why did you get a divorce? what reasons? Did you or your spouse want to BECOME SWINGERS?
2007-12-05 15:42:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In a round about sorta kinda way we were "swingers." He swung and cheated. So what I did was swing his *** right out that door and divorced him.
2007-12-05 15:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
My first marriage went south because we were married when I was 21 and she was 19 and as we grew-up we grew apart. We weren't the same people with the same dreams at 30 that we were at 20, mostly because we didn't have a well defined sense of what we wanted from life at 20, were just taking it day by day.
Now I've been with my second wife for 10 years and we've been swingers for the last 4 of them, we are very happy in our life together, VERY much in love, and there is no end in sight for us together.
2007-12-06 09:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriages generally break when the minds of husband and wife are not compatible with each other. If hour likes and dislikes do not agree, the end result is divorce or breaking up or separations. According to psychology, friendships and relationships are successful if the tamperaments are identical and both think in the same direction in the same situation. Good Luck and do not come in direct or acute angle with your husband . You should love him and he should also love and respect you. Then your marriage will be successful. good luck again.
2007-12-05 16:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope. We didn't wanna become swingers. That wasn't our problem. We got married young and for the wrong reasons.
2007-12-05 15:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by grneyedgrly 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actually becoming swingers was a MAJOR factor for the demise of my first marriage....
2007-12-05 15:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
She developed a relationship with a fellow coworker after 15 years with me..Her friend told me that she almost came back home after she left, but now 13 months later thank you *** and have a great life!..I have found someone a million times better...Karma does work...=)
2007-12-05 15:54:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Vodka was a bigger priority than the institution of marriage. Vodka is always there when he comes home at 3am. Vodka doesn't talk back. Vodka doesn't complain about his insane family. I hear they are now very happy together.
2007-12-05 16:27:10 · answer #7 · answered by speedy ski 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nope. My marriage ended because my ex was a long time pot user and drunk. Everyone else in the world was more important than his wife and kids, although the kids rated higher than me.
2007-12-05 15:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No cheating...no swinging...he's bi-polar and screwed with his meds to the point where it was rediculous....on top of that add mental & emotional abuse when he was manic......and yes,the abuse threatened to become physical. So when he walked out (not for the first time)...I let him go...best thing he ever did for me lol.
2007-12-05 16:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by The Original GarnetGlitter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating. Not interested in swinging. Why get married in the first place.
2007-12-05 15:47:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋