see me and my g/f have been together for 6 months, and we've always talked about getting married, but here's the thing:
i've never asked someone before and everytime i want to ask, i hesitate... and things have not gone well because of that. maybe im scared she'll say no, i don't know... i don't even have a ring to ask her with, so: what should i do??
2007-09-10 08:44:12 · 10 answers · asked by Crimson Edge Auto Shop 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you don't know, then you're not ready.
You should feel so much love that you want to be with that person everyday for the rest of your life.
2007-09-10 08:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the person you are with is the first person you want to see when you wake up and the last person you want to see at night. 6 months is not a long time so you might want to wait a little while longer until you are not nervous. How old are you? Lets say you are 25 years old and you live to be 50 you will have been married for half of your life. Take your time.
2007-09-10 08:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by justclicktherubyslippers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty obvious that you're not ready! Not only because it's still early days in the relationship, 6 months, come on!! But also because you don't sound like you have the financial means to support a wife; Because, when you want to marry someone, it's because you're so sure that it's this person you want to spend the rest of your life with for sure; that person you want to grow old with, you want to cherish, protect and love!
So, there's other way to make your girlfriend feel special before getting to that stage of poping the question.
Have you guys tried to be on a long holiday to see how it felt?
Are you living together? Do you know what it feels like to spend 24/7 with that person?
Do you know for sure what makes that person tick?
What makes her happy?
What would be for her a deal breaker?
Have you talked about your views on children?
Where you'd want to live? How much you'd like your families to be involved in your lives?
Well, something tells me that there are loads you can't have discovered in 6 months of being with your girlfriend.
Just try and treat her: meals out; short breaks away; gifts; etc...
Good luck.
You'll know when the time is right, don't you worry!
2007-09-10 08:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, he would eventually be competent. Just do not get your hopes up that your birthday would be the day. The day I suggestion my husband was once going to recommend wasn't as so much a laugh because it might be due to the fact that popping the query was once all I might consider approximately. The day he did it was once so much nicer due to the fact that I did not anticipate it in any respect and it was once icing at the cake for a ultimate day. My recommendation is solely to permit matters occur in thier possess time. It appears like ya'll have a first-rate dedication to one another and that is the important aspect.
2016-09-05 09:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by widdison 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months is way too fast! Why would she get mad because you haven't asked her? Its only been 6 months. When you do ask her its a good idea to get the ring first!
2007-09-10 08:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by Meichelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending where you are in the relationship. Ive been with my bf for only 6months and knows me very well, well much more than my previous relationship(it was of 5yrs.). My parents only knew each other for very very little time and they have been together for over 20yrs!!!
I would love to hear bf ask me to marry me. I would definitely say YES. Just make sure your both on the same page!!!!
GOOD LUCK!!
:)
2007-09-10 11:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by Petitecherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After only 6 months, what's the hurry to ask?
You are not ready, but you have plenty of time to take it slow. Don't rush. Good luck.
2007-09-10 08:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OFF, YOU ARE VERY SWEET TO MENTION THIS TO ALL OF US AND BE HONEST. WELL...WHEN I GOT ASKED ...HE DID NOT HAVE A RING EITHER. FIRST JUST TELL HER HOW MUCH SHE MEANS TO YOU AND HOW IMPORTANT SHE IS AND HOW MUCH U LUV HER ETC...AND YOU WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF UR LIFE W/HER AND WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF SHE WILL MARRY YOU, BUT YOU WILL GET HER A RING AS SOON AS U CAN AFFORD ONE. I AM SURE SHE WOULD UNDERSTAND.
2007-09-10 08:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by NEWPORT BEACH GIRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the ring and take off that silly hat and then come back and ask us for suggestions on how to propose.
2007-09-10 08:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not sound ready.you ask this question with a real relationship not every relationship.
how will you know/you just do in your heart because you feel you are soul mates.
2007-09-10 08:48:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋