Scenario: his second marriage, her first (both married 8yrs)
She left for 1yr, came back (went to another country - didn't keep in contact with husband) When she came back she accused him of not paying joint bills when they were together, yells at him in front of coworkers (they called her psycho) to get his attention - he at first wanted nothing to do with her.
Her family upset at her for leaving him
His 1st wife (he has child with her) upset at him because of chaos/disruption in sons life - son loved 2nd wife before she left
Husband takes 2nd wife back - both try "dating" again ~ he insists on sep. bank accounts, expecting 2nd wife to "freak out" at any time.
Husband also desperate to be in relationship. Very lonely when she left. Didn't find new gf while she was away. Gives wife 2nd chance even tho "he never gives 2nd chances"
Match made in heaven or hell? Do 2nd chances work? For 2nd marriages too?
2007-12-05 14:32:45 · 8 answers · asked by Azul 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes! This will all work out... just not the way you want it too.
Good luck. Accept life on life's terms and you will find happiness.
2007-12-05 14:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in hell, she left for a reason you need to find out that reason first before you make another move, also seperate accounts nd prenup would be great if its not too late id look into that. you should also think about your son before yourself seeing as he sees eveything that goes on whether you think so or not. But i think second chances work but will be more awkward then the first.
2007-12-05 22:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by brenpren07 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes second chances sometimes work. I left my husband shortly before I married him. Had huge wedding jitters and bolted. I disappeared for close to a month. ( not my proudest moment). Then we got back together and got married and we have a baby, and it's great. It worked out thanks to him.
I would say the 2nd wife is lucky to have this guy.
2007-12-05 22:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by Snackles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like a bad soap. I totally believe in second chances and know that when two people communicate and commit to making things work, nothing is impossible. time will tell.
2007-12-05 22:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2nd chances, 3rd chances, it doesn't matter how many you give them, if you love someone enough, and want to be with them no matter what the circumstances are, you will give them a million chances.
2007-12-05 22:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by tiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like a bad scenario-he should get a new girlfriend
2007-12-05 22:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm dizzy, discombobulated, and perplexed just trying to read/understand this!!! It is too confusing!! Sorry. 2-points Yeah!
2007-12-05 22:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i cannot keep up
2007-12-05 22:44:49 · answer #8 · answered by Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋