I am just merely curious on this! I have seen also a married woman that just took the kids and ran away from the husband with another guy, because the wife was very unhappy with her first husband. Same goes for us guys. Skip the separation and divorce thing, just run away with another woman who appreciates the man. [come as you are type of deal.] Thanks guys for your honest answers.
2007-11-27 15:22:23 · 7 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hey abe,
i will never just up and leave my husband. thank goodness he's a great guy but if he were ever to turn into satan himself then i would get a divorce first and then run off. i think running off without tying up the loose ends and dissolving the marriage is a huge mistake. i mean even if the person you are leaving is horrible if you just up and leave and then find someone else i imagine you'd have a hard time convincing the judge that your spouse was the one at fault. also, i'd question the sincerity of any man who would just run off with a married woman. he's probably not going to be into it for the long haul and just thinks the idea of it is exciting in an immature way...the way i used to fantasize about running away with my boyfriend when i was in the 10th grade lol.
2007-11-28 00:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i'm a woman whos husband ran off after 7 years i never knew why. Just dont always blame the woman i'm a beautiful young lady inside and out. But i like a man whos honest and truthful my husband lied to me for 7 years and then he ws fired from a job because he lied and had a relationship with another person. The boss fired him and then told me. i then found out it was the 4th job he was fired from since then my ex and i are history he just up and left us when i confronted him nicely about it. we had a 2 year old daughter. he doesn't see her because hes been married 3 times since me and he was fired again and he doesn't pay child support. As far as i'm concerned he owes me. so if you thank another women could appreciate him i doubt it. Theres always going to be time when a woman doesn't appreciate a man.
2007-11-28 00:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by Tracey Fahnestock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the right thing to do is divorce the wife not run. Why run. walk away and be a man. become friends if you got kids too. start thinking of the kids and not yourself so much then you will know what to do.....
2007-11-28 15:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by daisy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
running away is one thing, but ....what happens when the romance sours, and the runaway has nowhere else to go. i can tell u first hand, it is NOT as easy as it seems......for all the horrible wives, there are just as many horrible husbands. one should think long and hard, especially when there are children concerned. and everyone deserves to be appreciated.come as you are..or come as u will be.~~?
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2007-11-27 23:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by ma. p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it interesting that my wife is my 4th and I'm her 4th,and our son is her 4th child,now after 6 yrs of marriage I'm thrown out so that the boyfriend she had for a yr can take my place,and she even told our 4yr old son that was his new dad.Running away is one thing,but being thrown out like the garbage?
2007-11-27 23:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldnt put that way but i do know what you mean but it plays both ways...
my x left me an my 2 son for my best friend...and i was a good beautiful wife a positive and hard worker so go figuer..
i gave him his divorcey to be with her if that is whr he is happier i dont want him arround me if i dont make him happy
2007-11-27 23:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by shayhi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right here!
2007-11-27 23:26:00 · answer #7 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋