I am 19 and I am a warrior for life. Many people try to act tough and say all that blah blah blah, but then they dont live it. I live it. I dont have all those stupid emotions that make people weak. I have no love for anyone other then myself. I can garuntee you I will never fall in love and fall in line like every one else. I am a fighter not a lover. What I want to know is why everyone wants to pose like they are tough and have no emotions and all, but they really do and are just trying to live a life style that is not there own???
2007-10-31 07:49:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have nothing against love its just not who I am or will ever be. The only thing I hate is people trying to be something they are not
2007-10-31 07:49:59 · update #1
People pretend to be touch for the same reasons they pretend to be rich or smart. It is alway greener on the other side of the fence and people always yearn to be something they aren't.
Good Luck
2007-10-31 08:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by mn lady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, how's all this "warrior" stuff working out for you?
You happy?
Being a "warrior", by definition, means you are at war with someone or something.
What are you fighting?
Sounds more like you are trying to avoid the pain associated with love by pretending it's not who you are. That's not being a warrior. That's being a coward.
Go be stoic and self righteous somewhere else. Come back when you are prepared to do battle on the field of love.
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2007-10-31 15:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by lunatic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
What was your question??? or were you just using this as an opportunity to "act tough".
My experience has been that people who have to talk good about themselves are trying more to convince themselves than anyone else.
I remember being 19 and thinking I was invulnerable. No, actually I think it was more like 15. Anyway, this phase will pass. Whether you want to believe it or not, you DO experience emotions. The rest of us can see several in your "question".
If I knew you personally I would print out your question, save it, and present it to you as a wedding present (in about 3-8 years I'm guessing).
Try to find a healthy outlet for your anger. Someone will love you for it.
Good luck, I'll pray for you.
2007-10-31 14:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by a_niceguy_in_virginia 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you're 19 then you have no idea what you are for life. And by posting this in Marriage & Divorce, you're just trying to get a rise out of people..
Everyone has emotions, some just bury them deeper than others, and if you have no love for anyone other than your self I feel sorry for you. That is no way to live.
2007-10-31 14:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, too, am a warrior. When I was only six years of age I killed three grown men who were trying to help an old fat woman cross a busy intersection using their own balls to strangle them. I ripped my own heart out at the age of 12 - which most people would think is a tender age, but I felt no tenderness... ever. I replaced my heart with a mechanical, black, beat box that pumps this black blood through my body. My mother used to sing me Slayer songs to go to sleep, and that was closest I have ever come to emotion.. before I ripped my own heart out of course.
This is NOT a joke. I am serious. We should hang out someday man. I'm sure I would like you if I was capable of "like."
2007-10-31 15:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by Gena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU are not a warrior. A true warrior is anyone serving or who has served in the U.S. armed forces. Unless you are in the Army or something, even still, the military needs and benfits form those who are selfless, who can sacrifice for others.
Looking out for yourself and never loving does not make you a warrior. It makes you pathetic. Don't insult me and all my other brother/sisters in arms who are selflessliy giving their time and courage to a national cause. And puting their lives on the line for self riteous pansies lilke you. They are the tur warriors. A KID like you is not. Get over yourself.
2007-10-31 15:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by Sean C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Agree with your last statement, but your time will come. There will be one woman whom has you completely whipped, you won't know what hit you.
Or maybe not. Some people just aren't made that way....to fall in love. You're only 19, so you still have a lot to experience.
2007-10-31 14:53:35 · answer #7 · answered by ron-D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make a somewhat loosly valid point, but how do we know that you aren't one of those people you mentioned that is trying "to act tough and say all that blah blah blah but then they don't live it"?
2007-10-31 14:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered getting some help for you problem? You can be a fighter and have feeling for other people at the same time.
2007-10-31 14:52:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say seek some therapy or perhaps look in to some real estate in a South American country where you can live alone in the woods and kill your dinner every night...
2007-10-31 14:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by missapparition 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋