didn't love him anymore?
2007-11-15 02:40:53 · 22 answers · asked by mryungbp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd tell him he is just looking for a reason for divorce, and useing that for a lame excuse for it. A lot of the time it's because it's the other way around. He may even be cheating on you, and want you to feel bad, by making stuff up you should tell him to be truthfull with you and stop with all the bull ****.
2007-11-15 02:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by Tara Elaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel very sad and hurt, especially if I sincerely did love him. If that was the case, I would not only tell him how I feel but find out why he feels unloved. In other words, I would communicate with him.
Unfortunately, I think most couples "know" when the love is waning. It may come as no surprise to me. If that was the case and I hadn't felt the desire to do something before now, I might agree to the divorce.
2007-11-15 10:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by gentle understanding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I still really loved him I would do everything in my power to make sure he knew that. If I wanted to keep my marriage together I would sit down and talk to him and ask him why he believe that I didn't love him. If he just wanted to divorce because he didn't want to be with me then I would let him go so he could be happy. I would never give up on my marriage if I thought it could be saved.
2007-11-15 10:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends. What did you do? What did she do or not do? If you love her then I would suggest trying to talk and figure out what she really feels. If you have lost it for her then there is not much you can do except divorce. It is truely sad that most marriages end in divorce. I have married once and divorced once and hopefully if I do marry again it will be forever.
2007-11-15 10:46:44 · answer #4 · answered by fantasy gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that we need to sit down and really talk about this. I don't understand what you mean by visions. But if you still love and care about your husband the same way you always have, let him know that. And if there really is something going on, be honest with him.
The only way through this situation is to be honest. And figure out what your husband is talking about.
2007-11-15 10:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by phisigaims 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd try to comunicate to see why that is and if we could change it or ask if we could go to marriage councelling first. The last chioce is to seperate first before going through the big thing such as divorce. Why do people always refer to divorce first before anything else???
2007-11-15 12:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by muzacmaster44 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to soul search to find out if it is true. You could love him but not be in love with him anymore. He could sense it. If this is true try to go back in time and respark whatever you had. If that doesn't work go to counseling to find out what made you fall out of love with him and if it can't be fixed then go through with the divorce. Nobody should be unhappy, but make it your absolute last resort!!!
2007-11-15 10:46:37 · answer #7 · answered by Bam B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that you have a vision of keeping the house...lol..Seriously, time to get things rolling if you and him do not a have a healthy marriage...
2007-11-15 10:45:22 · answer #8 · answered by yonksbutterfly4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would question if perhaps he was picking up the truth, really ask yourself if you have that love, once that was over then if you were sure that you showed him love and you cannot believe what he is saying then,,,I would check his computer, his cell phone,,his visa bills and question what the heck he is up to. Often people will put the blame on others when they are up to no good.
2007-11-15 10:44:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
O would think it was an excuse to get out of the marraige and wonder what the underlying factor truelly was...
2007-11-15 10:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by ღKrissyღ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋