2007-12-05 02:42:26 · 8 answers · asked by varsha g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are in love then good for you..
Marriage is your choice not your parents choice - do what YOU are comfortable doing - your parents shouldnt have a say in who you marry
2007-12-05 02:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are younger, like ages 30 or under, and do not have a terminal illness, then I would say you should wait. People are becoming increasingly immature about staying married despite all the promises of staying together forever.
Divorce court is extremely prejudiced against men, especially fathers. You will become a slave to your ex if this happens, unless the courts change, but I dont see that happening unless a widespread FBI sting happens to endict those court crooks.
The bottom line is, that if you love her and she doesn't know it unless she has a piece of paper in her hands from the government, then she doesn't love you back like you think. She is probably another psycho, or gold digger.
Psychos tend to find a cuckhold to latch onto that will be their patsie and do everything for them, then they ***** and complain that things aren't good. They talk like responsible adults but until they can hold down that for a few years without a marriage certificate, I would doubt their credibility.
2007-12-05 11:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by Le Nuez Vert` 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well talk to whichever of ur parent u r closer to. ask them to listen to u first. if they r angry just stay calm. try to reason out any disagreements. after all they r thinking for your best. don't expect a positive reply from them right away. let them absorb this first. let them know u respect and love them too. i am sure in sometime they'll understand your point of view.
all the best :)
2007-12-05 11:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by pandora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think first u should learn to frame your sentences properly.
Best think is have patience... wait for some time..
U both decide when to tell it to both of ur parents.
One fine day(if everybody's mood at home is good) call him to ur house, you both convince ur parents. They will agree.
2007-12-05 13:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by Rani M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would your parents have a say in who you marry? Are you unable to support yourself & a wife without them?
2007-12-05 10:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by jen_ny6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I read this question three times and it still doesn't make any sense to me.
2007-12-05 11:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are i love who cares what anyone thinks if you two are happy that is ALL that matters GOOD LUCK
2007-12-05 10:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by heavenly_angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't really understand your question. Add details and rephrase it
2007-12-05 10:45:42 · answer #8 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋