When my bf and I got together 2 1/2 years ago he did not explain to me the true nature of his relationship with this girl. He led me to believe that it was a casual thing when it wasn't. Now I realized that he did not even have time to get over her. Am I the rebound girl and what should I do? Sometimes I feel that we should take a break and let him see if he wants to be with her.
2007-12-05 01:51:43 · 8 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you've been in a relationship with this fella for 2.5 years then you most certainly are not a rebound girlfriend. Talk with him and let him know how you've been feeling. Hopefully he can help put your mind at ease. Best of luck.
2007-12-05 01:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been in a relationship for two years and found out that he did not tell you the truth about girl he was involved with and told you it was casual and now you relize it was something more. I would not be pleased with this person at all and yes you are the rebound girl. If he has truly never gotton over this person he should have never got involved with you in the first place. Do what ever that will make you happy your important to.
best lof luck
2007-12-05 10:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 2 1/2 years u still askin if u a rebound then sumthin is wrong dont u think? he should be over her by now and if he's not then just dead the relationship
2007-12-05 09:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by iluvmeeee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
need some more info , like how long they were together. but seeing as that he has been with you for 2 1/2 year i doubt you are. i certainly woudnt date someone for that long if they were supposed to be a rebound!
2007-12-05 10:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be, but you have been together for a long time, I think that maybe in the begining, yeah maybe you were, now though i would say he has feelings for you.
2007-12-05 09:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably would be better answers from the singles/dating section as married people would probably tell you to get over it, get a life!
2007-12-05 10:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boot him to the curb, if he comes back, then maybe it was meant to be. Don't settle for second best.
2007-12-05 09:56:11 · answer #7 · answered by cooter726 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are a rebound and are second on his list.
2007-12-05 09:54:12 · answer #8 · answered by Dr S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋