I'm her 4th,she's my4th,we have a son that's her 4th,that is now4.She decides after 6 good years I gotta go.what's up with that?I wasn't even out the door and he was already moved in.She tells our son that's his new dad,my son doesn't even like him.He has no job,no car,nothing.I have all that.yet she calls me everyday and says she loves me?????
2007-11-27 16:17:01 · 15 answers · asked by meme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Our son does live with me most of the time,the latest incident was her 13 yr old daughter almost set him on fire playing with hairspray n a lighter,cps took a report but did nothing.
2007-11-27 17:01:16 · update #1
Get the hell away from her! She is a phys co slut! She should be B*itch slapped for saying that to your son! She DOES NOT LOVE YOU!
2007-11-27 16:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by Tabatha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is a serial relationship killer. She doesn't sound mature enough to go through the times that are more comfortable and less of the wow factor in the early part of a relationship. I guess you got what she gave the other husbands too. Don't be surprised. You took a chance on her and lost. Just know that she is remembering the good times you had, but she would be off to do the same thing again if you got back together. It's who she is. She's already starting to kick the new guy out, not being loyal to him. It's your decision, but an objective look says stay cordial with her, but look elsewhere for a stable relationship.
2007-11-28 00:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by Susan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she has some sort of issues to sort out. You need to give her time to figure out what she wants, because she obviously doesn't know. Maybe she was just feeling trapped and needed time to let loose a little. I mean, how attractive can a man with no car or job be to a woman?? If you want to try to work this out with her because you love her, and you feel like she loves you, by all means, go for it. Make sure you don't forget your son in this process. All of this going on around him is sure to effect him too.
2007-11-28 00:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by kyliekissesx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well at this rate, sounds like someday she will have no job, no car, no nothing. With all these kids and surpassing 4 marriages, thats a lot, she needs to settle down. If it was me, I would definetly divorce and move on and try to find a better woman who you can have a real, meaningful, long relationship with. You still have your kid which is important, whether you divorce or not. Good luck!
2007-11-28 00:23:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would be pretty hurtful I think I woud pack up and take my son with me immediarly file for divorce and custody because if you take him with you and file frst you will have a better chance of custody besides its not going to look very good in court on her behalf because she is having an adultress affair.Get all the dirt you can on both of them to take to court with you.She could also pay child support thats not un common now days
2007-11-28 00:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by oxendinebrenda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I've got to say is thats messed up! If there wasn't a child involved in this I'd strait up tell you to move on and forget her. But since there is I'd say talk and work things out but set some kind of agreement or rules. Good luck to you!
2007-11-28 00:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by Esa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That lady is crazy... maybe she thinks a new man can keep her happy. She only saying she loves you because she thinks she does. She is so confused and dont know what to do. Do you know what you want? Do you want her back? That is the real question ? If you took her back would you be able to forgive her? U probably have to make the decision for her and your relationship. Be strong!! You already know what you have to do!!!
2007-11-28 00:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by bannnana96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't know what she wants but that is not your fault and you do not deserve to go through all of this. You should take custody of your son and leave. If you stick around she is only going to bring you down.
2007-11-28 00:21:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude,
Go to my website and begin preparing your self and protecting yourself.
With all you said I think you have a fairly good shot at custody of your kid too.
http://www.UtahParentsUnderSiege.com/
and ask any questions you have. I might have some caselaw that could help you too.
Good Luck
2007-11-28 00:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by eric_the_red_101 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a tw@t!
Get Child Services on her, get yourself a lawyer. What she is doing to your son is not right and I hate to say this, but who knows what kind of loser/psycho/perv that jerk b*tch has brought into your son's life.
2007-11-28 00:41:59 · answer #10 · answered by Pretty Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋