i found out lus month that he had a gulfriend in another country he met on the internet. he said it was a mistake n he wont do it again, but now comes this gul he z calling n texting day n nit. is he doing it again? men out there wat do u think? pliz help
2007-10-31 06:53:36 · 42 answers · asked by loveness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd divorce, since this is the second time he's done this, since you forgave him the first time, he thinks you will forgive him again...show him he's thinking wrong and divorce! good luck... better to live alone... than w/ a man who has no clue what faithfulness means! =)
2007-10-31 07:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Come on babe; You know the answer to that.
You can't lie to yourself; Ignore a problem all you want, it won't make it go away; If anything, it just gets harder to tackle and you are going to hurt until you confront it.
He didn't have a girlfriend in another state, it was a mistress.
What do you think of a girl in a relationship who's addicted to texting another guy? what does it tell you about her? : Not reliable; Cheater; Disrespectful; dishonest and a serious talk needs to take place.
Well babe, the same applies to your hubby.
He's up to no good and you're being a push over.
xxx
2007-10-31 07:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by Kc 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry but if a man said I was a mistake he would be gone, and to call another women, where is his respect for you? he is no good. There are plenty of men out there and we only live 1 life so don't let a man mess with your head like this. Find some one who is too interested in you to be calling anyone else. GOOD LUCK!
2007-10-31 07:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by DIONNE H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not normal unless its his own mom. Does he even bother to call you during the day? Its obvious he's continuing this long distance relationship with this girl by phone. Don't be naive to think that this girl is "just a friend" he contacts during the day. I wouldn't be surprised if he gives you that excuse. So, to answer your question, yes, he's cheating. Its your call what you want to do about it. Good Luck!
2007-10-31 08:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by onehotmama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Spell check works well here, do take advantage of it.
And no, it's not appropriate for someone in a relationship to call another person many times a day if they aren't business associates or family.
2007-10-31 07:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A SEAgul? Well, if it is a lus month, yea maybe he is lustful.
He's done it a lot more than you know, you just caught him one time, and he'll keep doing it thinking it's funny or just the next time he gets caught, he'll say the same thing again;.
2007-10-31 06:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends on what you mean by cheating. They are not sexual intimate but he is having a relationship with another woman. Is that ok with you? Can you have a boyfriend? I think this is a doomed relationship
2007-10-31 07:25:12 · answer #7 · answered by Red Phantom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not normal behavior for a married man. If he's not cheating on you now, he soon will be. Don't put up with it. If I were to do what your husband is doing, I know my wife would leave me.
2007-10-31 07:00:21 · answer #8 · answered by mt75689 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only other female I have ever called even close to that much was a friend of the wife's when I was setting up her surprise birthday party.... catch a clue somethings not right.
2007-10-31 06:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by bdntitest 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
He cheating Even if its not physical but that's a heck of a lot of times to be calling somebody. I mean come on seriously..., but if you really want to find out why dont you text her back pretending you are your husband or something.
2007-10-31 06:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by Guess who 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋