Help!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

I'm gettin married and dont know anything!!!

Answer 1

Well, join the crowd. What do we truly know before we get married? No one here has the answer or the future for you. Everything you need to know is inside of you.

Answer 2

You don’t NEED to know anything.

Best advice:

1. TALK during sex. Ask him how it feels. TELL him how it feels. TELL him what you want. Make this your habit from day one - don't be all SHY and do it with the lights out. COMMUNICATE.

Ummmm, let me repeat that. Make this your habit from day one, and forever and ever until you die.

2. Really don't know what to do? Go to the local newsstand. Buy "Penthouse Letters" – get a couple of issues. This month, last month. (You will want to subscribe - comes in a discreet, black plastic mailer.) It's got some pictures in it, but mainly it is people writing in, telling about their experience. Passionate, detailed, enthralling.

Holey-moley. There's some interesting stuff. BUT – READ IT TOGETHER. You'll laugh and chatter, and play through a couple of letters (might learn something!), and then - poof - the magazine falls to the floor....

3. Visit a sex shop BEFORE wedding night and get some water based lube. “Wet” is a good brand. (Water-base – will not make condoms fail.) And get QUALITY, lubricated condoms. Take a peek at those replica..ummmm you-know-whats. Buy one - you're not coming back here for a while. And get a good one - not the $7.95 cheapie.

4. Don't watch porn (together or alone) initially. It's too graphic. Save it for later. Several months later (or longer).

The "Letters" let you play the movie in your head - the prefect theater - and you can skip around, etc.



Everything else will come naturally.

Try everything once, dear. And some things need to be done many times to perfect. Strive to please him, and find subtle ways to encourage him to please you.

It's the most wonderful thing you two can share. Enjoy, do not be shy - and constantly explore to make it better.

Answer 3

Well no sweat, at least you are going in with no preconceived ideas of rivers of milk and honey. Do not get me wrong I love my wife and my family however there are always challenges to anything. As my wife and I ran into issues related to marriage or just life we tackled them head on together. Again there can always be a surprise or two like my in laws they turned out to be complete Jerry Springer material but they were dealt with and have not been part of our lives for 9 years. But in general if you and the man you marry are in love you should have no problems as long as you work together. Hey another tip always give more to the marriage than you take, that goes for both partners. Good luck and best wishes enjoy your wedding because hopefully it will be your last!!!!!

Answer 4

No one does! Do not worry! There is no handbook on how to be the perfect wife or husband! Same thing with having kids. Obviously your relationship is strong enough to have gotten you both to this point! So right there says you are doing everything right! Just continue to be best friends and communicate! You'll be fine! Good luck and Congrats!

Answer 5

I've been married for 14 years and still don't know what I'm doin'

If you love him, you'll both figure it out together. That's kind of the fun part of the adventure anyway.

Answer 6

First, Relax......Take a breath........Now if you love him thats all you need to know, the rest comes to you by family, Friends, Books and Internet. Take it easy, as much planning and preperation you put into a wedding, it will still blow your mind when it happens. So take it easy, It is your most important day.

Answer 7

Nothing much to say here no one knows what is going to happen when they get married. It would be easier if you explained what you don't know in greater detail.

Answer 8

You don't know anything? maybe you should finish school before you get married.

Answer 9

Why are you getting married?,,Do you know that at least?

Answer 10

Hey just relax and speak to your parents and friends


Cheers