I got married 08, april 2006 untill now my husband had sole my moto bike, phone to play gambling. so I don't want seperate from him but I want to stop him from that. Can you give me some advice to correct him?
2007-11-27 04:45:27 · 10 answers · asked by thy c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you cant make him do anything he isnt willing to fix himself. the only advice i have is to talk to him about it and tell him you believe he needs help and that you are there for him through his progress and pray for him!
2007-11-27 04:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by Evelyne L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gambling is an addiction and there are rehabs that deal with this uncontrolled behavior. You can start by calling a local therapist and get him into some serious treatment. Then you may need some help too to find out how best to deal with his illness and not to inable his addiction.
2016-05-26 03:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that gambles a lot. He spent his and his wife's total savings account, up to almost 20 thousand dollars. Gambling is a problem that needs professional help, which he sought after, almost loosing his wife. The best thing to do is to confront the behavior, and get help before it is too late! And you end up homeless!
2007-11-27 04:54:17 · answer #3 · answered by ishmel b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him and ultimatum it is either you or his gambling. Meaning he either gives up this gambling or your gone from his life. If this is serious and he has friends that notice this as well maybe it time for an intervention.
May God Bless You and Keep You, Best Wishes.
2007-11-27 04:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot stop him. It sounds like he might be an addict. Have him go to Gamblers Anonymous to get help. If he does not stop you might want to see a divorce lawyer. Addictive personalities can be very destructive to themselves and those around them. Sometime the only way to protect yourself is to get out. Do not get pregnant. You don't want a child to have to deal with the fallout of an addict.
2007-11-27 04:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by DMG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him gambling is a major crime, stealing money because of games or other stuff is wrong.
2007-11-27 08:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by hueytownkid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make someone stop and addiction. They have gambling addiction hotline that will help you out.
http://www.problemgambling.com/services.html
Good luck
2007-11-27 04:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any addiction is worst, cannot quit till total ruin. Try to move to some other town. There may be some Organizations who help addicts to quit their addiction.
2007-11-27 04:53:05 · answer #8 · answered by Gee Waman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, do not think him just like he would be another mashine in your environment.
You can "stop" only mashines.
If you are ready with that emotionaly, ask again.
2007-11-27 04:50:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him to pick you or gambling, maybe it'll make him think,
2007-11-27 04:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋