Marriage & Divorce - 27 November 2007

My brother and his wife have been married just over a year, and the only slept in the same bed for a couple of months. Neither snores - but they do fight a lot. Is this a sign of divorce soon to come?

2007-11-27 06:21:50 · 24 answers · asked by monicanena 5

I ask the question, What are you looking for in a woman? What do you want? I really need your help. Is there anyone out there that can answer this question?

2007-11-27 06:16:56 · 11 answers · asked by Moe 2

My BF and I are considering getting married but still living separately. We are both in our late 30's, I have kids, and we both adore each other but enjoy living under our own roof. We think we'd probably drive each other crazy if we lived together, and that our love would have a better chance of survival if we lived separately -- obviously traditional marriage isn't faring so well, and think of all the issues that could be alleviated if you weren't in each other's face all the time! But it's way outside the box, and nobody I've asked about it has ever heard of it -- or has had a positive reaction to the idea!

2007-11-27 06:11:27 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you do and say!?

2007-11-27 06:06:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-27 06:06:00 · 11 answers · asked by abhindu 1

This is without your spouse knowing. What if it gets out of control and your sex life suffers because you are masterbating to online porn everyday? What if your spouse confronts you and you lie about doing it?

2007-11-27 05:56:41 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

He will be back in afghanistan this January and i want him to have a memorable gift from me.. But i dont know what to get.. Its our first x-mas together..

PLease Help

2007-11-27 05:54:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know what to do. The answer is obvious, but fear is so powerful. I have been In a relationship for over 15 years, we've been together since high school. We have two children, they are amazing. I had my son early at 20. So basically I've gone from living at home, to living with him. Our relationship has had major issues,known infidelity(on his part) of couse he won't admit. Abuse at first physical, emotional and verbal. The past 9 years have been drama free. Although I know I love him, I am so miserable and afraid that he'll cheat again. I've never been on my own. I will have a huge problem with him and custody. His income is our main source. I have mainly stayed at home with our kids. I have no family or friends that would be able to help temporarily. How can I leave? Should we seek counsling from our priest? Or family counsling. I'm so sad.

2007-11-27 05:51:00 · 23 answers · asked by monalisa_2 2

My husband used to be a drug user. He has been clean for 3 years and stayed away from his old "buddies". He has been doing very well and making a lot of good progress.

However, he has recently had run into one of these "buddies" and is going to be meeting up with him for lunch or something.

This "buddy" would stay clean, become tempted and then my husband and he would go and satisfy their addiction. His "buddy" ALWAYS got involved with drugs and my husband would follow. My husband is responsible for his own actions, but his “buddy” always makes it worse when my husband had been doing so well.

I have told my husband how I felt. I have told him that I disapprove of him hanging out even for a few minutes with this guy. He knows the consequences if he goes down that path. I told him that I will help him out as long as he’s helping himself. I told him that I feel that he is going to go back spiraling down again if he starts talking to this guy again.

2007-11-27 05:50:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

....use their body to get what they want from men?

2007-11-27 05:47:33 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I left my husband because he has a drinking problem. I wanted things to work out when I left but instead he found another girl and now they are having a baby in a couple of months. He wants to take my kids for Christmas break but he lives in Ga and I live in Va. Can I stop him from taking them? We haven't filed for divorce(I don't have a lawyer). Do I have a right to say he can't take them? I don't mind him seeing them but I don't want my kids to be around him because he still drinks and I just don't want my daughters in that situatuion with his girlfriend.

2007-11-27 05:46:08 · 17 answers · asked by lvbrdy4vr 1

I don't understand this. Why do people cheat when they have a good thing? why do people say that "he won't leave his wife/girlfriend/boyfriend for you"? If he is with me, then he have "left" his wife?

2007-11-27 05:46:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend who's husband has been making her feel bad about her weight. They were just married 8 months ago. In their whole relationship she has fluctuated in her weight at the most 15 pounds. So she hasn't been up or down real far. She used to wear size 8 jeans and now she wears a 12. This is not the first time he has made a comment one time he made a comment to her that she should start to use her treadmill and the other day he told her that she needed to wear a longer shirt because when she stands up her fat falls out. he make other comments like "you should eat a salad" or "you can still walk in the winter" small things but enough to make my friend feel bad. she has fertility problems and has been going through hormone treatments so she already feels bad about herself. what do you think she should do? oh also he is NOT a skinny man and has a few things he can fix himself.

2007-11-27 05:43:44 · 22 answers · asked by Karen M 2

2007-11-27 05:41:10 · 8 answers · asked by anahernandez04 1

I love my girlfriend. She is great! She is 17 and full korean. she recently moved to another state(like 800 miles away) and we have been together for a year and couple weeks. She doesn't have her green card so that makes things complicated. Her whole family doesn't agree with the living together thing before marriage. But i want to do that. And i knwo its not going to happen..If we get married, she said that she will live with me. Move down here and live together after marriage. Do you think after we get married, her mom will not let her come down her and screw me over? this is so hard for me. personally i want to marry her and live with her. But i don't want to be trapped. Does her family want the money? i think so. But my girlfriend truly loves me, vice versa. (and im us citizen) . please help me. thanks

2007-11-27 05:36:33 · 7 answers · asked by tom l 1

I make a decent salary and have two kids that will be in elementary school. If I quit, money wouldn't be a problem. Is this wise??

2007-11-27 05:32:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've had 2 myself but I take care of myself. I saw my ex'swife the other day she's like 300 lbs!! She wasn't that big before. I even said to him at first,"wow you have a very pretty girlfriend" Any how just curious..

2007-11-27 05:31:22 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-27 05:30:22 · 35 answers · asked by ∂ιαиα †Matisyahu† 7

If they said that they were having a hard time feeding their kids. Would you buy it? Would it depend on how many kids they have? Would you think "at least they have a job"?

2007-11-27 05:27:59 · 13 answers · asked by Cas 4

I left my husband almost a year ago because he has a drinking problem. I left him because it wasn't fair to our kids anymore. I left him so he could get better but instead he found another girl and now she is pregnant. He was paying $100 a week but he hasn't paid me in 2 months because he doesn't work. Now he is saying he doesn't have to pay me because of a 1099. I have no clue what that means. Does anyone know what he is talking about? His girlfriend lives in free housing,so he is just living the life because he doesn't have to pay for his kids and now he is living rent free. I take care of our 2 daughters. Must be nice to be him right now!

2007-11-27 05:20:42 · 32 answers · asked by lvbrdy4vr 1

me and my husband have unsolved issues over his pearant's and their medling in our marriage , my husband always take their side and we fight over this, one day after a long argument and fight he threatend he will hurt me < i called the police , and he was so upset because I called the police , and at the same night when he came back from work we continued the fight and i threatned him if he does not leave the house. he left the house and called the police from outside and told them my wife is threatining me , what do u think about his behaviour , and does he hate me by doing thid , should I stay or leave him ???

2007-11-27 05:20:06 · 17 answers · asked by sunshine 1

My husband has hidden all scissors and cutting implements so I cannot do a self haircut. He said: "I don't know where they are, and neither do you, and it's going to stay that way. If you're going to get a haircut, why do you need to cut it yourself?" :D Does he care what I look like, or does he just want me not to make myself look like a punk and get fired and have no money for him? Oh, he also said: "I have a razor. Do you want to just shave it all off?"

Have a great day, guys! I'm going to go find something else to do and not notice how nothing I do matters (if it's for home.)

2007-11-27 05:18:18 · 8 answers · asked by dumbuglyweirdo 5

Cant 2 people be happy and in love without social apporoval of marriage??????????

2007-11-27 05:16:30 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been in a relationship for 10 years out of those teen years, I have been married 2. My husband is abusive. I wont to leave, but I am hoping that things change.

2007-11-27 05:10:37 · 21 answers · asked by Mika B 2

I know a lot of married men like to flirting with me...
do you feel the same way as I do ?
thks for answering..

2007-11-27 05:03:17 · 15 answers · asked by back2future 5

in married and divorced....however my 9 month old cat went out two days ago, he left a Tom and came home with out his doo dads this morning.......anyone else ever had this happen? My husband and I are kind of freaked out. This is a true thing...it is really weirding me out.

2007-11-27 05:00:13 · 11 answers · asked by Rein 5

and you weren't getting along with your spouse, you weren't having sex and their seem to be no attraction/connection, would you be tempted to have an affair with someone? Think about it and be honest. Don't just respond to look good.

2007-11-27 05:00:09 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-27 04:50:33 · 25 answers · asked by kayville 3

I've been talking to a guy for about a month who wants to be friends w/benefits & hopefully become more. We've been texting everyday. He wants us to be careful so that neither one of us end up hurt.(I just got divorced)He's pretty sick right now so the last few days we haven't been texting as often or calling each other. I miss him though! He told me last week that he misses me. I don't want to be too clingy but I want to text him or call him all the time! lol...I don't though. How often is too often to text or call throughout the day? I want him to have a chance to miss me...but not forget me. We live 45 minutes away from each other so we don't get to see each other real often. Is it too soon to be telling him I miss him & want to see him again...since I already said it the other day? lol...I know it may sound cheesy but I'm used to being married not single! I want him to know how I feel but not be scared. What do you think is off limits to say at this point?

2007-11-27 04:47:40 · 10 answers · asked by love my life 2

I got married 08, april 2006 untill now my husband had sole my moto bike, phone to play gambling. so I don't want seperate from him but I want to stop him from that. Can you give me some advice to correct him?

2007-11-27 04:45:27 · 10 answers · asked by thy c 1