So for some people only when sex had been included with an other person cheating on your partner is in the game, what's ur opinion.
2007-11-15 02:31:22 · 24 answers · asked by Tjarley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you or your partner are doing ANYTHING with someone else that you wouldn't tell them about.........it is cheating. Whether it's a kiss, a touch, oral sex, sexual converstation, or sexual intercourse the intent to lust for someone else is there and it is wrong or otherwise you wouldn't be hiding it.
The best way to answer this question and know for sure if what you are doing is cheating, is to ask yourself if the person I am currently in a relationship with was doing what I am doing would it be cheating and would I be hurt? In that lies your answer. Good luck!!!
2007-11-15 02:47:39 · answer #1 · answered by Gretta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is physically fondling and touching, in a sexual manner, someone other than your spouse. We are all human and we all tend to make mistakes...except those that are on here proclaiming to be saints...lol...anyway, there are limits and each person knows their limit. If you feel guilt after doing what one would not naturally do then you are on the verge of crossing the line. There is no prefect line that can be said this is cheating. All couples have to determine what they are comfortable with. What is acceptable to one own belief is where you draw the line on cheating...
2007-11-15 02:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by tinc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's more than just sex. Cheating is anything a person whether wife, husband, girlfriend, boyfriend, would do ONLY when they are alone or away from their partners. The things they do are call cheating because they don't or can't do it with their partner. Ex. texting the opp. sex, calling the opp. sex, emailing, flirting, all these are grounds call CHEATING.
2007-11-15 02:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by LivingMyLife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your relationship, if there is no full time commitment that how can you cheat. Everyone thinks of someone else at some point. If you are married, than yes sex is going over the line. The notion that being in a relationship makes you exclusive property to someone is insane.
2007-11-15 02:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by ZackAttack1992 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When connect with another person as you would with your spouse is considered cheating. The beginning of any relationship is having an emotional attachment to a person, so once that door is open so has the adultery. Those who don't agree put yourself in your spouses or significant others shoes, if your married to someone and they had a person on the side that they never had sex with but they shared all their thoughts and ideas with you wouldn't like it. Not saying that you can't be married and have friends of the opposite sex but you have to know where to draw the line.
2007-11-15 02:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by madeam3 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, cheating is also when emotions and love is involved also. Sharing intimate things, spending time together, kissing are all wrong. Some say it is totally a Platonic relationship, it will lead into other things, you can not control your thoughts when you spend time with a person of the opposite sex.
2007-11-15 02:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No way....doesn't have to be just sexual intercourse to be cheating...Emotional affairs is cheating as well.....
I guess those that don't think it is cheating until sex takes place...must be ok with their partner sharing emotions with another, kissing, feeling one up and so on....I prefer to consider it cheating at this point so as to put an end to it before something sexual does take place....
2007-11-15 02:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Oh yeah, excuses. Some people will go to strip joints, pay for a woman to siton their lap and touch and caress her, and they claim it isn't cheating because they didn't have intercourse.
Then there's the ones that claim it is not cheating if they are in different zip codes.
I met a man like that, he was living in Mexico City while his wife was in Canada. He went to some strip joints and used all of the excuses mentioned above, and then said it was justified because he was lonely. I asked him if it was ok for her to go to a male strip joint, and rub against a guy and touch him and have him touch her all over because she is lonely. The mere thought provoked his anger and he stopped talking to me for a while.
Excuses...
2007-11-15 02:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do anything that you have to ask yourself if it is cheating then it probably is. For instance, you wouldn't wonder if saying hello to a female cashier is cheating when you check out at the store. However if you buy a woman a drink that isn't your wife and you have to stop and think , " is my wife going to get mad about this?" then yeah I would say that is cheating. If you can't tell your spouse about it when you get home at night and you get nervous wondering if she is going to find out, its cheating.
2007-11-15 02:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Any behavior that you wouldn't want your husband to see you doing would be wrong.
To me there is no grey in cheating. It's black and white.
2007-11-15 03:59:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋