2007-12-05 01:08:59 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
pictures of me on holiday (not in the swimming suit), pics of me and my husband, pictures of my pets.
2007-12-05 01:12:30 · update #1
What is wrong with you? YOU ARE MARRIED. ok? leave your ex boyfriends and flings behind ya! that will leave things on the safe side. what if your ex has intentions to get u back, and uses those pictures as blackmail? i dunno, u never know people these days...and really, someone u thought u knew might really not be that person at all!
move forward with your life and be happy!
2007-12-05 01:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hi. putting the question in this manner, the answer to it is a definitely a NO - No way. However we do not know all the story. Is your ex BF still a very good friend? What is your interest in him? Why is he asking you for the photos? What is behind your marriage? Are you happy with the way things are going? What urges you to contact your ex? What will your present husband say if you do send the photos? These are all questions you MUST answer before you make the move. I would even discuss it with your present husband - remember - if something happens you will still have to tell him. So do examine the situation carefully before you plunge yourself into something you might be able to leave behind any more. Good Luck
2007-12-05 01:13:36 · answer #2 · answered by Janine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are married so nobody will advice you to send it to him. But if you still want to share your pic, and if you are absolutely sure that the guy is fine and doesn't mean any harm, I would find a picture of myself in a group (where I m not alone), and upload it in some photo-sharing website, where he can find it by just searching for you. I would take the picture down after a day or two when I m sure he has seen the pic. But again...remember it is you who have to take a decision, since you are the best person to decide between one of the two actions - that of sharing and not sharing.
Good luck !
2007-12-05 01:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sending pictures or letters etc, sends out a bad signal and sets the stage for possible drama, I mean why? why? why? why? what is your reason behind this? You have nothing to gain, sure you can stick it in his face that you are now a married woman, kinda like look at what you had attitude, it just seems foolish and imature to send a ex anything while married to another man, because at the end of the day, what is this really about? Do you really think that in the heart of hearts your ex really wants to see what your frigging dog looks like? Put the past in your back pocket and move on, their is nothing to gain here but you getting self gratification out of the fact that you are now married, and do you think its ok for your hubby to send out pictures to his ex?
2007-12-05 01:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by penelope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is still a friend maybe a holiday card of you and your husband standing next to each other wishing him season's greetings. Why do you want to send him a picture? I would not send him any pictures or e-mails or texts that you would not be comfortable copying your husband on.
2007-12-05 01:13:52 · answer #5 · answered by George 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I suppose it would depend on the situation. If your husband doesn't approve of the friendship you and your ex have then out of respect for your husband I would say no. But if your husband is secure and is ok with everything then I don't see a problem with it. Some situations are different so you just gotta play your cards right.
2007-12-05 01:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by Rican Princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to send pictures to your ex boyfriend, particularly pictures of you and your husband on holiday? Makes no sense!
2007-12-05 01:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you think??? Would you want your husband sending pictures to someone he screwed before. Or even talking to someone he screwed before. And what if your ex still loves you and wants you back. And he decides to do something to your husband(hypothetically speaking) you gave him a picture, and your address on the envelope.
Good Luck
P.S.
Don't do it, it's not worth messing up your marriage
2007-12-05 01:16:59 · answer #8 · answered by Tha Blessed One 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Secrets within a marriage usually harm the marriage, either the one keeping the secret or the one being kept in the dark.
What is your motivation for sending pictures? Old BFs are your past; file it and move on.
2007-12-05 01:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by LDJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UM...why??? Are your husband and your ex best of friends or something?? Would your husband be totally OK with you doing this??
Why not just go ask your husband..... just be prepared to answer A LOT of questions, and don't lie.
2007-12-05 01:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋