2007-11-15 02:46:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, wondered what I was thinking, wondered what I saw in them, wondered why I didn't get out sooner, and how I was there to begin with.
2007-11-15 02:50:10 · answer #1 · answered by wendy a 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wondered if life is more beautiful than what I really think, that it was someone with who I shared part of my time, someone who I gave love and in return I got hate and being treated bad, worse than how the rest of the world was treated by her. I stop asking me why things were that way and one day I decided to not to take it anymore, it was my time to leave. When I see her pictures, I can't explain myself what happened to that person in the past, or why she was so controlling or so mean with me, at the same time I ask myself and appreciate the respect I have for myself, and makes me value freedom a lot more than before I meet that person. Makes me feel like a free man, someone who has learned that not everybody is nice sometimes, and that I am someone that doesn't take disrespect and that makes me feel good as a person.
2007-11-15 11:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by livingthe30s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have and we talked for a while and of course wondered what if we would have tried a little. I was in cheerleading and fell in love with a football player in another school, due to us not seeing eachother enough ( cause my foster mom was strick) he decided he needed more from me, I couldnt do much and i was working as well so i told him it would be best for him to look for someone who could offer what I lacked. Well we never ended it bad so at starbucks we actually wanted to know how it would have felt like to kiss for the last time. We did meet there for another 2 weeks to chat and than we kissed and at that point I told him that it was nice but did he see that is would have been nice to have waited for me. And told him to have a great life. I am so glad I ended that chapter.
2007-11-15 10:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, the things that make ya' go "Hmmm..."!!!
No, seriously...I am very thankful to have burned few bridges on my path...I truly enjoy meeting up with past intimates in fact, because I experienced so much during my times with each & every one of them--and visa-versa. It does the heart good to see them doing well for themselves.
Yeah, you wonder on the ifs...but only for a moment...when you get down to it, things are pretty much the same as when you parted, which reminds you of why you aren't together now...it's all good, though.
2007-11-15 13:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by MsET 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
1) wondered what was the wrong with me for not seeing what I'm seeing now.
2) Wondered what his girlfriend is thinking
3) Wondered what he must be thinking about me.
2007-11-15 10:52:13 · answer #5 · answered by SMB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bet, and I really wondered WHY I ever stayed so long, man did she get ugly, and still the nasty x-wife attitude!! Glad I'm gone, no 2nd thoughts!!!!! I got the kids by the way, they r adults now!!!
2007-11-15 11:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every weekend when I drop my kids off with him, I wonder: how in the world did 2 such beautiful, sweet children come from you? And what the hell was I thinking? LOL
2007-11-15 10:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wondered if I should back up and run into them again.
2007-11-15 10:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by Adrian Wapkaplett 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wondered what??
I've wondered "what the hell-o I was I thinking?!" with one, "what happened to him?!" with another (he tattooed & pierced the hell-o outta himself) & with the last, what things would've been like if he coulda straightened up (has a gambling addiction) & we stayed together? Oh wait, I know the answer to that....I'd be married by now!!
2007-11-15 10:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by §uper ®ose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many times, i think if only he could have been or what if he! Yep ive been there, but then i think there was a reason why i broke with that person in the first place!!!!
2007-11-15 10:49:52 · answer #10 · answered by thatgurrlagain 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋