Marriage & Divorce - 31 October 2007

i love sex and all but my ubby gets tired and im tired of having to just be on top when he gets tired what are some other positions where i do the work?

2007-10-31 08:53:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My lawyer says to stay but the house will have to be sold and the proceeds split. I can't get it sale ready by myself with everybody still living in it and messing it up. We really need to move out to get it sale ready. Husband is stalling and using this as a control issue. It is so frustrating that I want to just walk away from my share of the proceeds. I could just ask for
him to pay off my credit cards and that would be about equal to my half of the house proceeds (at market value).

2007-10-31 08:42:53 · 9 answers · asked by psi2006 4

I have a friend who's husband is bipolar and abandoned her when she was 6 months pregnant with their second child. He moved back home to mooch off his Mommy and she's been paying for him to divorce my friend. He took both of there vehicles and spent all their money. He's still living off his parents and doing horrible things like racking up (more) felonies ,soliciting minors and offering pot to girls on the internet yet his Mom is still paying all his bills, child support (he's never paid any) and providing transportation and cigarettes for him. He only wants to see their oldest child just for his mom to take care of him and NEVER wants to visit the new baby. No one is perfect but my friend really wanted their marriage to work, this guy just kept walking out on them , spending their money on pot and baseball/football cards and finally just left.I'd like to be able to tell her some way that this will stop but with an evil guy who has an evil mother what can I say? Any suggestions? Kandy

2007-10-31 08:41:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Two nights ago my husband asked me this, he was really disappointed when I told him it depends on how old I am, and if I'll find love again. So would you re-marry?

2007-10-31 08:38:19 · 32 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5

i have been separated for almost 5 months he has been talking to girl friends and he left the house b/c i put him in jail for domestic violence now he said his coming back before christmas he has done alot of thing in the middle of does 5 month he treated me like **** he diconnected the light and the water and my cell phone has help me with extra money if i need it b/c of the divorce he has to pay the rent and give me 250 a month do you think he still loves me after all that can he forgive me? was it my fault were separated? i need help to think clear?

2007-10-31 08:29:38 · 21 answers · asked by wndyroman 1

My husband has a much higher sex drive than me. He made a comment one day and told me "Even if I think your not in the mood to have sex, if you don't try to stop me then yes I will still try to make love." I was shocked to hear this, becuase it almost sounded like the definition of rape doesn't it? That comment made me feel that its only about the sex for him, and getting off, not truly about making love. If he thinks I'm not in the mood why would he push me into it, why wouldn't he just respect me to stop. Why does he need me to tell him no? I often think my husband only cares about sex, and i hate to think that because he does things for me and tells me he loves me, but with a comment like that it makes me wonder. Any advise?

2007-10-31 08:27:00 · 23 answers · asked by ilih2006 1

2007-10-31 08:23:59 · 26 answers · asked by Alison 5

Okay, so my Mom is really picky when it comes to birthday gifts. She always returns everything I buy her! I was thinking, what do you buy someone who has everything and I came across this online mail-order husband ad:

Name: Pete

"Ladies… I am a classic romantic. Despite my good looks, I am still a virgin. I want to save myself for the love of my life. I keep myself clean and take bath monthly. By the way, girl… I still have all my teeth.

I think he sounds hot! Plus he's on sale...half price!

2007-10-31 08:05:28 · 9 answers · asked by Lydia 5

My best friend and her boyfriend have been together for four years. I am very happily married and the other night we were all out and he kept trying to kiss me whemever my husband and best best friend were not around. He has always been friendly but this is too much. I don't know if I should tell her or just let it go. My husband knows and wants to kill him but I'm not sure what her reaction will be. He has cheated on her in the past and she always blames the other girl. I don't want her to be mad at me for something I could stop. I hate her bf.

2007-10-31 07:56:16 · 27 answers · asked by Nikki R 2

My fiancée, whom I loved more than anything, and dated for 4 years broke up with me in June, stating that she needs to find her individuality.Needless to say I was devastated. It’s been almost 6 months since this happened and all I can think about is her from the second I wake up to when I go to bed.. I have been trying to keep myself VERY VERY VERY BUSY, but she is all I think about.

2007-10-31 07:55:07 · 30 answers · asked by Jennaba9048 1

I am 19 and I am a warrior for life. Many people try to act tough and say all that blah blah blah, but then they dont live it. I live it. I dont have all those stupid emotions that make people weak. I have no love for anyone other then myself. I can garuntee you I will never fall in love and fall in line like every one else. I am a fighter not a lover. What I want to know is why everyone wants to pose like they are tough and have no emotions and all, but they really do and are just trying to live a life style that is not there own???

2007-10-31 07:49:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I'm in this relationship where things seem a little confusing for me and I need a little insight. I promise this is my last blog on the subject. My fiance has taken off her engagement ring and has decided not to wear it until she is convinced that what we have merits her putting it back on. I've purchased a home for us and we just got through some tumultous experiences with my family, the latter of which addded uncessary stress on our relationship, though I clearly chose her over them. Thinking she was rejecting me, my mind did wander for a moment, but I never and just couldn't act on it. I am not that kind of person, I just felt really unwanted and rejected. I confessed this to her, which added more stress to our relationship. I approached her about the ring issues last night, as was suggested in an earlier blog response, and she said, though she knows it hurts me, she can only put the ring back on her finger when she is ready. I am confused, what advice would someone have me?

2007-10-31 07:37:45 · 18 answers · asked by dominia 2

If you agree or disagree, please also take a look at this question I posted earlier today.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqcSq570XCg8NS8z4qW801Xsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071031102009AAjwuX6

2007-10-31 07:37:12 · 23 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

Now I am dating somone seriously and she gives me a hard time. He even lives with her part of the time with our three young kids. I have joint custody and they also live here part of the time. We might consider living together in the future so I do not give her a hard time since I myy do the same one day. Why is it o.k. for her to date someone and live with him but she gives me a hard time for dating someone. Her boyfriend and my girlfriend are both teachers and I would think he is a decent guy. How can I get her to back off?

2007-10-31 07:30:13 · 14 answers · asked by paco 1

The apartment complex is trying to tell her that since he is not on the lease he has to move out. Can they do that?

2007-10-31 07:27:57 · 16 answers · asked by van 2

i have been married for 27 years and love my husband,,but am not in love with him. my heart has always belonged to my ex,,should i have an affair with him.. we both want to and still have very strong feelings for each other.

2007-10-31 07:23:09 · 37 answers · asked by mafossa63 1

2007-10-31 07:14:05 · 20 answers · asked by Lenka 3

I have a sex tape of me and an ex bf from when i was 21, before i met hubby. I had it stashed and hubby found it, he wants to watch it, not sure what i should do?

2007-10-31 07:09:19 · 79 answers · asked by Jamie 1

Little about me which I don't tell anyone publicly. My father was very absuive to the hilt for many years to my mom and family--me. Also, I was almost raped by a man at a church function just after we met. As a result I hate and despise men interiorly, but I am kind to them on a daily basis exteriorly. So why do stupid and uncaring people assume you are gay if you are not married or dating. Most people don't even know about my background or what happened to me.
I'm not saying that's why most women are not married, but it's what happened to me. Anyone else out there like that?

2007-10-31 07:06:56 · 10 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5

Satruday, while visiting my relatives, they asked me if I ever hear from my sister. I grew up as an only child and never had any knowledge of my parents having any other children.
They told me that after I was born, my father cheated on my mother and had a daughter from someone else.
I would like to find her but both my mother and father are dead. The only information they have on my sister is that her first name started with a C.
I know that is not much to go on but is their a way I could track her down. I know that she was born in Queens New York. I know my fathers name but that's all.
Do I have enough info or should I just give up the search?

Help please

2007-10-31 07:05:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I dont get along at all ever. I honestly think I hate him. I cringe at the sound of his voice or any other noise he makes. The problem is that he thinks that this is normal. To fight all the time and not speak to eachother. I feel like he just married me to have some one to pay for things that he wants and to take care of his kids. We dont see eye to eye on anything. (we even fought about what our son was going to be for halloween) imagine us trying to find a place to live. I know youre going to say "get a divorce" but its not that simple like i said the thinks its normal to act like this.

2007-10-31 06:55:52 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

i found out lus month that he had a gulfriend in another country he met on the internet. he said it was a mistake n he wont do it again, but now comes this gul he z calling n texting day n nit. is he doing it again? men out there wat do u think? pliz help

2007-10-31 06:53:36 · 42 answers · asked by loveness 1

why ist it hard to forget somene who has hurt you so bad? am married my husband is wonderful. but i cant forget my ex , how bad he hurt me affects me in away that i cant be totally open to my husband, cus i dont want to get hurt again. what can i do?

2007-10-31 06:52:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-31 06:49:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-31 06:45:30 · 17 answers · asked by romati 3

i got mad at my husband today and gave him a small kick and he flipped out and twisted my arms and squeezed them so hard i have big bruise mark in the shape of his hand, bruised my lip, and i have scratches all over my wrists and hands , too. he even held my breath for a few seconds...he says he did this just to hold me back from screaming or hitting him. i may have started but hes way stronger! im really mad at him now, but i still love him. wtvr. whos wrong?

2007-10-31 06:44:08 · 20 answers · asked by ilovecandy 3

About a month ago my boyfriend of a year and a few months (we lived together) broke up with me over text message while he was away on a military training trip (the training was 6 weeks). Later I found out it's because he met someone else (and it was obvious), How can someone say they love you and the next day they find someone else, or are interested in someone else? Where is the loyalty? He said that we were "drifting apart", my mother was in the hospital so I didn't have as much time to talk to him, and so he found someone else. I'm obviously still hurt, and am shocked that someone can move on so fast. I was really close to his child from a previous relationship, and it was so easy for him to throw everything away.

This month has been really hard. I have had to find an apartment, move all of my stuff out, along with being reminded of a failed relationship. I feel rejected and unwanted. So I guess some supportive words would be great. Thanks in advance.

2007-10-31 06:37:26 · 9 answers · asked by Lenka 3

A have a friend, she is married but she keeps pestering me everyday and ask me to meet her everyday........... I sometimes feel irritated.............. I know that she doesn't spend good time with her husband cause he comes back home very late and leaves early in the morning......... What should I say??

2007-10-31 06:37:18 · 14 answers · asked by Khairul A R 2

Say person A expresses love with flowers. Its there natural way to express love and receive love.
Say person B expresses love with sex. Its their natural way to express love and receive love.
Person A wants more flowers from Person B and Person B wants more sex from Person A.
So should a person express love the way their partner would like it OR should a person accept love in the way their partner wants to give it?

2007-10-31 06:20:09 · 12 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

What would you say to or think about a woman who KNOWS he husband has been having an affair, knows he has been cheating on her since she was pregnant and only ended the affair after a few years when the mistress ended things? And she also knows he has had other flings before and after and stays with this man? Any words or advice for her? There is a child involved. What would you think of this woman? Do you believe the husband loves her since he always comes back to her?

2007-10-31 06:14:58 · 50 answers · asked by lookinfortruth 1