Marriage & Divorce - 27 November 2007

But the problem we never reach the point that we agree..it gives me headache...though we stil talk and talk and talk.

2007-11-27 18:32:18 · 7 answers · asked by dikya 3

2007-11-27 18:25:53 · 9 answers · asked by curimao 1

by at least 10 years.

2007-11-27 18:25:20 · 10 answers · asked by umyeah 2

Let's say 2 people are co-habiting (not married) yet he man makes more so he pays for more of the bills and rent than the woman. Should the woman do something in return like cook more often or clean more often? Assume they both have 9-5 jobs during the day. Please explain your answers. I know people who say yes, and others who say no..

2007-11-27 18:24:21 · 15 answers · asked by Kathy1 1

I am coming home for lunch and call wife
Me- I am coming home to make frozen pizza that I bought yesterday
Wife- It's about to expire. I will exchange at shop
M-Don't bother. It is fine
W-Already going to store so no trouble
M-Fine. Fine, we can do your way
W-It's not "my way". It's for your benefit
M-I know it's for my benefit but it's how you want to handle. I don't care
W-Fine. If you don't appreciate it, then I won't be concerned for you anymore
M-You still have to be concerned about me, but I don't care about this
M-Let's not argue. So if I come home, can we be loving?
W-"Whatever". I don't know
M-That's not good enough. We have to get along and not fight over silly things. Can we be loving?
W-Fine, we can do your way
M-So can we be loving?
W-We can do you way
M-So can you say, "I want to be loving"?
W-No, already said we can do your way
M-It's not "my way" if you don't say you want to be loving
W-It's the same, so I am not going to say it

2007-11-27 18:22:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married for 1 year with a young man.
I m so stressed recently because i m going to school and working at night as a waitress.
I stand all day, cook, clean, put in order the house and then when at night I finally lay on the bed I wont have my husband around.
He s so heavy and pushy.
As soon as i step in the house he kisses me and does not even let me take off my jacket....he wont understand is too heavy.
I need my space just to relax a bit otherwise i ll end up in a mental hospital soon.
What can I do with my husband?
I m so tired that i can't even make love with him...
Do you think I dont love my husband enough?
Can the stress kills the desire for my husband?
I m worry and in the same time i can't stand anymore my husband...why? Please give an advise

2007-11-27 18:16:31 · 9 answers · asked by manolaxox 1

I've been single too long, and am getting older to where I cannot attract a nice lady (I'm 40). I'm so lonely! Looking for any last ditch suggestions.

2007-11-27 18:08:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

okso i was (in my definition) raped...and though i dont blame other guys for that one's evilness... how can i ever trust them again?

2007-11-27 18:05:02 · 9 answers · asked by confused 2

would a woman who is married. with kids. and in her.40.s thing she was decent for comming on to a person who she is old enought to be his mom. i wouldnt thing so well she did and things happened one day and right there in her home it happened . and her man almost caught us that time . she was setting thre like nothing ever happened. is that a decent mother. wife . i wouldnt thing so would you nothing but trash.

2007-11-27 17:54:31 · 10 answers · asked by matthew v 3

I am still MADLY in love with this girl, my family is against it and beleives she treats me badly so they dont want me in it. My family means everything to me and i've been through thick and thin with them. My girlfriend also means so much to me and we are both in love. were young but were both in love. what would be the best way to let her know that im scared of being so committed at such a young age, i just want to end it but still be close and love her and just still be apart of her life, im so scared of crushing her cause she still means so much to me. It is getting so bad im almost depressed. I care so much for this girl and HATE to see her hurt. Please help

2007-11-27 17:52:15 · 3 answers · asked by jake 1

2007-11-27 17:48:54 · 11 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4

2007-11-27 17:43:30 · 25 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4

My (ex) best friend of 20 years has recently started sleeping with my husband. We're still married, although on our way to divorce. We had been talking reconciliation in Sept. when this happened for the first time. Since then, they have been trying to keep it quiet, but my 4 year old son cries when he comes home from visitation. She has always been involved in his life. In fact, my son calls her Auntie. Suddenly, she is sleeping with his dad & that confuses him. Incidentally, she left her husband at the end of Aug. & is a new separtee herself.

She text messaged me tonight & asked me if we could still be friends. It was all I could do to not tell her what I really think - that she's a whore & a back-stabbing b****. Instead, I told her that I would have been there for her, but she hurt me very badly & I didn't think we could be friends anymore.

Isn't there an unwritten rule that you NEVER sleep with your friends' spouses? Does anyone else think this is wrong???

2007-11-27 17:42:53 · 15 answers · asked by Shannon H 3

i know why i want to marry my fiancee, but he thinks differently about marriage. i want to know what other peaople think. maybe i have the worng info and dont know the realy meaning.

2007-11-27 17:36:55 · 12 answers · asked by luvly_lady3426 1

A friend has lived with a man for 12 years, they have 2 kids. He disrespects her, and has done so their whole relationship. She has finally worked it out that she doensn't need to live like that, but can not afford to leave him as she has gone back to university and still needs to feed her kids and pay the rent. Basically, she needs his income to survive. What does she do?

2007-11-27 17:33:33 · 10 answers · asked by Aus_angel 3

I heard - " On receiving an marriage register application, the marriage officer issues a month notice regarding the intended marriage & get such a notice affixed on the notice board out side his office, a copy of such notice is sent to the marriage officer under whose jurisdiction the other party lives, also a copy is to the individual parties address."

I'm a brahmin and my boyfriend is gowda! We decided to go for register marriage as his parents are against us.

Now the question is :-
What happens if objection is raised from our relatives or parents?

I am sure my boy friend's parents wont keep quite. They are completely against us. My boy friend's father is a lawyer. How can we get married in such situation?

Need in help!

2007-11-27 17:26:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whats your Fantasy?

2007-11-27 17:25:31 · 12 answers · asked by The White Man 1

the other day my friend was complaining that he was going to giving his wife 25 million dollars in a seattlment with his now ex-wife. I myself am a semi-successful and have a lot of money becuase my parents died when I was young and they left everything to me.( only child ) When I got married I said to my wife she had to sign a pre-nup because I didn't want to lose anything that my parents gave me. Was I wrong to make her sign a pre-nup? I mean if it didn't work out she would get half of everything!!!!!!!! I don't think so. She doesn't work and spends money like it grows on trees...I think she looks at it like a vaction or some crap. I guess she thought she wouldn't have to work.

Women in other countires do what they are told when they are told. Women in America say " YOU DON'T OWN ME" god could you imagen how much better thing s would be if they just did what they were told. In Japan women have to ask permission to talk....if I could only convice her to move there.

2007-11-27 17:24:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

went to a christmas party on the weekend and i kissed a work colleage who is married. I am currently in a relationship myself. I think that i have feelings for him what should I do

2007-11-27 17:18:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told a co worker that she was in a bad marriage, I guess I wasn't the only one. One of her buddies told her the same thing? I got to work and she was crying. I felt so bad, I wanted to die cause I hurt her. I only want to help her in a help her in a bad sistuation. But did I go too far???

2007-11-27 17:16:54 · 11 answers · asked by PHP 2

I found my husbands wallet having his prom photo in it, over a year ago. I asked him why he would have him and another girls photo in it since he and I are now married and he said he'd remove it. Well I just checked again, and its still there. I am so heart broken about it. but yet dont know how to approach him with it.. or even how i should feel toward him. i cant come out and tell him i looked for it, and FOUND IT. what do i do, and is it normal for men to carry around photos of their prom with ex's.... need some friendly advice, as we're a military couple in our early twentys and havent had a whole lot of time together. i dont want this marriage to fail because i love him alot .. but there is alot of things bugging me since he's been back from his deployment .. and this is our first chance as a married couple of being together.

2007-11-27 17:14:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Many times people bog their minds down with "what if's" or "if only" which sometimes becomes a fantasy or day dream. Satisfaction comes from knowing that if given the opportunity again one would still walk down the same chosen path.

2007-11-27 17:03:56 · 16 answers · asked by snookums 4

Well on Thanksgiving day my husband suprised me by comming home!! He is a soilder in the war in Iraq. We haven't been together in a year. A week into our 3 week honeymoon he says I have to go to Iraq in 5 days. I cried so much when he left. I mean he sent these video diaries and he sent letters. I did the same, but it was like he was on another planet. We got these letters and tapes of recently happened things but it still felt like no matter how many letters or tapes you send, you still feel seperated. Anyway I was so happy to see him it was just a suprise! I cried and I kissed him and it was soo suprising. We went out for a Thanksgiving dinner that night and had a great time. But the dinner didn't even compare to the sex we had later on that night. The next morning I woke up and he left a note that said I love you. I will be back sooner than you think. I put on a robe and I ran outside to kiss him goodbye.

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2007-11-27 16:57:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you are dating or in a lengthy relationship with a woman, and things don't work out, what makes you keep her number? I have heard of the plan B or the back up girl, but after 6 months what would be the reason then since so much time has passed. Also, why is there an old saying (it's ok that you guys broke up, he'll be back), and before the year is out me, and my girlfriends have felt, have, and seen that to be true. The real questions comes into play when my brother jumped in the conversation, and said we do that, but we don't keep all the past girls phone number, and when I said to him, if you pick and choose who number to keep, what's the determining factor on who's number you keep, and why don't you guys just do like us, and get rid of everything about that person once they are gone.

2007-11-27 16:46:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well on Thanksgiving day my husband suprised me by comming home!! He is a soilder in the war in Iraq. We haven't been together in a year. A week into our 3 week honeymoon he says I have to go to Iraq in 5 days. I cried so much when he left. I mean he sent these video diaries and he sent letters. I did the same, but it was like he was on another planet. We got these letters and tapes of recently happened things but it still felt like no matter how many letters or tapes you send, you still feel seperated. Anyway I was so happy to see him it was just a suprise! I cried and I kissed him and it was soo suprising. We went out for a Thanksgiving dinner that night and had a great time. But the dinner didn't even compare to the sex we had later on that night. The next morning I woke up and he left a note that said I love you. I will be back sooner than you think. I put on a robe and I ran outside to kiss him goodbye.

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2007-11-27 16:44:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-27 16:32:10 · 8 answers · asked by Heather S 1

Hi
I m engaged and going to marry in january.I am afraid for first night....as i am not virgin ...whether my husband can understand that i am not virgin...?

2007-11-27 16:25:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am curious to know if your lifetime lover/marriage partner and your soulmate be two different people. What defines a soulmate? Tell me what you think!

2007-11-27 16:21:01 · 10 answers · asked by His Wife 3

ok i am not sure where to start but here goes me and this guy have been engaged now for almost a year we usually talk at night before we go to bed but here lately he don't answer the phone when i call ( he don't have a home phone just a cell) and he is alwys saying he is asleep which he has been working extra hours at work but i have been cheated on before and i am now afraid he is doing to me too or i am i just parinoid that he will cheat he says he will never cheat on me and he don't believe in that and i am afraid if i don't stop i am going to push him away i love him with all of my heart and dont want to loose him so please help

2007-11-27 16:19:14 · 8 answers · asked by mommy2emma 2

I'm her 4th,she's my4th,we have a son that's her 4th,that is now4.She decides after 6 good years I gotta go.what's up with that?I wasn't even out the door and he was already moved in.She tells our son that's his new dad,my son doesn't even like him.He has no job,no car,nothing.I have all that.yet she calls me everyday and says she loves me?????

2007-11-27 16:17:01 · 15 answers · asked by meme 2