Marriage & Divorce - 5 December 2007

Ive never been able to tell them, they would just bang on about my health and money, I dont even ask them to my house incase i accidentally leave a lighter lying around, how sad is that!!?? I really think I should tell them now, how?

2007-12-05 09:38:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is in Iraq on a 15 month tour. My mother-in-law called today to tell me she got an email from him and I also heard from a friend of his that he was on MySpace and left a comments to at least two of his friends. What bothers me is that he managed to have the time to email/comment them, but not his wife. I haven't heard one word from him in two weeks and have been worried. It makes me feel like his daughter and I aren't important enough to let us know he's okay or just ask how we're doing. This isn't the first time he's done this and I've talked to him about it before...obviously it didn't get through to him. I'm so hurt and furious I could just scream at him. Do you believe that I'm overreacting or would you be angry and hurt too?

2007-12-05 09:36:44 · 19 answers · asked by ME 2

I just got married and now my husband has all kinds of health problems and i feel trapped and so unhappy....does anyone have any ideas on how to cope with all the stress??? FYI we are 21 years apart in age.

2007-12-05 09:27:43 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I foolishly never pressed charges against the guy I know that I should have though,especially now but I was in the army at the time 2. This is the third time I caught glimpse of him but this (today) is the first time he saw me back and now I know for sure its him. (he was a "friend" of who took advantage one night thinking he could "sweet talk" me into finding him attractive)
Yes, my husband knows what happened but never met the guy, and he pcs'd before he had a chance to really look for this guy. I never thought I would have to see him again and I could totally forget it and now when I see him I get choked up and find it hard to breathe.
So, right now, my husband is deployed, will thankfully be coming home for R&R soon and I dont know if I should tell him that I have seen that guy or not. I wish I hadnt seen him. I really want to tell my husband though but I dont want him to worry but then if I run into the dirtbag especially with my husband and he tries to talk to me then what?

2007-12-05 09:18:40 · 18 answers · asked by Jessy 5

Plz HELP! Sex makes me sick to my stomach, going places without him is awesome, he is so jealous of everything, even my girlfriends. I don't want to stay just because of the kids, they are old enough 17,13,12. I am scared to hurt his feelings!!!

2007-12-05 09:16:21 · 17 answers · asked by lilyjo 2

Wow.. so my ex-fiancee of a year just broke up with me and I can't stop crying my eyes out for some reason. I've been crying for hours straight just thinking about it. I am a total mess. She told me it was because she "lost interest and needed space" but I can't accept this! I just can't sleep, eat or stop crying and I hate this.

I thought we had everything together. I keep calling her but she keeps hanging up on me and I just hate it. What does need space mean!? Is it another guy!?

2007-12-05 09:12:08 · 43 answers · asked by aa 1

okie i recently broke up with my boyfriend and my ex bf before him is so happy that i am single again .....he is willing to leave his woman to be with me again.. well we've been together for 7 years before and still in love with each other... now he wants to have a baby.... i don't mind ...i love him to death would do anything to be with him again..and i know he loves me ..so should i?
p.s. remember he currently seeing someone and we separated cause he cheated....its been 1yr and 10 months separation.

2007-12-05 09:06:29 · 53 answers · asked by Tricia 2

Sometimes they eat all day long

2007-12-05 09:01:32 · 6 answers · asked by jacquie 6

My husband and I are expecting and well through out my years in knowing him hes always said he wants a little girl. WHich is fine by me im happy either way. Heres my question, we do not know the sex of the baby but im due next month and well, im worried if he doesnt get a girl he will be dissapointed in me. I know he loves and cares for me we dated for 4 years and have been married 2 1/2. I just dont want to dissapoint him, ive been able to give him anything and everything he has wanted etc(not just material things)but this is the one thing i can not control and i just dont want him to be upset, how do you think he will react? Has anyone else felt this way?

2007-12-05 08:57:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 08:55:49 · 13 answers · asked by Nyema 3

Been married 8 months. B4 my b-day he asks me what I want and I give him several reasonable ideas. All under $50 not that $ is an issue. On my bday I get nothing. He invites his parents over even though I have flu very bad and they don't even bring a card. I still haven't gotten anything and its 2 mo later. He knows feelings hurt but i don't keep bringing it up. He cancels plans with me (we rarely get to go out alone because of kids, he works a lot and sometimes out of town) like its no big deal. I thought he was just that way, but recently I notice he doesn't do that to anyone else. His parents asked us to come get Xmas tree with them and I said OK, but then told him I wanted to do it another day, not feeling well. He was so upset to cancel these plans. We see his parents several times/week and go on vacations with them. They are very nice people and treat me well but what gives? I feel bad and don't know what to do. Not like this at all before we got married. I treat him VERY well.

2007-12-05 08:55:07 · 26 answers · asked by Sushieater 1

I recently came home from jail (4 years). Before I went in my wife said she'll stick buy me. When I was in jail my wife refinanced the house and now the mortgage is through the roof. I have been home now for 3 month and unable to find a job (im actively looking). Now all she does is complain about bills piling up and how i'm not helping out.She didn't let me use her car to on everal interviews and I had to take pub. transpo. She constantly says i need to "be a real man" and hes more naggy and verbally disrepectful since I came home.Recently we mutally agreed that I stay with my brother until "we get ourselves together". When I call to come over or try to talk to her its just not there. I doubt it's another man because the bills are still past due. If I get a job and move on with my life separatly am I wrong. Or if she suddenly wants me back is she wrong. How would married women treat their husband if he fell on hard luck?P.S when I was working I contributed to everything. Im not a slob

2007-12-05 08:52:12 · 22 answers · asked by lifelongskinsfan 3

IS IT WISE TO LEAVE YOUR SPOUSE FOR SOMEONE YOU HAD AN AFFAIR WITH OR YOU THINK YOU LOVE, WE A BEAUTIFUL SON, I AM CONFUSED. WE HAVE BEEN SEPARTED FOR 8 MONTHS CUZZ OF THIS AFFAIR. I DONT KNOW IF I WANT TO GET DIVORCED.

2007-12-05 08:50:34 · 13 answers · asked by Pete 1

2007-12-05 08:44:57 · 25 answers · asked by vw 1

My husband a friend, he can talk to her on a personal level.
He use to talk and text her all the time until I said something. It has slowed down since then. But know he wants my permission again to talk to her. I told him it bothers me for him to even talk or text her. He says Im being paranoid. Please help WHat do you think?

2007-12-05 08:38:17 · 44 answers · asked by NERAK 1

My half sister and I have same father and different mother. Because of this discovery she feels that we are related through marriage and I don't. What do yall think are we related by marriage or not?

2007-12-05 08:32:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 08:32:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

How does she usually feel? Not judging anyone, I would just appreciate your honest opinions.

2007-12-05 08:30:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

He works in a office and he doesnt like tools he said he likes books but i think it is not enought and romantic for a wedding anniversary

2007-12-05 08:22:10 · 6 answers · asked by leo 1

How do I find out if I'm sexually satisfying my wife. I ask her and she says yes, but how do I know if she's just being nice. And also how can I found out how freaky she'll get without upsetting her. I know I could ask her but what if she goes light just to make me think she's not a freak. Which I would be totally ok with.

2007-12-05 08:18:03 · 22 answers · asked by lifelongskinsfan 3

lend his sister my rolex. His mom sends me a message that I need to have love in my heart. I didnt realize having love in your heart is lending someone a rolex. She wants to use it to impress her ex boyfriend and I am not comfortable lending out my jewelry. I dont even let my sister use it. They used to let me use their bmw and compare the two. I told him bmws have insurance and its totally different. I worked so hard to buy this watch that I have always wanted. I would like some opinions. Now I think his family has very bad morals and values.

2007-12-05 08:10:44 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this is really weird but I do. I used to be very open and sexual around him but now it seems like we know each other too well and he is more like a friend than a partner. I do not feel comfortable being naked around him or having sex, especially with the lights on.. I don't know how to turn things back to the way they were.

2007-12-05 08:10:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 08:09:37 · 18 answers · asked by crystalt 1

I have been married for 3 years. This last summer, my wife cheated on me, I found out about it, and after a bit of fighting, I was able to forgive her and keep trying in the marriage.

Just last night, while using her laptop, I looked in the browser history and found out that she had created an account in the "singles" section of eHarmony.com . . . she was also looking up her ex boyfriend on myspace and looking at all of his pictures. Of course, I was upset when I found this. When I confronted her about it, she told me she went on eHarmony for "no reason" and that she could look at her ex's page all she wants. She actually got really mad and screamed at me over it just for bringing it up and being upset.

I feel like she is up to no good; she SWEARS she's not doing anything. Am I being out of line by being upset? What should I do??

2007-12-05 07:59:53 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Hunny and I have been together (finally after waiting forever) for 5 months. We have been the best of friends for 4 years prior to this. We're madly in love and soul mates for sure. I have never had such an awesome relationship with any man before. Our communication and team work skills as parents and mates is phenominal. He has three kids from a prior marriage and has been divorced for the past 10 years. I have a daughter from a prior reltaionship also but, I'm happy to say, I've never been married. I know that marriage is just a piece of paper to some people but, it's much more for me. Yes, we live together now with two of the four kids total. I love him so much!! He knows how I feel and I'm sure he feels the same way. My whole family is getting ancy as well....he's definately the one! Please help. How can I drop him a hint? Or should I just be totally honest and tell him I want to marry him?

2007-12-05 07:58:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yesterday i told what my wifes secret fantasy is. She wants to be with multiple men at one time while i watch. I get turned on thinking about it also and might let her do it. I want some married Womens opinions. What would come of this? How many women would do this if it was ok with their husbands?

2007-12-05 07:57:01 · 22 answers · asked by MJ 2

My husband was married before with a 9 yr old son who we have 50% of the time and alternating holidays. This is our yr to have his son for x-mas. Because of this my husband wants to spend x-mas with his family. His family is local and both my hus and his son see them weekly.My family is out of state and we only see then 2-3 times a yr. My husband told me the yrs he has his son for x-mas he does not want to spend with my family but his. On the yrs he does not have his son we can spend with my family. I guess i just feel hurt he would not want his son with him to spend x-mas with my family(who loves his son) who lives far away and don't get to see us much. Please tell me an I over reacting? Is the "deal" he want to do fair?

2007-12-05 07:52:24 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

Help me please, I'm pregnant and I'm afraid to tell my husband. You see, my husband has told me more than once that he wasn't ready for a baby and that we should wait a few years. My pregnancy was ill timed and I'm afraid to tell him. Im afraid that he'll be angry. Can anyone give me any advice PLEASE, I don't know what to do.

2007-12-05 07:48:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for almost 8 years and I have stayed at home with the kids while he has worked. He has never let me buy him anything for any of those important holidays or just because I wanted to. He feels that since he makes the money he will just buy for himself which means whatever he wants. I dont even get to buy for my friends and their kids or my neices for any occassion is this the way it should be if you stay at home and dont bring in the money?

2007-12-05 07:44:32 · 16 answers · asked by hotmoma1 1

For those of you who had the willpower to wait until you were married to make love. How long did it take you to become good at the physical act?

Did it take a few weeks of talking and practicing until you became an expert on what you and your partner enjoyed, and you didn't need them telling you to go higher, lower, softer, etc?

Did it take weeks, months, years, or only a few days? How often did you have sex when you were newly married?

2007-12-05 07:42:05 · 9 answers · asked by IrishFan2011 3