A have a friend, she is married but she keeps pestering me everyday and ask me to meet her everyday........... I sometimes feel irritated.............. I know that she doesn't spend good time with her husband cause he comes back home very late and leaves early in the morning......... What should I say??
2007-10-31 06:37:18 · 14 answers · asked by Khairul A R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she is bored.she used to have companion.husband is not by her side.
THINK POSITIVE..give her a GOOD ADVICE being a faithful wife.You are the ONLY person she turn to.
BE GOOD and DONT take advantage on her.
take care...cheers
2007-10-31 16:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to go spend time with someone else or introduce her to some other naggy friend of yours and maybe they can chill every freaking day. Just try to tell her that you're busy and maybe she will get the hint. If you're cool friends with the husband...than tell the husband to start paying more attention to his wife.
2007-10-31 14:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by carqueen66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time she asks you, remind her of her husband at home. You should not have a problem if your honest and seriously let her know that you are NOT INTERESTED or ignore her all together...she will get the hint
2007-10-31 13:46:07 · answer #3 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems to be lonely and just wants some companionship. If you don't want to see her, simply tell her you are busy, or you can't. If you enjoy seeing her it's okay as long as you keep it a friendship level, and the husband is aware of your meetings. :-)
2007-10-31 13:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by WinterDreams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it clear to her that she has a husband. And needs to be speaking with him....NOT YOU.
You do NOT wish to become involved in her situation. You have your own life's responsibilities.
If she continues to persist, let her know that you will speak with her husband. That should make it clear to her, that you are serious. And that perhaps she really needs to seek professional assistance in resolving issues that may be troubling her.
2007-10-31 13:51:43 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say, "I'm irritated by you. You're married, so stop asking to meet me. You're being a pest. Leave me alone."
2007-10-31 13:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that her husband has found out that she is trying to get you to meet her. She will stop.
2007-10-31 13:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her to go to a marriage counsellor instead of seeing u, they can definitely help her solve her problems, meanwhile u can view this site for list of counselling services...
http://www. 88db. com. sg
2007-10-31 14:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, explained things to her if she is your friend she will understand. and just maybe she needs to to listen to her about the relationship
2007-10-31 13:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you have other plans. You're not obligated to see anyone every day.
2007-10-31 13:46:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋