Recently, my ex called me to tell me that he loves me and has always loved me. He told me that he made a mistake and that his girlfriend at the moment is too difficult to handle, unlike me. He missed my laid-back personality and the familiarity he has with me. I couldn't believe him because this was the same woman that he left me for. I still care about him, but I don't think I love him anymore. What should I do?
2007-10-31 16:51:55 · 24 answers · asked by mlvue 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My dear, I think you already know what to do. You have said it yourself "I don't think I love him anymore". Put it this way, if you did love him - you would know it. You wouldn't even stop to consider taking him back - you'd already be with him. So... I think that you are very hesitant and have every right to be.
Has he left this woman already? By the sounds of it he hasn't - doesn't that tell you something? If he really wanted you back - he would have dumped her already, and be at your door on his hands and knees.... but no, he's leading her on as well.
Steer clear of this guy... he's an "ex" for a reason hun :)
2007-10-31 17:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your ex for a reason(s). It didnt work the first time around for a reason(s). And if hes cheated once (maybe more?), then chances are hes gonna do it again. He not only cheated on you, he left you to go live with this woman. Sounds like he doesnt know what a marriage is all about, or how to treat his WIFE, the person hes supposed to love,honor, and cherish- AND TO BE TRUE TO. Dont waste your time. Get on with your life- without him.
2007-11-01 04:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by MG425 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly he will say this now and you can grin about it b/c he f......ed up and now wants you back but in the big picture say you did get back with him.......things would be good for a couple months but a year down the road it always happens again.Dont waste your life ,there is someone out there who will love you unconditionally and will cherish you and not leave you for another woman.You got threw the hard part b/c you dont think you love him anymore.......so he is not even worth your calls!!!Next time he calls tell him you have to get ready for your date!!Be strong girl.....
2007-11-01 00:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by fuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. He just found out that the grass was not greener on the other side. Do you really want to take him back because he decided that you were better than what he left you for? You will only be a pit stop on his way to finding the next one. Do not allow yourself to be used like that. Infidelity is a deal breaker for me no matter what.
2007-11-01 00:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love him, why would you?
He has broken your trust and if you think he'll do it again, then NO.
If you are unsure, time is on your side. Talk to him and find out if his answers line up. Ask him the hard questions - why'd he do it? Get really into it. This is not a time to take it lightly since he did that.
2007-11-01 00:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by Hawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've managed to get away from this cheater and state you dint think you even love him anymore. Why give him another chance. He certainly doesn't deserve it, especially if you aren't even certain of your feeling for him. Stay strong , you re doing the right thing
2007-11-01 00:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by vellepay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love him anymore, it's a no brainer what you should do. If you still love him, it's still a no brainer. He cheated on you and he is still with her! Can the man just not be alone and must line up a stand by?
2007-11-01 00:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by drewxjacobs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not let him back in right away. He lost your trust, let him earn it back. By the way, is he coming back just for the room & board, the money, or something similar b/c he's a broke bloke.
2007-11-01 00:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by webmail0806 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say yep ya dont miss the water till the well runs dry and that you (he) chose this and now he can live with it. And when saying good bye to him you can yell out " You are the weakest link Goodbye"!
lol
2007-10-31 23:59:05 · answer #9 · answered by bella s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT.. you don't think you love him anymore AND he cheated on you (but because he decided that this woman isn't for him he will come back to you) and you don't know what to do?!
Yikes.
2007-11-01 00:35:49 · answer #10 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋