Marriage & Divorce - 31 October 2007

My friend found out that her husband is receiving emails from a girl he met, she knows the girl's from another country, cause he is in the air force and so is she (my friend), but the fact is that she says they had even shared pictures. She had confronted him and he says they're only friends, and that is her emailing him. But she have her doubts. What can she do? She's right here with me and asked me to make the question. any advice!!

2007-10-31 12:51:03 · 13 answers · asked by LA 2

They've been divorced since I was 3. It has never bothered me before. Now I'm 15 and I can't take it anymore. It's like they hate each other. I've never been told how to cope with it because I was raised this way. So now I'm totally lost. Please help me.

2007-10-31 12:50:02 · 3 answers · asked by enigma 3

I have my new husband, whom I have been for a cuple of years by now... the problem or I dont know if it is... is this...
I had find out that everitng bad that it had happend to him it was because he was getting divorce, wich it means hes hole life have gotten really bad.. credit, life .. bankcrupcy... drugs.. rehab..suspentions... and arrests...so I think that he whent trough that becuase he could not take the pain of loosing his ex, I' I wrong? becuase now everithimme we fight I always bring that up!! and technically I'm afraid that if she trys to get her familly back toguether he will just leave everithing in here with me, help!!

2007-10-31 12:35:16 · 8 answers · asked by carolinae09 4

My fellow NAVY shipmate is married, paying child support, and his wife still wants more even though she is financially stable. The child she's carrying is not even my friend's; it is some other guy's.

The court system and his lawyer says he is to pay both of their house mortgages, plus the child support, plus his own expenses. Is there a 'special' way he can keep fighting to have her pay her part?

2007-10-31 12:28:19 · 9 answers · asked by Alex 1

She found out you cheated, got extremely angry, called you every name in the book and dumped you, hasnt spoken to you for weeks, but ur trying to smooth things over and then she decides to take you back. Would you think she was weak? Would u think she is easy to get over on. Would u have lost more respect for her?

This is the first time she would be taking him back for something like this and will the man most likely do it to her again?

2007-10-31 12:26:04 · 22 answers · asked by lookinfortruth 1

ever since I got married to my hubby his mum and sister always seem to backchat about another girl who is part of their family, I heard from someone that she was meant to get an arranged marriage with my hubby but my hubby didnt want to etc. anyway now that I'm married to my hubby my MIL always wants me to look all pretty especially when I'm in front of that girl and her family, she is maried as well btw. We are meant to be going to a birthday party and she is supposedly going to be there with her husband, I want to go dressed simple and my MIL was like "its up to you but so and so(that girl) is going to come dressed all grand and you may feel awkward", I was thinking to myself so what if she comes dressed up grand, who is she to me? I dont understand why my MIL is so eager to make me look all dressed up in front of them, its as if shes using me to hurt them or something

2007-10-31 12:19:30 · 5 answers · asked by kitty 1

is there anyone out there that can answer this question?
my ex-husband established custody our 3 children back in 2002 now thease kids want me to take him to court so they can talk the judge them selves being that 2008 they will all be over 14.
since my ex has had custody both of the boy's have been placed on I.E.P's testing the oldest is severely deppressed person and showed signs of molestion, the second child scores insanely low on his testing scores and shows no sign of maturity for his age level. the only little we have has been getting abused emotionaly good girl excellent grades but, find little hope in being happy or love those words are 'taboo" are thease good grounds?

2007-10-31 12:04:48 · 10 answers · asked by ursula z 1

I am... "engaged", but not officially. I wont consider myself as officially engaged until I have my ring. Some people consider this being materialistic, I consider it being traditional. What is a girl to do.?

2007-10-31 11:34:37 · 40 answers · asked by pretty82 2

If your spouse purposely avoids telling you before marriage that he/she has Asthama would you consider it a matter so serious that you would consider seperation?

2007-10-31 11:24:36 · 22 answers · asked by Justanian 1

I am going yo school for nursing right now and i have about 2 years left. Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year and a half and latley we have been talking a lot about marriage. We know that we both want to take that step but the question is just when. Should i wait until i finish school to get married.

2007-10-31 11:24:26 · 11 answers · asked by forever yours 2

My boyfriend has a female friend, and for some reason I feel threatened by her. I'm not usually insecure and would not call myself the "jealous" type. It's just this one girl in particular whose relationship with him bothers me. I was ignoring it, until I checked out her myspace page and my boyfriend wrote her a comment about how beautiful she is under one of her pictures. Should I ask him about it, and if so how? I don't want to appear insecure.

I should also mention that I don't think he's physically cheating on me....the girl lives in Florida and we live in Pennsylvania. But it does bother me that they seem to have some sort of "emotional connection". They talk all the time!

2007-10-31 11:11:25 · 14 answers · asked by janine o 4

I was talking to a guy in a foreign country when his exwife started trouble for him and his two boys. There's been alot of DRAMA (alot is an under estimate too) that has followed since then but I haven't heard from him or talked to him in over 3 weeks....The last time we talked I told him I was first and foremost a friend & was here for him, but haven't heard from him since.
Should I considered this a break up? Or is he just taking the needed space to get him and his boys pulled back together? Any single parent advice?

2007-10-31 11:07:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I myself believe it is endanger because with the studying I have done a person with bipolar can snap and use the knife to kill you. And I have tried too report it to CPS and they won't do a thing. I live in Texas. Plus this person ignores her other child by not getting her nothing and buys her son anyhting he wants including knives.

2007-10-31 11:04:33 · 12 answers · asked by poohbear5262110 1

scratch my scalp, scalp massage. does anyones eles husband do that and doesnt feel soooooooo good!?

2007-10-31 10:57:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is going to be spending Thanksgiving with his family, daughter and ex-wife. I will not be invited, so what should I do for Thanksgiving? I'm not going to give him a hard time about him going, and me having the days off. I don't want to go home either, so what should I do?

2007-10-31 10:52:22 · 12 answers · asked by torn 3

Is it for control ?
Is it a reward ?
Is it of no interest to you ?
Do you view it as a chore / obligation ?
Is it your man's job to initiate or is this a mutual responsibility?
Who usually starts things?
Is it for mutual satisaction?

Please answer and add how LONG you've been married AND if you have children or not....

Just interested to know if there is a correlation with length of a relationship (and addition of kids) and how a gal views (or how her views) have changed over time....

Thanks in advance....

2007-10-31 10:49:51 · 22 answers · asked by aa889d 5

however I have a child with him who he has not paid child support for in nearly 2 years, he also left me in tons of debt when I kicked him out including me paying off a car that he had and I was stupid enough to buy things for under HP. What should I do? Its like hes holding me to ransom

2007-10-31 10:18:21 · 19 answers · asked by groovy_glittered 1

are there any people on here who remarried someone that they previously divorced.....if so was it better or worse the 2nd time around...

i would appreciate peoples stories

2007-10-31 10:09:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hve been with the person for over 71/2 yrs . and married to this person for over 3 1/2 yrs. this person is specail to me and I have bent over backwards to do what I could to make this person Happy and Today after all I hhave put up with { this person walking out 8 Times } and we are trying to work everything out but now Todsy this person wants me to tie- up another 4 yrs. son theycan go to school, this sounds good but here is the problem they want me to stay in this small Town were it is hard enough to make the bills meet at the end of thee month and now wants me to stay another 4 yrs. so she can go to school again.

2007-10-31 10:00:28 · 19 answers · asked by little Bear 1

I used to have a friend with benefits when I was single. We met when I was 20 and then lost contact, but ran into each other 3 years later. Everything started up again and didn’t stop until I moved out of state a little over 4 years ago. I really liked him and wanted to be in a serious relationship, but he flat out told me he wasn’t ready for that. I accepted that and moved on with my life. I got laid off my job and that’s when I moved. He would call me from time to time, but we never talked about anything serious. I met my husband 7 months later and we have been married a little over 3 years. I thought he was the most wonderful man ever – until he cheated on me this past January. I called the ex-fling because I was hurt and wanted to tell him about it. He was very supportive but that’s when he admitted his feelings for me. Whether or not they were true, I don’t know, but I knew I wasn’t interested anymore. Now he calls every 3 ot 4 months.

2007-10-31 09:52:55 · 22 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

If a man is married with kids, and acts like he is happy but all of a sudden he is acting a little diffrent. His cell phone rings late at night and he dont answer, but later on he will get up and go make a call. Come to find out it is a woman who he met in a bar and they are good friends now. If they were good friends would u not think he would have told his wife about her, or he didnt tell her because he is fooling around with her? And he says that she is someone he can talk to about his personal problems, tell me what do you think?

2007-10-31 09:52:53 · 33 answers · asked by kisha8223 1

she dated him while we were STILL married w/2kids...she was 17 & he was 25...he even told me while we were married he would date her one day...we (me&EX) watched this girl grow up...not only did he date her...he also dated her younger sister...AND if after all these years later, you were re-married to someone else & SHE shows up living at the end of your street out of the clear blue, what would you think???? AND your second husband insists on "walking the dogs" to the end of the street, & she & your second husband attend "certain meetings" at the same dwelling place....????????????

2007-10-31 09:34:29 · 12 answers · asked by gmaw53 1

Interracial marriage vs gay marriage?
if you could only choose one that is allowed in America which would u choose

2007-10-31 09:34:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

So if you feel that you really love this person is it wrong to get married at a young age?

2007-10-31 09:27:53 · 21 answers · asked by Steffy 2

This seems to be the next logic question following my other questions today.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AonJb38DgIcrZ0lz7g.1biXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071031102009AAjwuX6
and
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqcSq570XCg8NS8z4qW801Xsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071031113712AAIvSoZ

I'm asking these question because MORE "sex" or "money" are the number 2 arguments people have. It seems to me that you can get rid of half the fight without spend a dime would be worth it, but some how the with-holders-of-sex want something more.

So how are people to be fair when two people in a relationship wants different things?

2007-10-31 09:17:14 · 12 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

I have a husband and two children. My husband is a great father and is always by my side while my kids are beautiful but just a little demaninding. A colleague at work has given me the oppotrunity to risk it all and leave them for a life alone. I know I shouldn't do it but God is it tempting. Someone set me straight.

2007-10-31 09:12:41 · 54 answers · asked by SPMZ 2

it kinda turns me on is that wierd? i just like it when he takes advantage of me is this normal?

2007-10-31 09:08:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it cheating, if i am married but I went to lunch with a lady that I am very interested in?

2007-10-31 09:08:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

im tires of the same ole stuff i want something new! i want and adventure some excitement and for goodness sake i want to make it where hes so turned on he will just go down on me without me having to ask him to! almost everytime i have to ask him to!

2007-10-31 08:55:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

we are already separated, as it seems he will always be addicted to something or another. we have two little boys which i have always stayed home with full time. no job, family, or money of my own to fall back on, as any money he makes between now and january 2nd(the day he has to turn himself in)will go to pay his fine, for a reduced sentence. he'll probably do less than a year. he makes very good money running his own flooring business(no proof of income). and he is still paying our living expenses, as well as his own. i am frightened for myself and my kids, as i cannot even pay the rent on any job i'm qualified for, much less other bills and living expenses. he asked for a divorce before he was sentenced, but i wanted to work on our marriage. he was obviously not interested, as we interfere with his freedom and "fun time".now my family's future must come first. surely this has happened to other women. smartest course of action for me and my kids?HELP!!!

2007-10-31 08:55:37 · 9 answers · asked by doo 1