2007-12-05 04:50:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
don't give up, and hold out for the right one
2007-12-05 04:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sexually active but can't find a partner? Do you mean potentially sexually active? No doubt people will suggest DIY, but to be helpful, I would suggest making sure you are going to the right places etc. I am not much younger than you and in the local pubs, gym etc that I frequest I see many gorgeous women, but the majority are a couple of decades younger than me and have the attention of men yet to lose their looks, hair, physique etc, so I know my chances would be limited.
Another problem is that if you have been in a relationship for several years and then find yourself in the market again, you will probably be out of practice in respect of reading signals, judging the right things to do and say and when to do and say them. Perhaps that is why many people try the internet or singles columns in newspapers. Don't give up though, there must be a time and place for everyone and everything.
2007-12-05 14:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by Captain Chaos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
match.com and eharmony.com are great internet dating sites and great to meet the opposite sex. Make a profile of yourself with a good photo, your likes and dislikes and what you want in a woman..and wait for the 100 hits you'll get. Sort out the trash and call up the few that you like. Let it go from there. Try those two, as my friend met her dream guy on match.com and now they will be married next September. Romance still lives!!!!!!!
2007-12-05 15:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I am 55, I keep myself in good condition and I can't seem to find a friend, partner, whatever!! I won't settle tho' - I have been thru too much - I will hang in there til I meet a decent guy - and you should hang in there too! Don't give up!!!!!
2007-12-05 13:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by Babycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure your 51 and not 15
2007-12-05 12:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by Kernow 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
there are plenty of sights online to find other people to hook up with. And just like going out to bars, you have to sift through some dirt to find a jewel. Good luck.
2007-12-05 13:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(jackie007,you should be ashamed!,) your not over the hill yet hun,late night shopping at tesco! wine section,seriously though,have you got mates to go for a drink with? don't look as if your desperate,relax and have a good time,women are attracted to fun loving guys. gud luck
2007-12-05 19:15:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no significant other? No friends willing to pitch in? Nothing? No one? I would steer you towards a dating site if this was the case. But if you ARE married or otherwise involved, then I would try to get my significant other to help me out, even if there was no intercourse involved. There are plenty of other things to be done.
2007-12-05 12:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
join clubs for people in their fifties, you will find someone. My grandma is 78 and met a boyfriend at some elderly dance, they now live together and still go dancing every fridays. She is very happy. hehe, and they still have sex too.
2007-12-05 12:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by Brittney 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey mate 56 & still going like a20yr old lol women love us older guys believe me
2007-12-05 19:23:17 · answer #10 · answered by bob f 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean "Still" sexually active? Why wouldn't you be?
2007-12-05 21:33:25 · answer #11 · answered by Chewbydoo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋