55 · 11 answers · asked by hey 3

what are the things that make a wife happy? what is the role of the husband in making his wife happy?and what are the things he has to do to make her happy---in the rite sense...

2007-12-05 15:55:32 · 18 answers · asked by inquisitiveno.1 1

My son is finally coming home ( 2 months late) in a little over 8 days time!
The sad thing is he's in morning over a women I'll just call "BETH" (Civil Engineer) a civilian contractor who he started to see when he was in IRAQ, and later purpose to her.
She was killed 2 weeks ago.

This is in fact my step son who I raised almost from the hospital, I love and know he's mine regardless of what his father say. His father wants my son to stop contacting me but he refuses and telling him I'm his mother.
The thing is my son now in morning has to put up with this B.S. and it's really not fair to him because of his situation!
How can a mother help her son without upsetting him and make him take sides?
I know he in a lot of pain now , and he's coming home to more pain whats a mother going to do?
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He's coming home to me I have his room ready now this is still his home!

2007-12-05 15:52:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am looking for a female in Las Vegas that would love to spank me. I am not interested in paying for it. Just someone to be my friend and help me with my need. My wife won't do it and has given me permission to go out and get what I need.

2007-12-05 15:46:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

why did you get a divorce? what reasons? Did you or your spouse want to BECOME SWINGERS?

2007-12-05 15:42:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

( I think I am :)

2007-12-05 15:41:52 · 16 answers · asked by umyeah 2

i got a call from a well woman i thought i was rid of for good as much as she has caused problem.s before . it.s that trailer park trash. how she got my number. i never know. she wans me to meet her i was shocked a tamp now.48. would have the nerve to ask me to meet her i only did her back for spite towards her . now . ex.husband . she is sick to even think i want that again but that.s a tramp for you . why would she ever think i would want to see her . a nut case she is

2007-12-05 15:38:58 · 4 answers · asked by matthew v 3

Forgot to mention, I am the wife - married 25 years, we split because of an affair, July and August. Separated since Veteran's day, maybe 6 months until divorce. He keeps on saying would not leave house, but would still see her in the 6 months, but I think that would burn like a sore. Right in my face, having to live with him during the separation. Last night I thought we were trying to patch things up, mistake, woman? not one to me, still in picture. So told him today, just go stay with her tonight. I'm sick of you, but he would not do so, would go to a hotel, refuses to spend the night, I said why do you want to go to hotel, why not her place. It turned out he was afraid I would use it against him in divorce. I told him to just stay with her, leave me alone. So tonight we had another big fight. He had to inform me how happy he is with her and I did not ask for that info. I've tried to make him happy for 25 years and it hasn't been enough, what a fool.

2007-12-05 15:35:49 · 16 answers · asked by lynn 1

what happens to eveything u have b 4 the marriage is it better to add his name on or keep ur own name or change your name entirely what r the rules with marriage as far as assets can u have your own with his last name or is everything ours?

2007-12-05 15:19:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 15:13:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I loved my stepdaughter. Her father wasn’t in the picture because of a selfish mother who was abused as a child and went through guys like water. I was just 100 on the list. She called me daddy. Her real father was no where to be found. However because I have 2 children from a previous marriage I have been raped by the law system financially. I want to be in the my stepdaughter’s life but don’t have the resources left if the courts decide I was acting as a father and have to pay child support to her mom. I already pay for my 2 and can barely afford to live but I love my stepdaughter and want to be in her life but can’t be made responsible for her like her real dad should because financially I’d be living on the streets if I had to support my stepdaughter. I miss her so much. I’m caught between a crazy law system and what I feel. What should I do? I’m the only dad she has ever known. If I throw caution to the wind I could get screwed by the court system saying I acted as the father so I should pay but I can’t live if have to support her and my two biological kids. She needs a father and I was it. I want to be able to live ok financially and still be a part of my stepdaughters life. Any advice? Should I give her a Christmas present and tell her her daddy (which is me in defacto) will always be there for her or just forget it because if the courts find me liable I can’t take care of any of them given my financial situation. It’s heartbreaking.

2007-12-05 15:10:32 · 9 answers · asked by survivor 1

The thing is that we are both 20 and in college, and I feel that we cannot afford children at the moment. I am curious to know if it is mandatory that I allow him to do that. We are married, but I am just scared to death of an "accident." Are my fears irrational? Is this normal? Do most married couples allow that or am I being abnormal?

2007-12-05 15:09:54 · 42 answers · asked by lesh 1

For instance, when they are unhappy, they vent their anger

2007-12-05 14:58:03 · 16 answers · asked by Wei Yang 2

Even if she has a great job and the kids are in fantastic schools? What if It really is just to see If she will?

2007-12-05 14:49:45 · 24 answers · asked by Mrs. McK 3

i don't want to interfear in her relationship with her husband.her husband is a cop.and he don't get home until 4am. and i am currently single

2007-12-05 14:46:10 · 28 answers · asked by dodge_ram_pickup_guy 2

My husband and I have been separated for 6 mos. He had an affair w/my neighbor for 2 1/2 years and although I tried very hard to forgive it and put it out of my head, I just couldn't do it. I haven't filied for divorce and I still have feelings for him, but I am not sure if it is really love or just the longing for the 12 years we spent together. He has been trying very hard to get me back and I finally agreed to counseling (I was in therapy on my own after I found out about the affair, but he wouldn't go for fear of being blamed for all that went wrong in our marriage). I just found his login info for eharmony and although we have counseling scheduled for tomorrow evening, he is still asking and answering questions to the women he is "matched" with...even this afternoon. Am I a complete idiot for wasting my time and money on counseling with him? I am doing fine on my own but have 4 children that we are co-raising.

2007-12-05 14:45:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous