After all, Bill Clinton said oral wasn't and that's with another human. I would really appreciate solid answers not smart aleck ones (although I know I'll get both).
2007-12-05 03:31:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am amused. Why the attacks on ME? I am asking clinically. My sex life is fine apart from porn.
2007-12-05 03:58:16 · update #1
Pornography is not cheating. It may lead to divorce but I don't think it is cheating. If the spouse has an addiction to porn, it could be a problem, but still not cheating.
2007-12-05 03:45:39 · answer #1 · answered by Jay's Girl 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
of course it's not considered cheating, unless you happen to be an Amish man. In which case, seeing another womans ankle (even by accident) is considered cheating. And of course, you'd be cheating on all the amish by using the internet. (i think it may be cause to put you to death actually) So if you're amish, STOP READING NOW, and RUN !!! The amish community will track you down !!! GOOOOO !!!
----If you're not amish, then NO, it's not cheating. Come on, seriously, get real. Half the movies made today feature nude women. Is it cheating if I watch the movie american pie (unrated version) ????
2007-12-05 11:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No type of porn is cheating whether it be internet or other. Unless masturbation is cheating or looking at things is cheating, how could it be cheating? Are you putting your penis into another person? No. That's a way stricter definition of cheating than Bill would use.
2007-12-06 21:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by Leroy J. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scotty,
If you and your significant other are not in agreement and are not upfront or honest about your "hobby"... then yes, I believe it is. If you look at it biblically...you're not even supposed to look at another woman with lustful thoughts. If you do, THAT is considered cheating.
Lastly, there is a book out there that talks about a man who started out happily married. Life went on they had 3 kids, they both gained about 20 pounds and all of the sudden the women in Vic Seceret, on the internet, in the magazines were so hot! to look at. It didn't take long for this man's disinterest and eventually disgust to take over in the relationship with his wife. She sensed his disinterest and the feeling that sex was not what it had been. There relationship was headed for divorce.
What next...what are the odds of finding a victoria seceret model to love and to love you!!!
This guy got smart. Started eliminating the visuals that promoted dissatisfaction with the woman he loved and the woman who loved him. He looked away when a woman had her cleavage lunging forward at him...he x'd out of the popups that lured him to porno sites.
Eventually he began to see his wife as the beautiful woman that he married again. He longed for her sexually and was rewarded with the love/fun that he wanted.
You are not evil for being tempted by porn. We are tempted by drugs, violence, cruelty, greed and laziness everyday. Do you want those addictions (although most think they have no addictions when they're the ones participating) to dictate in any way,shape or form the joy that you get out of real life? I hope not.
Fight the urge, be verbal with your significant other, ask them for what you want. Watch your love life get even better!
Sorry so long!!! Best of luck on your choices in life!
2007-12-05 11:49:34 · answer #4 · answered by Macy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah. As long as you dont have any physical relations with other. Some people just over react, although the Bill Clinton thing was funny. That was considered as cheating.
2007-12-05 11:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by Tay 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It honestly depends on what your wife thinks. Some women are fine with it and some aren't. I know a lot of women who feel both ways. I honestly don't care if my husband looks; he also has the since not to look when I'm home. If your significant other doesn't want you looking be sure to consider how you would feel about her doing the same before you press the issue too much.
2007-12-05 11:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Whether or not Bill Clinton considered what he did as cheating, I did and I do consider Internet porn cheating. there are physical affairs and affairs of the mind. Both ar just as bad to the spouse.
2007-12-05 11:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by M 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think alot of people look at internet porn. Its if you are chatting to people on these sites about sexual things when it crosses the line. So looking really isnt cheating.
2007-12-05 11:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by tarie75 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO, it isn't cheating at all. Nor is it to fantasize or masturbate thinking about other people. EVERYONE has fantasies and we all think about them from time to time. If it truly was cheating then everyone would be destined to end up in he11.
2007-12-05 11:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by No one 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are married or committed, internet porn watching together is awesome. Women who are against it just don't know how erotic and exciting it can be when you and your man watch it together. So, either watch it with him ladies or let him fantasize without you.
2007-12-05 11:36:05 · answer #10 · answered by Left Wing kool aid stops here 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋