Marriage & Divorce - 27 November 2007

When you want to do it, but when your partner is either POD'ed, sleep, or whatever. Right now I'm playing on the computer *here*, but what can really get your mind off of the feeling of rejection and being ignored?

2007-11-27 16:14:59 · 6 answers · asked by goldenchilde11 2

My husband and I have been married for three years and just this year he decides to stay at home for christimas and say we are not going to anyone elses home. (my mothers his mother) I recently had a suprise birthday party for him where I got both families together and he couldnt tell but it didnt go over to well long story but basically mother in law was rubbing taking kids to the park in my mothers face and only to her as if she should get grandmother of the year. Anyway they dont get along . How can I tell him that we cant invite both families at the same time I mean I just cant say my mom dont like your mom. He already thinks I dont like her because I point out that she likes to lie alot . And to be blunt you cant fix stupid or dumn and she is just as country dumn as can be but I am nice about that point I keep this to myself. Please help what can I do.

2007-11-27 16:05:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

time? I don't care anymore emotion-wise, he's a cheater and a loser, but it would entail serious legal issues for me.

2007-11-27 16:05:05 · 12 answers · asked by Everybody's Favorite 5

I'm a fairly attractive male, reserved but talkative once you get to know me, very dark curly hair with gray highlights, blue eyes, age 21, tall, with a very slight Southern accent. I also can't get single women to talk to me for my life!

These are four very recent examples (with the last 12 months or less) of 20s-aged, attractive, bubbly, and married or engaged women hitting on me:
1. Just LAST WEEK, I had an engaged woman (who has become a friend just over the last 3 months) ask me if she could stay at my house when she moves to my town in January for a new job. She also asked me to Starbucks and gave me her phone # first!
2. I had a married woman at work, intelligent and cute with two kids, trying to leave her supposedly jerk husband and hitting on me very hard. I turned her down politely.
3. I had each another engaged AND married woman smile at me first in class and initiate laughter and conversations this semester--multiple times.

Help me understand, please.

2007-11-27 16:05:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I KNOW THIS IS NOT THE SINGLE SECTION, BUT THOUGHT I WOULD GET THE BEST ANSWER HERE.

I was dating this guy for a while & things were always hot & cold with us. He use to say he had issues with letting someone in based on what he went through with his ex-wife. I was dumb & thought that showing him how much I loved him would make him let go of his past. We had a big fall out with no closure & we cut all communication. About 7 months later he sent me a text message out of the blue asking for a gift back, but I quickly realized that was just a way to see if the lines of communication was still open like he did in the past so I did not respond. About two months after that text, I just started thinking about him. It's been almost a year since I have seen or talked to him, but I can't get him out of my head & I don’t know why. Part of me wonders if he was feeling like this a few months back when he sent that text.

2007-11-27 16:03:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a great mother, unfortunately, she married a really bad person. He murdered her. I was 14, I am now 48; I miss my mom, still, to this day. My mom was very successful, she was a Marilin Monroe look-alike, but with a multi-million-dollar sense about business. My step-dad killed her because she made a lot of money and he didn't and when he cheated on her, that was it, it was over. Since he couldn't make it on his own financially, he killed her. He got the entire estate.

He is still alive. He got away with murder. What happens to people like this? Do they live or do they die?

2007-11-27 15:55:24 · 6 answers · asked by wordtowise 2

2007-11-27 15:48:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

First of all, Our sex life is great. However I have a fantasy of having a threesome.My husband does not want to though, he says I am more than enough for him ect..And, well honestly I hear marriages get ruined sometimes, due to threesomes and that is the last thing I want, I love him. So my question is.What can we do in bed, that is similar to a threesome.Besides, a porno (We already tried).It just really turns me on, to think of him having sex with another woman.It's only when I am aroused though.Thanks in advance..

2007-11-27 15:38:16 · 13 answers · asked by BB 4

how come you're so hot?

2007-11-27 15:36:27 · 2 answers · asked by clark_jax 3

Before you were married, did you ever get in to a huge fight with your now husband/wife and not talk for days or months? Like you thought it was so bad that you would never get it back... but then it came together in the end.

2007-11-27 15:35:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

A wife who keeps an organized and clean house?

My kitchen is always a wreck.

2007-11-27 15:32:38 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I are getting married in Sept 27,2008,I love him with all of my heart. I just found out that he cannot have kids and I am very fertile and I don't have any kids yet. I love kids and I want kids one day,please give me some positive advice, I really need it.. Thanks :(

2007-11-27 15:31:11 · 9 answers · asked by honey 1

dated a guy for about 8 years. For the last three or four years I was miserable and just dreaming of a day I'd be out of a mentally and emotionally abusive relationship. We both were at fault for our problems. We started dating in high school when we were young and ignorant. I tried to end things with the guy for a year or so but he'd camp out at my house or do somehting crazier. I did love him because I spent many years with him. This year I finally broke things off with him. Since then I have become engaged to a guy we both met in college. I know this guy I'm about to marry is my soul mate. Recently I've been feeling bad for hurting my ex. I don't want to be with my ex because I know he's not right for me and my fiance is. Sometimes I just cry and hurt for hurting him but I am so much happier now and know I did what was right. Is it ok to be said for hurting him?

2007-11-27 15:30:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am just merely curious on this! I have seen also a married woman that just took the kids and ran away from the husband with another guy, because the wife was very unhappy with her first husband. Same goes for us guys. Skip the separation and divorce thing, just run away with another woman who appreciates the man. [come as you are type of deal.] Thanks guys for your honest answers.

2007-11-27 15:22:23 · 7 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

I am recently out of - getting out of - no, out of a very bad abusive relationship. I moved out June 1 this year after the extremely controlling jealous accusing wretch did what one expects from a controlling jealous wretch and cheated and whored around . . . the question is not about that horror story but rather about that I am beginning to think there is something wrong with me. I am an attractive, sexy, intellegent, college educated, funny, loving woman (size 7) and yet unless it's on-line dating I never seem to get asked out. X would go to his grave insisting that I was hit on left and right at work at the store at the gas station . . . but, yet I am not. I see men stare all the time let me repeat all the time but they never seem to approach - what's with that?? Am I giving off some vibe? Woment do you usually get asked out routinely in your work-place?? Or where? And Men, what makes you want to approach and show an interest - provided looks measure up???

2007-11-27 15:18:14 · 15 answers · asked by Springtime of my Loving 2

when do you really throw in the towel? I have 2 daughters and the last year has been really tough on the family. I was out of work for 4 of those months,,,now have a great job,,, i am a good dad(not a father). My wife is a great mom,, we have not slept in the same room probably going on or over 3 months. I am wondering if there might be someone else in the picture now. She has never been a real affectionate person,,, we've been married 12 years and dated several years prior. I have not cheated on her and will not cheat on her. I couldn't do that to my kids.

When do I throw in the towel.

2007-11-27 15:13:47 · 9 answers · asked by billy b 1

my husband would rather sit on the computer and play games then spend time with me and everytime I try to say something about it there ends up being a fight.What should I do?

2007-11-27 15:11:36 · 19 answers · asked by Mercedes Lynn 1

2007-11-27 15:06:02 · 20 answers · asked by banananutmeg1 1

i have 4 older kids from a previos marriage(18yrs), after 7 years away (lack of work in area) my x has poisoned me from my kids with stuff like a misquoted statement by current wife +6kids " well kids, your the secondary kids now..." i have totally refutted it to no avail....grandma and my sis have tryed to interviene.... it makes me sick to not have my kids not even call or visit me, i have even move back to area to help make amends... can any one tell me what to do or try??? how can an x be so cruel to me, i was a good and faithful husband and always took care of them, coaching hockey,softball, etc
i sent cards and call on phone with limited responces
courts in mich are worthless. they are now 24,22,20,16 i know time is all but lost, but dammit im still their daddy......

2007-11-27 14:59:00 · 15 answers · asked by craz4ourgod 4

2007-11-27 14:51:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need to cheer up! Has this worked for you? I think it would for me!

2007-11-27 14:46:55 · 71 answers · asked by Reading and Answering Your Q' 3

2007-11-27 14:40:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have no idea what vibe I give. It's beyond me.

What's strange is that I'm a fairly attractive single young male. People tell me all the time that I'm nice, kind, sweet. I am simply myself, charming. But, whenever I give a single woman my phone #, she seldom if ever calls me. As for a single woman giving me her #, she'll either never pick up or give me a wrong #. W-T-F?!!

Now, as for the engaged and married:
-I had a married woman, very intelligent and cute with two kids, trying to leave her husband and hitting on me very hard. I turned her down politely.
-I recently had an engaged woman (emerging friendship) ask me if she could stay at my house when she moves to my town in January for a new job. She also asked me to Starbucks and gave me her phone # first!
-I had each another engaged AND married woman smile at me first in class and initiate laughter and conversations this semester.

Maybe it's the "you can look but can't touch" rule. It's kind of discouraging to me.

2007-11-27 14:39:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

gives it up. Should I be worried?

2007-11-27 14:10:10 · 36 answers · asked by jeff b 4

I am having trouble deciding who to live with. i have always been a daddys girl but he cheated on my mom and she caught him so he moved out and i stayed. then me and my mom growed closer together but we still fight every now and then and its like my dad never left except for the hole in me. and my mom doesnt want me to contact my dad because she wants to see if he will contact us. i have only seen him three times since he moved out. but i love my mom. i have to decide who i want to live with my dad is a totally new and nicer person and said it was up to me who i decided to live with but i cant decide. before my dad was over protective and strict but now he is nicer and a new person. and i really miss him. what do you think i should do.

2007-11-27 14:07:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

should i leave him alone?

2007-11-27 14:06:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't mean "giving" me oral. I mean letting me give "her" oral. She finds it repulsive and thinks I can give her bacterial infections and she just refuses. We enjoyed this activity quite a bit before the birth of our second child, who is now 4yrs old.

2007-11-27 14:04:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you think if all of a sudden you started to receive calls on your cell identified as unknown caller and when you answered, noone says anything but just hangs up?
56 seconds ago - 3 days left to answer.
Report It

2007-11-27 14:02:54 · 13 answers · asked by ds 1

What are some really good reasons why same sex couples shouldnt be able to marry? Do you know any good website with good reasons?

(I am not against same sex marriages, I just would like to find more information for a speech I have to do)

2007-11-27 13:59:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I pay a lot of child support as well. My ex told me that I also have to pay for their basketball shoes as well since I signed them up to play.The sneakers will also be worn after the season so it is not just for basketball. I do not have money for that and I thought that is what child support is for.I have the email asking to buy the sneakers I would like to show the email to a state agency. Am I correct?

2007-11-27 13:56:08 · 12 answers · asked by paco 1