i live with my sister and her husband and it seems like they fight alot or there is always tension in the air...how do i deal with it? its hard because i dont want to get involved or in the middle but at the same time it sucks because its stressful.
2007-12-05 04:29:49 · 7 answers · asked by moviestillofaheart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just be glad you're not involved. There really is nothing you can do. Just know that they do that, and get used to it. But the number one thing NOT to do is take a side.
2007-12-05 04:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by Carimel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get angry at me, I'm just going to be honest because you sound just like me when I was younger and I needed someone to be honest with me. It didn't feel good at first but I am thankful for it now because now I see what an immature, selfish idiot I was: What does that say about you if you would still want to leave your child with her if she was as bad as you describe? Sorry, but take it from and idiot who has been in your same shoes. I'm just being honest because when I was younger I was also in denial about my shortcomings and it was easier to crucify someone else than to work on my own personality flaws. I'm not saying your sister in law doesn't have some issues, but come on, do you need her that badly to baby sit and help you with your wedding and shower? She's making excuses not to watch your baby? Hello? She's a drama queen? She's jealous? It sounds like you've been using her and she's tired of it. Someone had to be this honest with me at some point in my life and I finally grew up. I hope you take this advice with grace and understand that sometimes we have to look at ourselves when we start focusing on other peoples flaws too much. It usually turns out that it is your own self with the flaw, not the other person. Good luck.
2016-04-07 10:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when ever they are fighting turn up the music so you cant hear them or just get out of the house. or talk to your sister about it. and say that you are worried about then fighting all of the time.
2007-12-05 04:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by smartgirlathome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore, ignore, ignore. There is no way to stop it, you really can't get invovled without causing more issues. So put on some earphones and listen to music and keep nuetral no matter what!
2007-12-05 04:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by Rebecca W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You move out and stay clear out the line of fire until you do. I would be there as little as possible.
2007-12-05 04:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out.
2007-12-05 04:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You handle it by moving. It is their relationship, to with how they see fit, disfunctional as it may be.
2007-12-05 04:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by just me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋