2007-12-05 06:04:46 · 25 answers · asked by ilovecats 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1. Read the Book - The 5 Languages of Love by Gary Chapman
2. Learn how to Serve your husband - not in a maid kind of way but in a love kind of way....make it about him and not you.
3. Walk away from your Mom & Dad....emotionally.
4. Allow him to have friends and some of them won't like you....let him know that it's ok
5. Kill all Jealousy.......Women will want your man just because you have him.
:-) I hope this helps.
2007-12-05 06:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. don't start complaining about how bad your day was when your hubby walks into the door.
2. do not be insecure. You have nothing to be insecure about...
3. Love yourself. *If you don't love yourself, how do you expect your husband to?
4. Always go that extra mile for your husband
5. Honesty/loyalty/be bestfriends again
6. Do something with hubby that you normally don't like doing together...but something that would make him so happy!
Hope I helped a bit. Not sure of your situation, but you are being a better wife right now by trying. Read the book "Don't Sweat the Small things In love". It was a great book!
2007-12-05 14:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by sunnysideup 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tip 1: Let him "THINK" that he is right
Tip 2: Dont beleive everything you see or hear
Tip 3: love like you never loved before
Tip 4: Call just to say I love you and mean it
Tip 5: Give in 1/2 the time
2007-12-05 14:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
1) Do not nag.... this comes so naturally for most women that they don't even realize they do it
2) Put your relationship ahead of all others - ahead of kids, ahead of your friends, ahead of your sister or your mother, ahead of your career, etc.....
3) Learn to share some of his interests. I'm not saying you have to be a football nut, or like putting worns on the hooks while fishing, but at LEAST show some interest and engage in something HE wants to do once in awhile... watch a game or two with him, ask him questions about how the game works, strategy, etc..
4) Make love to him twice as often as YOU think is needed. This will at least begin to get towards a good compromise between your sex needs and HIS unvoiced wish for sex 2-3 times a day.
5) Let him fix things for you. A man needs to feel useful around the house. It doesn;t need to be big things - but let him feel like he's doing something great to help you out, or the family, or to make your home a better place. Men NEED to feel NEEDED.
2007-12-05 14:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by aa889d 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) Realize that males have different needs than females.
2) Don't do so much for him that you lose yourself.
3) Realize that washing/drying dishes together can be verrry sexy!
4) Don't jump on him about home problems the minute he gets home...wait til after dinner.
5) Never get so busy with life that you forget you're a woman...it's the reason he married you.
2007-12-05 14:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by Judith R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) Be loving and considerate.
2) Be thrifty and saving.
3) Work toward a common goal with your husband.
4) Make meals and clean up the mess.
5) Keep the house reasonably clean.
2007-12-05 14:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
1. no nagging....support the idiot even when he's obviously a step away from retardation
2. sex..ALWAYS...even when you have headaches
3. split the responsibilities..if you take care of the household take care of it (including the damn trash) he takes care of the bills and if the lights go out that's his damn business...go back to number 1 if you feel like saying something about it
4. be spontaneous
5. always appreciate the little things he does no matter how insignificant..again, men are retarded so you cant expect much from them
works for me all the time
2007-12-05 14:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Try to be indulgent to your husband
2. Keep the house neat and clean
3. Try to cook a good meal in the evening for him
4. Keep yourself dressing and looking attractive
5. Show your love by having a good sex life together
2007-12-05 15:18:25 · answer #8 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. learn reflective listening and nonviolent communication. Communication skills and listening skills are #1.
2. Find out what your husband needs and take action to meet those needs. You will have to listen to get there.
3. Do everything you promise or agree to do.
4. Give him the sex he wants.
Without knowing more specifics that is my general advice
2007-12-05 14:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by Sufi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the cat
keep the house clean
cook dinners
do the yard work
never have a headache
2007-12-05 14:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋