Why do I get many more hits from engaged or married women than from singles?

Question

I have no idea what vibe I give. It's beyond me.

What's strange is that I'm a fairly attractive single young male. People tell me all the time that I'm nice, kind, sweet. I am simply myself, charming. But, whenever I give a single woman my phone #, she seldom if ever calls me. As for a single woman giving me her #, she'll either never pick up or give me a wrong #. W-T-F?!!

Now, as for the engaged and married:
-I had a married woman, very intelligent and cute with two kids, trying to leave her husband and hitting on me very hard. I turned her down politely.
-I recently had an engaged woman (emerging friendship) ask me if she could stay at my house when she moves to my town in January for a new job. She also asked me to Starbucks and gave me her phone # first!
-I had each another engaged AND married woman smile at me first in class and initiate laughter and conversations this semester.

Maybe it's the "you can look but can't touch" rule. It's kind of discouraging to me.

I'll be honest, all of these girls I've mentioned are cute, sweet, bubbly, and intelligent. Often quiet, but flirty once they get to talk to you some.

Okay, fine, but these women are all in their 20s, just like me.

Answer 1

Maybe you need to improve your number exchanging skills with the single chicks. If you cannot see her phone, she is hiding it. When she gives you her number, don't write it down. Don't even let her write it on a napkin for you or something silly like that. Let her tell it to you, so you can program it into your phone right then and there. Call her after you programmed it to make sure it's the right number. If she gives you some story about not having a cell phone or not having her phone with her, she is either a loser or a liar. Either way, you do not want to deal with such a mess. So do the dialing immediately thing or find a woman with a business card. Not some lame fake business card, but a real card issued by a real company (with an address).

And if a woman is giving you a fake number, you are obviously missing the signs saying she does not want to talk to you. You must learn to connect with women and understand the communication (body language, facial expressions, etc) before you can expect to get their actual phone numbers. And stay away from the married women before you get some jealous husband chasing you with a gun.

Answer 2

Because you are young! Your sexual energy and their drive makes it explosive. Watch the classic movie Mrs Robinson with Dustin Hoffman, you won't ask any more questions. They also like it that you can keep a secret. So please the little ladies, have fun and keep your mouth shut! Everyone is a winner here. These ladies know what they want..

Answer 3

Because you are unable to see the way people see you.

Good luck.