Marriage & Divorce - 5 December 2007

Been together 8 years have 1 child BUT we live with his family, still haven't gotten a ring. Is it best I move on??
Or should I give it more time?

2007-12-05 06:13:52 · 18 answers · asked by papoose52cat 1

could be making things up? This 26 year old said he had
a 6-month affair with a nympho teacher. (of a different race.)

2007-12-05 06:12:38 · 7 answers · asked by judy f 3

I am the type of girl that has always gotten along better with guys than I do with girls. So I have many close guy friends that I have been friends with for several years, but my boyfriend of two years always gets jealous when they call, or see that I have talked to them via text message on my phone. I dont talk to these friends everyday, or even every week for that matter. We both have busy lives, but it is nice to touch base every now and then.

Why does he act like this? I have never cheated on him, and have never given him a reason to think other wise. This man is talking about marriage, but I dont want to be 'trapped' in a marriage where I cant talk freely to my friends.

Any advice on how I can get him to back off? And please dont advise me to leave him, because he is a good man, and I love him. I dont think I should leave him because he gets jealous.

Thanks in advance for all your help.

2007-12-05 06:12:11 · 21 answers · asked by MayMay 4

I was getting ready to take the dog for a walk and happen to be standing by the front door. I looked up to see my husband's truck go by. I know it was his truck because he has a decal in the back window that only he would have- it was personally made for him with our daughters' names on it.

I watched him fly by- VERY FAST- like he couldn't get by the house fast enough. He's supposed to be out of town at work. I called his cell to ask why he was already off work and he said he was at work. I said "I just saw your truck" he said "No you didn't my truck is right here."

Last week, he had car trouble and I had to go pick him up- he was about 10 miles south of town. He works north of town. He said he was out there dropping a friend off, but now I'm wondering if that was true. He'd never mentioned this friend before, yet claimed he had given this friend rides home before.

We have a good marriage. We don't fight. Sex life is fine. But this seems odd. What do you think?

2007-12-05 06:08:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 06:04:46 · 25 answers · asked by ilovecats 1

I have been married 2 years, my husband is very controlling, it is either his way or no way, and we have been fighting for about a soild year now. It got so bad that i actually left him a good job and moved back home with my parents. Out of the 2 years we have been married i have gained about 20 lbs. I am not fat by no means average i would say, but he told me that i was letting myself go and he couldn't be with someone who does that. The mean things he says to me i can't forget. I am tired of walking on egg shells around him. I do love him but not like i used too. There has been to much damage done. I know the best thing for me to do is get out. But i don't know how to do this. I am 21 years old and still in school. I have a job and family and friends to support me but he makes me fill guilty about how i fill. I don't know what to do.

2007-12-05 06:02:22 · 52 answers · asked by Sasha C 1

We have been together for 14 years 7 of which we have been married. He says i'm not because he worked for it not me .I am a homemaker and we have 3 children together. Any information would be helpful. Thank you.

2007-12-05 05:59:09 · 13 answers · asked by Christine 1

You never hear about it ...

2007-12-05 05:55:10 · 15 answers · asked by Me 3

I went out with friends after work and when they all left, I bumped into this guy. I don't know how I could be so foolish, but 30 min later I am in a hotel room with him.
When I didn't come home my husband called a couple of friends. When he found my car outside the restaurant he filed a missing persons report. The police then went looking for me and eventually found me in the hotel room the next morning. My husband and kids came to the hotel because they thought someone had kidnapped me. When he saw me he hugged me and was crying because he was so worried. When he found out what had really happened, he turned white, and then threw up.
It's been a week now. EVERYONE knows what happened. I am so ashamed of myself I don't even want to open my eyes. I can't look at anyone. My 19 year old son looked straight at me and called me a worthless wh or e. My husband has barely said anything to me.

2007-12-05 05:46:59 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm gettin married and dont know anything!!!

2007-12-05 05:39:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

became friends with a single waitress from Hooters to the point where you stumbled across an email from hubby to waitress (platonic content, it was a link to an online quiz, quiz was sexual orientation that he sent to several other people).

She invited us both over to her house and we went and had a nice time. There was no flirting or any inappropriate behavior. Anything was probably imagined on my part.

But, now you know that they also have exchanged cell phone numbers, as that is how we got directions etc.

How would you handle this situation? To be paranoid and create possible turmoil for no reason? To let it go and possible miss some signs that should be paid attention to?
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2007-12-05 05:39:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother in law is having a paternity test done. My husband and I are having the results e-mailed to us, so we will be the first to know. How do we tell him if it comes back that he is NOT the father? He is going to flip out.....

2007-12-05 05:37:59 · 18 answers · asked by dw 1

my friend who is 28 has been in a happy marriage for 4 years but in the last 9 months she has been having an affair with this guy from her work. she now thinks she is pregnant with this guys baby. she has been asking me for advice on what to say to her husband as they have not had sex for 2-3 months. Help!

2007-12-05 05:36:50 · 33 answers · asked by Lucy B 1

We decided Wednesdays and Saturdays are daddy days. However, my son's father doesnt drive, so I always do all the driving. The ex lives about 35 miles from my home, and I work not quite halfway between my place and his. . . about 12 miles from my house. My grandma lives about 2 miles from work.

Last night some coworkers and I went out for Happy hour, and I dropped my son off at my grandma's. After I pick up my son, I realize I had to go home and sleep on the couch because my mattress was outside drying out all day and I cannot lift a Cal King mattress alone. So I asked two male friends (very old friends whom I've known considerably longer than my son's father) who live right next to my grandma's if they wouldnt mind helping me out. They also dont drive, so I said I would take them to my place then drive them back.

So my ex gets PO'd that I would drive to have them handle my mattress situation, but not to go and pick him up so he could do it (alone?) and also get to see our son.

2007-12-05 05:35:54 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is 52 and is spending a lot of time w/ a young woman from work (28 single and pretty). I found some pictures of them posing very affectionately on several outings including a harbor cruise, sightseeing on a supposed work related trip (seperate from colleagues) and an overnight trip to see a ballgame out of town. (3 hour drive each way with limo and driver) He has the money but does anyone think that he would book 3 rooms (his, hers, drivers) to go to a baseball game? I have learned that they also have dinner together frequently. I also learned that he spent $500 on a long cashmere coat for her, and sent her roses on Valentines day. We have 3 young children and I am wife #3. I am getting prepared to confront him and wanted to see what opinions others may have.

2007-12-05 05:34:43 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't want to be hurtful or mean when I do it, and yes I am very scared what he will do when I tell him so I want an easy way as well as nice way.

2007-12-05 05:34:07 · 6 answers · asked by Qtpie2773 1

2007-12-05 05:25:21 · 29 answers · asked by frustrated 3

iwill be going to rehab after the new year and i am going to be in groups for people who are waiting to go to rehab. i need to get my mom a girlft what should i get her

2007-12-05 05:23:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 05:21:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I work for my ex. We have been working together for 4 years. He owns the company and I'm the admin VP. This morning he was waiting for me at the office with the company's lawyer, he wants me to see a spychologist to deal with my divorce issues and the company will pay.......and if I refuse that I will be kindly asked to leave.

I am in my office crying all the tears a body can hold.

I don't know what to do, yes I have issues and I can not afford a good sphychologist that would help but on the other hand this meeting was so humiliating I could die right now.

2007-12-05 05:13:55 · 30 answers · asked by Jane Marple 7

My husband and I are celebrating our 2nd year anniversary on new year's eve. We are going to be stuck at my grandparents' out in the country. I want to take some time out to just be together. We just had a baby and had a really rough year. I want him to know I love him and for us to feel special. Any ideas. It is hard with other people being around.

2007-12-05 05:11:48 · 7 answers · asked by Jenn 2

it is hard on the kid but it is hard on the adult. the other parent is ruining my kid and I dont know what to do.

2007-12-05 05:09:49 · 3 answers · asked by Amie 2

2007-12-05 05:04:55 · 18 answers · asked by mama bear 1

2007-12-05 05:02:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend jim-bob want to get hitched next month but we just found out that were cousins on my momma's side. We found out when I took him to my family reunion in calcutta ohio. Because my momma's uncle is his long lost daddy that got released from prision for beatin up them homosexuals. should I still marry my feller.

2007-12-05 05:02:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 04:50:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 04:33:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 04:32:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i live with my sister and her husband and it seems like they fight alot or there is always tension in the air...how do i deal with it? its hard because i dont want to get involved or in the middle but at the same time it sucks because its stressful.

2007-12-05 04:29:49 · 7 answers · asked by moviestillofaheart 1

He just wants to get divorced and get it over with.

2007-12-05 04:29:28 · 13 answers · asked by Lynn V 6