But the problem we never reach the point that we agree..it gives me headache...though we stil talk and talk and talk.
2007-11-27 18:32:18 · 7 answers · asked by dikya 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Communication is the key. And in every realtionship you have to compromise. give a little to get a little. Meet each other in the middle is the best way. Hopefully you both aren't that stubborn to do it and will :-P
But I think its the healthies thting in the world for a relationship just to small talk, pillow talk or talk in the car. Would you rather they hide their feelings and not let you know how they feel? Bes thing to do is don't hold your feelings in. Things build up and could possibly elevate to a headache in your case LOL I hope it gets better.
2007-11-27 18:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by Alpha Female 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're constantly talking in circles you may just need to agree to disagree. There could be a problem with compromise, or lack of, between you. Try some counseling to help you both communicate better.
2007-11-28 02:35:10 · answer #2 · answered by MISS H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone does not agree all of the time... but you can compromise, which means coming to a solution which is best for both -- and sometimes that means each of you going your separate ways on an issue....
or agree to disagree... and be done with it.
just because you're married, doesn't mean you have to think alike, or try to convince the other you are right, or WIN a discussion.
live, let live.... let each be an individual.. it works best that way.
2007-11-28 02:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its normal for both of you to be discussing things and sometimes you just dont go nowhere...its a matter of compromise...and know the person deeper, some person have high principles in life which your way of thinking doesnt fit in, but it doesnt mean that both of you cant compromise...its a matter of
an open communication.
2007-11-28 03:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very important to communicate, it is also important to be able to compromise and agree on things.
If you can't do that maybe you two are not compatible.
2007-11-28 02:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by eric_the_red_101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe make it an agenda to come up with definite answers instead of wasting time talking and talking and talking.....
2007-11-28 02:36:19 · answer #6 · answered by Equinox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you can never compromise then its all over isnt it?
2007-11-28 02:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋