Ok im a newly wed and we been having trouble with the relationship..he keeps receiving Naked pictures of a girl that he works with..I have cought him with those pictures twice and i confronted him!! But he would always tell me that those pictures didnt mean anything to him and that he would make sure not to receive those pictures anymore..he promised and he said that he Loved me and will stop right away..i believed him and forgave him.. But today i check his email and guess what i find? yup, new naked pictures of that same girl..cuz he would receive the pics in his cell and then from his cell he would send them to his email..He thought he was sleak..(the only reason i go thru his stuff is cuz he brokethe trust that i had for him) What should i do now? is having naked pics of a girl/boy u work with acceptable if your married? He promised to stop and he didnt should i forgive and forget or just leave him for good? is this cheating?
2007-12-05 07:39:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Since she's obviously sending them to hubby to get some attention, why don't you give her some attention. Make copies of them and show them around to everyone he works with and ask them if they know the girl and if so, if they could return the pics to her.
2007-12-05 10:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you would call that cheating,but the way I look at it is it can turn into cheating. He is not telling you the truth an he doesn't care about huting your feelings. If he doesn't stop I would leave him because you should be the only one who he sees naked. Good Luck and I hope he changes because you deserve a good husband.
2007-12-05 07:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is absolutely not acceptable behavior... Even if the photos were unsolicited, the fact that he forwarded them from his phone to his personal e-mai laccount signifies that he is looking at the pictures.
I would immediately get to coules councelling, but it doesn't sound like this is something he wants to work out if he's already lied to you about it several times.
Seek counseling, but if he doesn't participate and try to come to a resolution and stop fraternising with this 'lady' I would say it's time to call it quits.
2007-12-05 07:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by vanessa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking this question...? You know it's cheating. You know how I KNOW you think it's cheating? Because you said your trust for him is broken AND you are checking his email because of it.
If you like having no trust in your marriage, stay married. If the marriage is less than six months, I say get it annulled. Let both parties walk away. I don't think this can be worked on.... he obvious has zero respect for anything you say... considering he keeps lying to you.
2007-12-05 07:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not acceptable. Yes, it's cheating. Don't say anything to him just yet, keep checking and doing your homework see what else pops up in that phone. Maybe one day you can actually pop up at his job and see how they interact with each other and how everyone else acts when they see you.
2007-12-05 07:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by madeam3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. He is a liar and a cheater. If my hubby had naked pics of a girl he worked with I'd rip his n*ts off
2007-12-05 07:42:47 · answer #6 · answered by natasha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's twice<> need more he will get more curative>She has issues>And he won't say NO>Seem a shame he married you for what reason>>?? Myself I would be gone>Before he give you something life long>Be safe>It would be a shame if they ended in syber space>
2007-12-05 07:47:33 · answer #7 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go up to him and say either you will stop getting naked pictures of girls or we are done. you have to talk to him so he knows that you mean business or he will keep on doing it. if he doesn't stop then i would get a divorce.
2007-12-05 07:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by smartgirlathome 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No!!! Duh, thats horrible of him!!!! He should get one more chance from you and thats it. You could also try asking im why he would even want to see naked pictures of someone other than his wife in the first place.
2007-12-05 07:43:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
RUN! Now! and FAST!
2007-12-05 07:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by mikeehr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋