Marriage & Divorce - 31 October 2007

2007-10-31 17:55:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have told him that i do want him back and work things out and he says the same.I told him though that soon he needs to make a decision or i will file for divorce. I am just wondering how much longer should i wait.

2007-10-31 17:42:41 · 9 answers · asked by kittens 3

After some prodding on my part, my wife finally admitted she misses certain aspects of a black guy she was dating for 8 years....mostly physical stuff. That is fine..what is in the past is in the past.
We love each other, we are soul mates. I have no doubt she would ever leave me for him, or any other.
OK...
Her ex boyfriend, moved to Philadelphia right after we got married.
She was offered a job within her company a few weeks ago(basically take the job or be out of a job)...so she accepted it.
She has to go for training for 2 weeks...in...yep - Philadelphia.
I work nights, and since I am in charge of our phone bill - i've seen calls from that area to our house, on the nights I work.
Should i be worried?
How can i not think about "them" for two weeks???
Should i express my concerns to her, or just assume we will be ok after - no matter what.
IF she plans on seeing him..should I deny her that - if i am confident its just a "fling" while she is away??
Thanks

2007-10-31 17:39:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Fiancee of three years left a month ago after an argument and was moved in with another girl within the week. I have been crying and depressed ever since. I don't know how to erase three years of memories or even understand how he cared so little to erase me like that. I really can't find a way to get over this even though there is so much he did to hurt me. Sometimes I just dwell on what I did wrong and feel so bad (never cheated). I am just so confused over everything I am having a hard time coping.

2007-10-31 17:27:11 · 21 answers · asked by theartisttwin 5

My husband is a great provider & helps around the house. We have 2 daughters (2 1/2 & 8 mo). Problem is when a child is sick (& that is often) he is of no help. Tonight is a perfect example of what happens almost every month. My 2 year old came down with a sudden stomach virus (thrown up 22 times & counting so far). Iwanted my husband to watch my 8 month old just until her bed time so I wouldn't cross contaminate her with germs. If he could get her to bed there is less chance she will get it and would give me a chance to change my vomit clothes. He was ok for a while but she started crying and he gave up. He said he was trying to answer the door for halloween and couldn't do both. It is so typical that I gave up instead of demanding him step up to the plate and just took her. I was so deflated that we keep having this same fight. It ended up in a blow out after I got the baby to bed. He said I make him miserable & divorce may be the only option. Am I being unreasonable?

2007-10-31 17:21:33 · 14 answers · asked by ADC 2

Well I met my girl's father when I was 16 years old. My son was 2 years old at the time I was a single parent going to school and I met this 18 year old guy. So we started to date. Two years later I got pregant with my daughter. And we both promise each other that we was going to spent the rest of our lives together. We moved in together in I had my third child another little girl. So I got his name tatto on my arm. We ended up splitting after 8 years of dating. And a year after we broke up I met my husband. And 9 months later we was married now it been 2 years and he keep asking me to get my ex's name off my arm. I don't have no problem with it being there personally. But my husband says it is a problem because we are not together any more and that make him feel like I still love my kids father. What should I do. I like because It been there forever and it's cute. I don't regret it. Some times I wish I never done it but it there now. It didn't stop him from marrying me. It been 6yrs

2007-10-31 17:05:40 · 22 answers · asked by shadow2400 1

Just figure what it costs to raise a child and have the non custodial parent pay half that cost, regardless of income. If the non custodial parent is very wealthy he or she could be required to put money into a college fund, but the custodial parent would only get half what is required to raise a child at any particular stage of life.

2007-10-31 17:01:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

For instance - religion, occupation, age, health, marital history - or something else. Assume you did not know this about them and fell in love, agreed to marry then found it out - what would make you back out of the marriage - if anything?

2007-10-31 16:53:07 · 16 answers · asked by purple dove 5

Recently, my ex called me to tell me that he loves me and has always loved me. He told me that he made a mistake and that his girlfriend at the moment is too difficult to handle, unlike me. He missed my laid-back personality and the familiarity he has with me. I couldn't believe him because this was the same woman that he left me for. I still care about him, but I don't think I love him anymore. What should I do?

2007-10-31 16:51:55 · 24 answers · asked by mlvue 4

I knew this girl 17 yrs ago well we now are dating going on 6 months I am soon to be divorced after 12 yrs of marrage. She too had a similar relationship . We both are very defensive about everything beccause of are exes. Also we both have autistic children are we a match made in heaven, can we make our lives better being together and make this family work?

2007-10-31 16:51:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked my husband why do he keep leaving the seat up he then looks at me and ask me why do I keep leaving the seat down? I couldn't say anything I just laughed! do any other men feel the same way.
my goal was to start putting the seat up after i use the bathroom and hope that he has to sit down and fall in need less to say i forgot the goal and the hole that I try to keep up I fell in(LOL) any body else went through something similar.
marriage life can be very funny!!!

2007-10-31 16:45:29 · 42 answers · asked by layn22 2

A man who is a good friend of mine recently broke up with a woman who was arrogant, selfish, and had treated him badly. He told me, "I guess that it was my own high hopes and a kind of co-dependence that kept me in there as it was not physical attraction...at the outset, I thought her attractive, but not one that some would find that they would overlook practically any other neg attribute for; and as time passed, she grew less physically attractive, and the physicality was not of noteworthy nature by any means either."

I think it's clear what he meant---she's ok but not a head turner, and turned out to be a real witch---but I'd like some of your opinions also. Thanks.

2007-10-31 16:39:51 · 12 answers · asked by Laurie C 1

just wanted to know why feel degraded once you are dumped my a man who dont want you when you are married. with children. and in your.40.s dont women thing before they are used and dumped like trash ever wonder what yur children thought where you told them about it yes. it.s fact she told her.4. kids it . now who looks more siller. when trailer trash like this even tells her children about it and to even think a man. 19. would want you must have been dreaming. to ever think so and to tell your kids. wasnt very much like a mother. at all nothing but a cheap thing. and trash to

2007-10-31 16:31:07 · 2 answers · asked by matthew v 3

Just like around the house for sexy fun? my hubby does it once in a while i think its hott any other ideas? if so what does your guy wear?

2007-10-31 16:21:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whats the most important thing a woman can do for a man?

2007-10-31 16:21:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have 6 kids, when youngest was 6 i broke out with genital herpes, ive never cheated on my husband, can you carry the virus or did my husband cheat?

2007-10-31 16:15:34 · 38 answers · asked by ivy 1

With out too much soppy stuff! Cheers people.....

2007-10-31 16:08:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do not know where my daughter nor my ex wife are livining, haven't known for years. I owe it to my daughter to pay but, what rights do I have? I have called the court house, child support services, and the children and family services and yet nobody wants to help me locate them. Do I still have to pay full support when I cant talk nor see my daughter? PLEASE HELP

2007-10-31 16:05:19 · 15 answers · asked by larry g 4

I am trying to cheekily use jealousy as a means to seduce a guy (well trying to) if a guy's mates are interested in a girl and trying to get into her pants & think shes a bit of alright, do you think a guy would want the girl more, if his mates want her too? im not talking about a realatonship here, i just want to sleep with this guy. he used to like me, but i mucked him around too much, so im trying to regain his interest and prepared to try anythiing!

2007-10-31 16:04:50 · 9 answers · asked by jiveybaby 1

Well as we all know Myspace... tells all. My husband had a comment from a girl on his page stating "Babi it was nice seeing you last night". My husband never mention going out to a local bar with one of his friends and then the next morning the comment. I just had an awful feeling in my stomach when I read the comment. When I comfronted him, he told me that he went with one of his friends and did want to say anything because he knew that I would get upset. Now.... that made me irate.
Why wouldn't he tell me... I feel like he is hiding something... Should I feel this way or am I exaggerating?

2007-10-31 16:02:44 · 19 answers · asked by vivi's mommy 1

2007-10-31 15:58:31 · 10 answers · asked by markymark 1

My wife has BPD and goes psycho all the time,but there is no way to prove she's assaulted me - I've tried the PD and she just cross-alleges. If I split,the woman virtually always gets the kids. i would be leaving my children with an abusive female. What can I do? i just want to get out of her life,but I don't want to leave my kids. I guess this is why guys have to stay in abusive relationships.

2007-10-31 15:46:10 · 17 answers · asked by Chris 2

2007-10-31 15:37:34 · 9 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

Ok, here's the deal. I dated a guy off and on for about 7 years. He was my first love. I never imagined I could love someone so much. But we ended up breaking things off because it seemed we wanted different things out of life. For years I've wished things had worked out between me and him. He has monopolized my thoughts and my dreams. The feelings I had for him were powerful, to say the least. We lost touch a while back, but I have never gotten over him.

A couple of years ago, I started dating another guy who is great. He loves me and has asked me to marry him. I love him too, but not with the same intensity I had with my first love. But, I know he'd be a great husband and father.

My problem is that my first love has reappeared in my life and has asked for a second chance. He says he loves me and has never gotten over me either. He says he wants to marry me. I'm so confused. My heart is pulling me in two different directions. What do I do? Please help!

2007-10-31 15:37:02 · 19 answers · asked by devil_in_disguise 1

How do you feel if your mother and wife don't get along?

Why is it that most men don't ever stand up to there mothers and say that the wife is in charge now and the mother can step back a little?

I'm really disheartened by the fact that men don't represent their families like they should anymore.

2007-10-31 15:33:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-31 15:30:54 · 13 answers · asked by Pink Lady 1

My best friend got married at 13 he was 16 after 3 1/2 yrs. of marriage the marriage was annulled. She became successfull business woman and he is successfull as well.

He has been married twice , he is currently single . She has never married and does not have any children.

Well they ran into each other @ the movies. Went out to dinner and talked and answered a lot of unaswered questions. Very deep.

He wants to finish his life with her. She thinks she wants to do the same, but she is also scared to death.

I want to tell her to go for it - But I am also scared and happy for her. What do you think ?

2007-10-31 15:28:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-31 15:27:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-31 15:17:44 · 35 answers · asked by flannelpajamas1 4

I suspected he was looking at things on line so I started investigating and found that when I was gone or at 3am or so in the morning he would get on and spend anywhere from two to four hours looking at kids in the nude or undies and topless, also looking at boys as well their private parts. the topics he clicks on to see he is looking for this ex; ***** on underware, naked girls 6 to 12,sexy girl,rodderick on boys sticks,sweet boys,boys got cock inspection.etc. This has been going on for two weeks since I started searching I know it has been much longer and even worse. I have not said anything yet I dont know how to bring it up. We have 4 kids and 2 of them are in the age range he is looking at. My 20 year old knows what I know, we are sickened and sad we dont know what to do. Is this illegal or not and is this something to end a marriage over or work through it. My husband used to drink and be violent and (always turned things around on me that he still does).

2007-10-31 15:15:40 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous