Marriage & Divorce - 27 November 2007

its been a year since we broke up
he has moved on, he has a new girl a new life everyithing is great!!!
we dont talk anymore we dont text to see how we are doing, we dont see each other at all
totaly no contact at all!
i miss him even though he was a abusive violent pr:k who made me sick with anxiety and totaly down and depressed but then i think of the good times the times he was nice our house our car our everything.
I hacve had random BF since him but nothing lasted he waited and is now with a great chik who is soooooooo much prettyer then me better body, balaced, she drinks heaps (i have 1 or 2 and he always got angry that i wouldnt get drunk with him)
she is perfect for him and what makes me sad is that he could treat her so well and only treated me like a live in house wife and door mat and her like a princess
i need to get over it and then when i think i am someting reminds me of him
i get rid of all his photos but still i think of him

how can i get ova him ?

2007-11-27 12:12:06 · 29 answers · asked by boris 3

2007-11-27 12:07:22 · 13 answers · asked by idiots 2

if a person is emailing another person of the opposite sex without the knowedge of their partner?

2007-11-27 12:06:02 · 18 answers · asked by Charlotte's Dad 5

We have a very good and adventurous sex life. My wife just recently started working after our youngest started school. We just can't seem to get together. When shes at work, I'm at home and when I'm at work, she's at home. It usually ends up with us having sex 2-3 times per month, which is way below where we want it to be. Whats a couple to do?

2007-11-27 12:04:28 · 7 answers · asked by mitchsnarlin 1

This guy was saying he believed women should sleep on a cot so they would be more less likely to sleep in and would get up earlier to make their husband's breakfast and I thought that was kind of mean. I mean women should make breakfast but they should get a nice bed, you know?

2007-11-27 11:44:48 · 18 answers · asked by Little Angel 1

custody has not been established and the husband doesn't know the wife is leaving

2007-11-27 11:34:53 · 2 answers · asked by JC 1

i love him but i dont trust him any more he say his not but today i talk to her and she told me he told her we not together

2007-11-27 11:34:31 · 10 answers · asked by sola 1

A another 47 year old virgin...asks...
Question Details: I have a friend who is 47 years old...virgin no experiance and never dated...
He wants the truth on what chances does he have?
Most girls might call him ugly or a freak..
Should I tell him to give up?
Or should I tell tell him freakin fairy tales?

2007-11-27 11:32:21 · 11 answers · asked by Lone Knight 2

We've been having issues and he came to the conclusion that he needs to change for the better and that once everything in his life is back on track he'll come back to me. He says he's doing this because he loves me and he knows he's not treating me right and that he's hurting me. He gave me his mother's gold bracelet and let me keep his old jersey. He says that its up to me to take him back in the end....and its a risk he's willing to take. He thinks time will heal our problems because we've been working at it but it doesn't seem better..just like a cycle. Our current situation really is emotionally draining and I can see that he's not happy anymore. He has other issues to deal with such as school and money and I can see it in his face that he's tired. I'm in such pain. He's not talking to me. He says he'll contact me when Winter break is over in about a month... is he being for real? What do i do? I'm so distraught with emotion and I can't concentrate or eat...

2007-11-27 11:32:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love ice cream!!

2007-11-27 11:30:23 · 17 answers · asked by Little Angel 1

2007-11-27 11:23:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-27 11:17:02 · 24 answers · asked by carecan71 1

here is the story-

i was married and this person was single. he was younger than me. we used to play basically chess together and talk a bit. he became my best friend over a while..say 2 years. one day we just joked a bit and i asked him not to as he was engaged. but that didnt stop him. next day he felt pretty bad. then after marriage he stopped talking to me and we had fight as i called him a player. he came back after one yr and wanted me to forget the bitterness between us. it took a while but we were casual friends again. he told me that "he did not want the relationship between us to go anywhere but it just happeend..and its better we dont talk about it". we talked for 4 months and then one day he said he is busy and i was blocked/deleted. i wonder what happened. what do u think.

i wanted him to be my best friend again ..we used to talk for few mins daily though..we maintained distance and ifelt he was comfortable.

2007-11-27 11:09:41 · 9 answers · asked by jiuderod 1

I'm 29, attractive, good job, in grad school, very financially stable...divorced. Ever since my ex husband i seem to be attracted to the bad boy. My ex was not a bad boy. The last guy i dated for almost 2 years was a loser. 5 years younger than me, trouble maker, had been to rehab, didnt always treat me well. Current guy told me up front he doesnt want anythign serious (he just had a baby) so i am basically a booty call i think. We've hung out the past two weekends, but he wont contact me during the week. I dont contact him at all, just wait for him. This has been going on about a month and a half. What is wrong with me? feel like i'm going to wake up and all the good guys will be gone and ill have wasted my time...why am i attracted to these guys? i really cant get this guy out of my head...he keeps me awake at night. I have not had casual sex in a long time...

2007-11-27 10:57:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

recently fell out over step kids want to get back whats the best way i should go around it

2007-11-27 10:57:24 · 19 answers · asked by tigerman 3

I was hanging out with a few of my friends guys and girls, and we were goofing arround and one of the girls just yells "balltap" and smacks this guy mark right in the balls!. he looked like he was in a lot of pain, all the girls were laughing their a*ses off. but i dont get why its funny, why do girls laught at this?

2007-11-27 10:51:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you do with your time?

2007-11-27 10:32:08 · 33 answers · asked by just julie 6

I'm a young mommy of a 9 month old baby girl living with the inlaws and i totally hate them! Is there any young mommy like me out there wanting to get out and about??

2007-11-27 10:29:50 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1

I have been with my boyfriend for quite a while now. The relationship has gone from good to great to amazing, and I love him totally.

He is the best thing that has ever happened to me, and I let him know that, and he tells me how much he loves me all the time, and is always sweet, kind, and respectful to me.

I have met his mom, he has met my dad, we spend most nights together, and I am spending Christmas with his family.

We make plans several months in advance, and he is always saying that 'sometime we should do this' or 'someday we should do/try that'.

I think he may be wanting more* in this relationship. How can I tell? It is kind of a touchy topic, and if I am wrong, I don't want to say anything.

2007-11-27 10:26:44 · 20 answers · asked by HooliganGrrl 5

Ok, im just wondering because im engaged to a senior i met last year as a freshman. and i would like to know, how long couples like that last, and would also like to know how to keep a realtion ship going.

2007-11-27 10:19:50 · 24 answers · asked by Kimi 2

2007-11-27 10:16:20 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a few things i think of to be a tradition of example; my friend and her mom come down from Illinois the day after Christmas. this has been going on for 3 years now. [this winter break will be the 3 time. would you call this a tradition? also, if there comes a time and they do not come would it no longer be a tradition?
basically how long do you have to do something before you can call it a tradition?
:] thnx!!!

2007-11-27 10:15:29 · 11 answers · asked by CHH Chicx 3

2007-11-27 10:11:10 · 10 answers · asked by gutmadonehalf 2

Hi.
My parents have been together for 35 years. Over the past 5-7 year, my dad has become vicous (sp?).. He tells her he doesn't love her and that he hates living here, he wants to leave (yet never does), that my mom is a horrible mother, our house is disgusting, and all his unhappiness is her fault.
There's SO much more and things ten times more mean and heartbreaking, but too much to explain.
Now if you knew my mom you would understand she's very peaceful, very soft-spoken, and never sticks up for herself. She just sits there and takes it.
My brother, sister, and I are all on her side. We all want to see HIM leave (because this is my mom's dream home), but we know as long as SHE stays HERE it will only get worse.. We finally talked her into moving out (and I will be going with her as well--I am 17, living at home). Anyway, my dad is probably going to try to make my mom's life a living hell.
He is the money maker.............

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2007-11-27 10:06:48 · 12 answers · asked by ανєяу'ѕ мσмму 5

I have a friend whom enjoys dating and does have long term relationships (5 years) but he says he can't commit to marriage to one woman. He has just turned 50 something now and it has me wondering if men who say they can't commit will eventually get married, because it will be very hard for him to date or have the romantic companionship he enjoys when is 80.

2007-11-27 10:01:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-27 09:57:44 · 14 answers · asked by rjkm2us 1

I'm not sure if i should eat the cow poop tomorrow becuase my boyfriend comes from a small tribe in africa and its tradition to eat cow poop when you meet your new in-laws and i might marry him but if i do I'll have to eat the poop

2007-11-27 09:55:51 · 25 answers · asked by i_<3_my_bi_lover!!!! 1

My bf is really smart & finacially blessed i should say, i came into the relationship accepting his daughter and he accepting my son our children are from different relationships.we all live together & he praises his daughter daily which is good, but he never says anything to my son, my son is usually left mute while he's kissing the ground she walks on. and i know this hurts my son. he allows her to do whatever she wants which i dont agree because my son isnt allowed to do as he pleases, he's just a kid. he allows the "in laws" to shower her w/ gifts and take her to big events meanwhile my son is left at home w/ me, ( i do interact w/ my son on those occasions) however i have one job. he brags all day about her even to me and i cant help but to get annoyed because i dont want to hear all of that all day,when there is another kid that needs attention, it all boils down to the point of, dude! your kid is being treated as if she's the only kid and that's not right, how do i talk to him?

2007-11-27 09:54:55 · 17 answers · asked by KAT 2

Im getting married in 08'. My fiances full portuguese and his dad doesnt like me because im not portuguese and im hispanic, His mom plays the part when im with him. They want nothing to do with our wedding and he doesnt care!He blows it off like its nothing. Everytime his mom calls and asks him to do things he does it right away but when i ask he tells me later or another time. Plus his mom calls him everyday who knows how many times.We've been engaged for 2 years and our families never met. Should i step up and say something or cancel the wedding?

2007-11-27 09:49:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-27 09:43:41 · 9 answers · asked by gal1 1