I am curious to know if your lifetime lover/marriage partner and your soulmate be two different people. What defines a soulmate? Tell me what you think!
2007-11-27 16:21:01 · 10 answers · asked by His Wife 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't believe there is any such thing as "THE" soulmate. I believe we have many soulmates, hence why people just "click", even friends. What makes us closer to one friend compared to another? It's some kind of connection we make with them, the exact same connection we make with life partners. If we had one soulmate then they would be all we needed.... but that's not so and that is why we can fall in and out of love with many people. Soulmates are people we knew through some other existence... and to think there is only one from that existence.. well that doesn't really make sense. I believe that everyone in my life is a soulmate and is here for a damn good reason, even my husband!
2007-11-27 16:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by Shazela 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A person can have more than one soulmate. Because you have a relationship and are married, your husband is also considered your soulmate. When your life's lessons have been learned, or you feel a need for change, each of you have finished your work together and it may be time to move on, although some people remain soulmates for life.
2007-11-28 00:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I truelly beleive that it can be 2 different people. I have a soul mate, she is maried, we have never slept together, but we do have a special bond. We have this thing called a connection. I can almost feel her, when she is needed. My wife hates her swears up and down that we have slept together, but we haven't and wont. She live 800 miles away and I never see her. I know her very well and we only have meet a few times. Now that I am about ready to get divorced, I wil not pursue her, I know that I could have her in a heartbeat, but that is not fair to her. I would never break up her marriage. I have found someone I believe that could be my life partner, we are very compatible. I am taking this very slowly. So there is my 2 cents worth, take as it is.
2007-11-28 01:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by PHP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once in a lifetime you find your soulmate, among billions of people you find the perfect man for you, your other spiritual half and together you become whole.
Only a few people have found their soulmates: Nancy and Ronald Reagan were soulmates, Steve and Terri Irwin, for example, when somebody finds his/her soulmate, their spiritual, emotional, sexual, lives reach a high level. This is an unique event.
Anybody can have a husband/wife, but only a few lucky ones will find their soulmates.
Hope you found my explanation helpful.
Peace !!!
2007-11-28 00:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by Idon'tlivehere 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do not believe in a "Soulmate" I believe in two people working together to make life good.
My sister believes in the whole "Soulmate" thing, and I have watched he grow old and bitter because she thinks her "Soulmate" married someone else because she did not put in a change of address and he could not find her.
She is 41 years old and getting more bitter every year.
Maybe "Kindred Spirit" is a better term, because there will be lots of them thoughout your life.
2007-11-28 00:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by eric_the_red_101 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The ideal is to have both in one, but we know that the "ideal" does not exist. However a partner is one who comes closest to being a soulmate.
For many years my soulmate was my diary/diaries. I would put everything down in it and feel satisfied. Now I have my husband but he doesn't help everytime. Hence, you need to have some backup. Something that you can go to when you need him/her/it the most.
2007-11-28 00:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by babasbhakta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you having doubts about the guy you married, coz you've met someone you just click with? Marriage and soulmate are just cultural constructs to understand human behaviours and feelings, keep us safe and functioning as a society, in a different world solely based on isntincts we'd all just do what felt good with whoever it felt good at any given time, no doubts no guilt.
2007-11-28 00:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by lampost blues 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most definately yes.
My soul mate and I could just never get our timing right and both married other people.
I hope in another life we'll finally get to spend our time together.
2007-11-28 00:31:07 · answer #8 · answered by grrrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A soul mate is your spouse and lover and partner all rolled into one. If he isn't then you should have never married him.
2007-11-28 00:37:22 · answer #9 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
can be two, but thats ur fault. i want mine to be the same.
soulmate is one who has similar future views, wants to share their life with u, and someone u can always relate too. and they are always there for u no matter what.
2007-11-28 00:24:46 · answer #10 · answered by lirpa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋