i have always thouth of who i was with my mate.. had equal share..to what i had. i had a credit account with 850 dollars..with radio shack.. my bf max it out..i had to remind him of his kids,, and put it on my other card..no mention of what i may like..he has not got me anything.. but everytime we go to the mall it is a new jeyersey.. is all guys like this
2007-12-05 14:32:56 · 9 answers · asked by vis 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i spelled that badly.. what i mean is a nfl jersey.. and he seems not to think of other people but him self
2007-12-05 14:34:11 · update #1
and when he max out the account it was a xbox 360.. and he use the whole xmas thing.. and paying for other people thing..
2007-12-05 14:35:33 · update #2
Drinking and typing should be illegal.
2007-12-05 14:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you were both working and had a joint account, all expenses outside of the home needs should be consulted first before purchasing it. If one party only knows how to spend without regard for kids and other stuff, then I strongly suggest you stop the joint account and open up your own account and never use a credit card and have your name in it if your spouse can't control his spending itch. Tell him half of everything you both earn goes into an account and should not be touched unless if it was an emergency and only for the kids, house, food, utilities, etc. All other stuff - he can buy with his own money and not touch your half as well. But the minute things get short and need extra cash - he shouldn't expect you to pay for it all. He also has to share in it. if he isn't amenable to this set-up, tell him to take a flying leap somewhere far far away.
2007-12-05 14:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by Equinox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, my husband is the same exact way. He doesnt' run up the cards, but every mall is about the jerseys, the figurines, or the hockey equip
2007-12-05 14:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you and the boyfriend are a 15-year-old couple based on what he bought and how you type.
2007-12-05 15:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by primalclaws1974 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds selfish-get those credit cards back and tell him you cancelled them-only use them when necessary. Good luck-he's immature
2007-12-05 14:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to remind him AND YOURSELF that this guy is your BOYFRIEND. He's not your husband. He has NO right to use your cards for anything without your permission....and if you are allowing this, you are acting FOOLISHLY!!!!!!!
2007-12-05 14:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him and the credit cards
2007-12-05 14:41:48 · answer #7 · answered by Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um no not all guys like this.
2007-12-05 14:35:53 · answer #8 · answered by iluv2hateboyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?!?
2007-12-05 14:36:03 · answer #9 · answered by MiaMonique 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋