Marriage & Divorce - 15 November 2007

I have been married for 13 years and I have 3 wonderful kids. I just can't stand my wife anymore. We have less in common as I have matured and she still acts like she is in High School (I'm 37 she's 36). We hardly ever talk and when we do it's usually an arguement. We haven't have sex in months and we never do anything together. Is it time for me to go?

2007-11-15 04:18:35 · 14 answers · asked by sasquatch5170 4

2007-11-15 04:09:23 · 16 answers · asked by ibmeowmixin 1

life with? How old were you when you got married, and how long have you been married?

I do not plan on getting married anytime soon, but with the divorce rate as high as it is, marriage is a scarry thing. Just wondering how you knew it was "right"

2007-11-15 04:05:30 · 19 answers · asked by Shayna 4

I'm in love with this guy who just so happens to be married. He's been separated from his wife for four years and they live in different states, They have one child together. He's everything I've always wanted in a man, because of his religion he doesn't believe that he can divorce his wife unless she cheats on him(commits adultery). He says he's in love with me also we spend a great deal of time together hanging out going to dinner and a movie or I would cook for him. We spend time at each others place he loves my kids they interact wonderfully with each other. Theres no sexual relationship but we did kiss several time. We attend the same church. Am I destined for heart break?

2007-11-15 04:05:24 · 13 answers · asked by marjb 1

Assuming the couple has two children (ages 18 and 19, one in college), 4 vehicles, and land.

Unreconciled Differences would be the reason.

2007-11-15 04:03:57 · 6 answers · asked by Silent_Smile 2

2007-11-15 04:02:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had gone to US on a visiting visa and left my husband and 2 sons here in India.On reaching US I realised that this guy had hots for me.I fled and all hopes for me to work in US shattered.Now again he has said he will help me if I am willling to have an affair with him.i will be able to take my sons there and work there.Should I betray my husband who has been an alcoholic for the last 19 years.I have struggled all these years to lead a normal life and give the best I can to my children.
He wants to take me out of the rut but for a price -an affair.He too is married with 3 college going children.

2007-11-15 03:59:35 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-15 03:57:16 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think my husband is cheating. I don't really have that much proof but it is that gut feeling and he is being shady. How do I snap him out of this mid life crisis and remind him of our last 13 years together????????

2007-11-15 03:56:56 · 7 answers · asked by NickyB 1

Would he spend over 3 days being angry and fighting? Wouldn't he just say to her that he loves her and wants to stop
fighting. My husband and I have 2 small children and I feel as though when we argue, he spends too much time focusing what I said or did then just ending the fight. I know it takes two,but I feel as though even though he's the one that did something to upset me, and I react, he gets all into the arguing
and being angry at each other, instead of just trying to make up. He agreed to counselling,but I'm reallly considering separtion and divorce if it doesn't work. It got to the point where fighting is much more than intimacy whch is very low. I
just feel used if we do get intimate because we usually hae another arguiment a few days later. I just feel that if a husband loves a wife he would spend more energy trying to make her happy then fighting. He gets me upset every day? He always forgets what makes me unhappy and does it again????

2007-11-15 03:55:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi again last time of posting for a while.

I have decided to try and sort out my issues with my estranged wife. I have been very unfair and have tried to justify a self destructive streak that has lasted over a year.

To put you in the picture, I had two business' fail on me and without my wife's knowledge I was left with over £40,000 of personal debt. I felt I had failed big style, and felt that how could i ask for anyone to give me time or love when I had failed so comprehessivly?

I now have a new full time job, but my estrange wife has a new job about 300 miles away and despite her trying to wait for me until a few weeks ago I have always pushed her away!

I know I have been very stupid, and I am willing to change jobs andmove down to be near her, to try and mae things work, but I know she is trying to move on.

So what's my question?

Not sure, but if I could have a few prayers from you I would be most grateful

2007-11-15 03:53:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Nearly ALL singlemoms do it, and so will the married ones after they get a divorce. So, why do these married women get up on their high horse about poor parenting?

2007-11-15 03:53:36 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-15 03:47:26 · 9 answers · asked by young_bp 1

If my children lived ten years with the mother making 50 k per year and the father making $400K the last three years and the wife gets the kids 75% of the time, you STILL don't believe that alimony is needed?

What are they teaching you young women in school?

This us reality, not women's lib or misogynist fantasy land.

Ok. I rant. It is frustrating to see women do more and more to their own detriment.

If the woman above was not given alimony, these same women would call her horrible if she said, "He has the money, let him raise them." and gave them to him, only to see them a few times a month.

2007-11-15 03:43:43 · 6 answers · asked by charlie girl 1

i just got married about a month ago and have a two month old little girl !! i love my husband very much and so it makes me feel very uncomfortable when guys hit on me!!! i don't want to be rude to them, so i try to just shrug it off but it still bothers me!! what do i do?

2007-11-15 03:43:14 · 55 answers · asked by tinkerbell 1

i broke up with my ex of 3 years 3 months ago. I met a guy and he asked me to consider going out with him but he is afraid i am using him as a rebound. But i am only in the process of trying to get toknow the guy. So far, if i haven't said yes to going out with him, is this considered a rebound? Or does rebound mean bf/gf and dating. We are just friends getting to know each other.

2007-11-15 03:41:27 · 9 answers · asked by S S 1

My husband and I need to get our will done. We do have a friend who is a lawyer and does them, but is it something that would be awkward given that we will be discussing financial matters?

2007-11-15 03:35:15 · 11 answers · asked by Allie 3

Where do you meet people? How do you re join life after being in a marriage for so long and totally forgetting single life? I want to meet people my age with the same goals and interests. I am over partying and the mid life crisis thing. I feel so lost....

2007-11-15 03:32:08 · 39 answers · asked by NickyB 1

2007-11-15 03:30:55 · 10 answers · asked by mmelinowski 1

Excuse me but how can I be a homewrecker because I want to sleep with a man who's married? If he cheats on his wife, the marriage is a facade anyways. I'm not going to force him to sleep with me. He either will or he won't. The fact of the matter is if he decides to be with me, he obviously doesn't value his vows. Not my problem. If it wasn't me, it would be someone else, down the line eventually. He's hot and sexy and I want him. I know he wouldn't mind it. He can keep his composure when I see him in the hallway at work. So, how is this my fault? HE's the homewrecker.

2007-11-15 03:30:11 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

First of all, let me say, my husband is a wonderful man and father and I appreciate everything he does. BUT he is a huge clean freak and is constantly getting upset when anything is out of place. We just had a baby in May and I have gone back to work. We both work full time jobs, and share most of the household responsiblities. However when anything doesn't get done he gets so stressed out. I am a fairly good housekeeper, I try to pick up after myself and I always make sure the kitchen/dishes are clean. We have had a few fights because he gets upset that the laundry piles up. I told him I would make an effort to do better, and not to nag me so much. He is upset again because the laundry is behind (and he has done most of it this week). Instead of nagging me he is just pouting. What should I do....I'm going crazy! I stay on top of the other things, bills, cooking, shopping, the kitchen, taking care of the baby. I don't know what to say to him? Is this fair?

2007-11-15 03:27:47 · 16 answers · asked by Mommabear 3

2007-11-15 03:24:43 · 19 answers · asked by young_bp 1

she might get mad and go off? How do women expect men to be open with them when alot of women are short tempered?

2007-11-15 02:51:55 · 17 answers · asked by nvsweets2006 1

My spouse and i just found out that his ex wife wants to move out of state, and by out of state i mean to idaho. they have 2 children together. in the divorce agreement it states that neither one of them, refering to the parents can not take the minor children out of state with out the written consent of the other parent. can she do this she has not even talked about it to my spouse. we all currently live in MN if that helps with knowing the laws. any help would be nice. and could we take it to the courts without a lawyer to just merely bring it to their attention that she thinks she can do what she wants.

2007-11-15 02:47:53 · 24 answers · asked by fruitloop247 3

2007-11-15 02:46:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-15 02:45:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

didn't love him anymore?

2007-11-15 02:40:53 · 22 answers · asked by mryungbp 1

2007-11-15 02:37:37 · 13 answers · asked by sassey 1

So for some people only when sex had been included with an other person cheating on your partner is in the game, what's ur opinion.

2007-11-15 02:31:22 · 24 answers · asked by Tjarley 1

2007-11-15 02:27:51 · 11 answers · asked by CC 1