Marriage & Divorce - 10 September 2007

I(33) married her(21) 1 yr ago against willingness of my family bcz I loved her truely.Everything ws ok b4 she got this job.I helped her a lot many ways in getting the job.After 6 months of training she came back from middleast,went to her parents home without informing me even.Now she is determined to get a divorce bcz-
1.I dnt knw wt life is
2.Why my family refused her b4 marriage
3.I'm short tempered
4.1day I slap her
5.the other day I scold her
6.I dnt hv enough respect to her parents etc etc.

2007-09-10 09:59:49 · 30 answers · asked by betrayed2007 1

I have these dreams that feel so real i mean every touch made me shiver and i haven't been around him in five years and i come to San Antonio to say with my parents all these feeling come up. I mean I'm married to a good man i love him very much

2007-09-10 09:58:45 · 18 answers · asked by A 1

he was taking adderall at the time & thinks that might have added to his "temporary insanity." This is VERY uncharacteristic of him. he's a nice, gentle caring person that says he had this urge he couldnt control. he is going to counseling & to a psych to try to get to the bottom of this. I guess my question is how can I get through this and is it even possible to get past? Right now, i am really having a hard time with everything but I decided to at least try to work it out with him. I was ready to file for divorce after reading about this incident in the local paper. (he never told me about it, i had to find out from an emailed copy of the article sent to me while I was at work.)

2007-09-10 09:46:24 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I gave her Juicy Couture last year and I want to change it up..

2007-09-10 09:41:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

We only lived for a year and a half and it did not work out. At this point, I can see that she just wants to fight with me. But I want to go and start every thing from the scratch. We are both successful professionals. Our family consoler says she is paranoid and she can not accept it.
What should I do? I have had enough. I do not want to start another war in the court.

2007-09-10 09:29:52 · 17 answers · asked by mazyar m 1

or are you like me and say you are lucky to get to ten years and a lot of them end before that.I just dont think humans are meant to be together like that

2007-09-10 09:21:59 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-10 09:18:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

we think th at we settled for good,but it happens that we who unite together have to separateways

2007-09-10 09:14:37 · 11 answers · asked by germani 1

I started talking to this girl a while ago,just as a friend.She had a bf at the time.We got to know each other well.I trusted her with everything.We clicked and I felt there was something different about this girl.She left her bf later and a while down the line we started dating.It didnt last long because she went back to her ex.Her excuse was they had history together and she couldnt be alone.This happened a few times where she went back and forth.In between all that she found out that her ex had cheated on her.We dated again and then got married.It was fine for a while,but then she started wanting to go out and have fun.She's not 21 yet,but she still could go to places.That was fine with a few friends.What got me was that she wanted to hang out with her guy friends alone and would get late night phone calls from them.Granted she gets out late-11pm.I cant get her outta my mind.Most of u will say get over her, keep yourself busy. I get alot of signs though like songs and shows i see.??

2007-09-10 09:14:20 · 10 answers · asked by P1-G 1

We just gotten married during the summer and I found out my husband was in love with another woman while we were engaged, a month before we got married. He thought about leaving me and made me wait one month so he could think about it. I didn't know of this until now. We are doing well in our marriage but I am so deeply hurt because I just found this out accidentally. I debated confronting him about it because it was before we got married, but either way, he was thinking of leaving me for someone else while we were engaged. He has cheated on me before and left me twice for someone else in the past. I am afraid this is a pattern that will continue in our marriage and I told him I will not tolerate it. He is still friends with her and I want to ask him to not talk to her anymore but I feel guilty because he did decide to marry me in the end. I don't know how to feel, whether I should be thankful, mad, upset? We just got married. Should I ask him to stop talking to her or let it be?

2007-09-10 09:11:14 · 38 answers · asked by Loving.You 4

2007-09-10 09:07:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-10 09:06:59 · 7 answers · asked by Bertaboo1973 1

They are 16, 15 and 11. They tell him when he is talking to him "you are an idiot" "are you stupid" "what kind of crap is that, shut up" etc. This weekend I couldn't stand to be around them, in the past I have told them I don't like them talking to my husband like that, they roll their eyes and keep up the banter. I don't know what to do. Last night my husband told me he didn't understand why I left him all alone this past weekend and didn't spend much time with them. I told him that I just couldn't take it. I don't know what to do....I really can't stand being around that. He was raised by parents who wouldn't have tolorated this, I am certain of that.....What is going on?

2007-09-10 09:06:28 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-10 09:02:55 · 14 answers · asked by terry l 1

If you can honestly say Yes, please explain why?

HAVE YOU EVER REALLY LOVED A WOMAN ? (Bryan Adams)

To really love a woman
To understand her
You gotta know her deep inside
Hear every thought
See every dream
And give her wings when she wants to fly

......
When you love a woman
You tell her that she’s really wanted
When you love a woman
You tell her that she’s the one
She needs somebody
To tell her that it’s gonna last forever
So tell me have you ever really
Really really ever loved a woman

To really love a woman
Let her hold you
Do you know how she needs to be touched?
You gotta breath her
Really taste her
Until you can feel her in your blood
Then when you can see your unborn children in her eyes
You know you really love a woman

.....
She needs somebody
To tell her that you’ll always be together
....

You got to give her some faith
Hold her tight
A little tenderness
You gotta treat her right
She’ll be there for you
Taking good care of you
You really gotta love your woman
..

2007-09-10 08:59:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please help, I don't know how to get through to him. Thank you!

2007-09-10 08:57:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think he/she tells you this because you are the best thing he/she is having at that moment or at that time in their life?

2007-09-10 08:54:21 · 21 answers · asked by Garland Red Neck 1

Please do not tell me to leave him or anything of the sorts. I just need to know how I can get the truth. He is a bad liar usually, but he has told so many different answers about this, I can't tell this time. We seperated last November and 2 days later he moved in with a coworker. He said it was because he was pissed at me for not letting him come back home. He said he couldn't stand her b/c she was so annoying, he always treated her bad, was bossy, etc. When he returned home in early December he said a lot of hurtful things, but on Christmas day he told me he slept with he ronce and only once. Yesterday we had a talk and he said ya know I never did sleep with her, I only told you I did because I knew you wouldn't believe me if I said I didn't. Which is true, I mean he is a guy after all. But now I am going crazy, I need to know if he really did or not. It has been almost a year and I can't get over it, but if I can prove he really didn't I would be so very very happy.

2007-09-10 08:52:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's a beautiful dress and it cost me an arm & a leg, but I know I'm not going to want to wear it again ever. Any ideas?

Thanks :)

2007-09-10 08:50:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

see me and my g/f have been together for 6 months, and we've always talked about getting married, but here's the thing:

i've never asked someone before and everytime i want to ask, i hesitate... and things have not gone well because of that. maybe im scared she'll say no, i don't know... i don't even have a ring to ask her with, so: what should i do??

2007-09-10 08:44:12 · 10 answers · asked by Crimson Edge Auto Shop 2

2007-09-10 08:42:08 · 15 answers · asked by Lady in Red 4

My relationship ended 4 months ago as he didn't want committment and said he had fallen out of love after 3 years of being as i thought so happy. Our sex life was always perfect and he always put 100percent into the sex life, if we didn't sleep together for a few days he would think i had gone off him. Although he ended it because i asked for committment he said i had been a wonderful girlfriend but he needed to be single again. He is 39 and never been married or lived with anyone. We remained friends and last week i told him i was over him completely and how would he fancy sex. After a few days he agreed and we slept together. I felt so gutted again to leave him afterwards as i truly believe we could sort things out. We always enjoyed the same things and never argued. Cannot understand his ending things if he said i was an amazing partner. I feel now after having sex with him twice since. i feel worse than ever but can't seem to stop. I love him so much and want him back.

2007-09-10 08:39:22 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-10 08:36:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wrote my husband who is in afghanistan , a love letter and he hasnt written back...and i poured my heart out to him....can you guys think of any reasons why he hasnt written back?

2007-09-10 08:35:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was married before, but divorced after 3months because i realized the guy was full of lies. Its about 5 years gone now & I'm dating this new guy who is about to ask me to marry him. All of a sudden, i have mixed feelings about the idea. Am i scared? What should i tell him?

2007-09-10 08:31:16 · 54 answers · asked by gucci 1

admitted to looking at it. Wut Should I Do? should i get mad?

i also found an empty condom wrapper on his floor but he said it was his friends that lives with him. But, his friend dosnt have sex because his girl is waiting till they get married. so whos could it be?

2007-09-10 08:30:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many women out there believe that Husbands do things purposefully just to get us p'd off? I know that mine does and it drives me crazy trying to figure it all out. Help!

2007-09-10 08:27:42 · 8 answers · asked by Marny 1

When women get angry about their guys relentless gawking at other women, people say "what chance does he have with those women, anyway? What are you worried about? She's way too hot for him."

Don't they realize that's salt in an open wound? Why not just say, "yeah, she's hotter than you and he would like to bang her if she would give him the time of day. But she won't because she's too hot for him. You are not as good looking, so he is settling for you because you aren't as attractive as the women he really wants."?

2007-09-10 08:16:25 · 23 answers · asked by Lady in Red 4

About 3 months ago I had a short affair (about 3 weeks) with a lady. I ended the affair, and cut off all contact with the woman. I am trying to repair my relationship with my wife (she knows about the affair). It was a huge mistake and will take a long time to ever repair our marriage. But I'm trying. My ex-lover's husband recently sent me an email, saying he is still angry and hurt and would love to tell all my family, friends, neighbors about what happened. I have never met him. Should I reply to his mesage with an aplogy - or just leave it be?

2007-09-10 08:11:37 · 53 answers · asked by Rick S 1

I have been married for 4 years with two kids...my husband and i had recently bought a house...his mother barges through the door at the most unexpected times... is it normal because she is family or should i ask her to knock when she comes over...i mean i need my privacy...Do anyone elses mother in laws knock at the door or just walk right in....

2007-09-10 08:07:54 · 26 answers · asked by apolicky 1