Do you love your wife like this? (I wish that my husband did)?

Question

If you can honestly say Yes, please explain why?

HAVE YOU EVER REALLY LOVED A WOMAN ? (Bryan Adams)

To really love a woman
To understand her
You gotta know her deep inside
Hear every thought
See every dream
And give her wings when she wants to fly

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When you love a woman
You tell her that she’s really wanted
When you love a woman
You tell her that she’s the one
She needs somebody
To tell her that it’s gonna last forever
So tell me have you ever really
Really really ever loved a woman

To really love a woman
Let her hold you
Do you know how she needs to be touched?
You gotta breath her
Really taste her
Until you can feel her in your blood
Then when you can see your unborn children in her eyes
You know you really love a woman

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She needs somebody
To tell her that you’ll always be together
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You got to give her some faith
Hold her tight
A little tenderness
You gotta treat her right
She’ll be there for you
Taking good care of you
You really gotta love your woman
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Answer 1

I think having such a romantic view of life is like living in your dreams and not facing up to reality. One day you will wake up from your dream but it might take something really unpleasent to wake up a person who is dreaming.

You should not have such high expectations or else you have to learn to live with disappointment. It is better to live and let live and love and be loved.

Answer 2

My fiance (getting married in 19 days) made me a CD a few years ago of songs he felt described his feelings for me and this was one of them. I read and re-read the lyrics that you have posted here, and he loves me like that. I don't agree with the pp who said that this type of man would be boring. Obviously she doesn't or has never had a relationship in which she was truly loved and respected. We have our issues and life is not always rosy, but it's great to have a man who is still crazy about you after almost 7 years together and can still look at you sick and shivering and tell you that you're cute with your nose stuffed up. I can honestly say that my fiance is my best friend and he does all the things mentioned in the song. All your husband has to do is open his ears and listen to you, pay attention to your wants, needs and desires, and be willing to take steps to ensure that you are happy. Unfortuneatly, this is not something that you can teach him or force him to do. Either he's this type of guy or he's not.

Answer 3

yes and no.
yes because I love her.
no because I am not her. Meaning that we do sure common interest but not everything she like I like and in reverse. Think about it, guy like sport, and one of the boring sport is baseball, are you willing to sit everyday for 3-5 hours for a baseball game. I know basegame is not everyday and you have work to. But think about it, in a marriage, you have to be with them after work. Neither it is spenting time with the kids, buying food, or whatever is afterwork right?
So even when you said "I love you with all my heart" that is not going to be true. Try just picking him up after work. Traffic is going to be a *****, if he is late coming out and you got a ticket because of double parking, who are you going to curse. Granded that I have done what I have said and took everything inside, but hey my girl still won't like my hobbies. My hobbies is reading comic books and she doesn't even want to give it a chance.
See my point. Would you give it a chance. It can be boring as hell to you and all we will talk about for days is just comics. Can you do that?
So the song you have is not trulty correct. Just as man and woman are. Nothing is 100 percent. 60-80 percent is good enough. The other 20 percent is the dreaming part. And be honest 365 days, can you dream of you husband every night? Not sleeping next to him for 365 days, i mean dreaming from night till day for 365 days.

Answer 4

I can't hear her thoughts, but sometimes I say exactly what she was going to say at exactly the same time.

I can't give her wings, but I don't try to restrict her freedom.

I have told her it's going to last forever, and I meant it.

She has occasionally remarked happily that I have learned exactly how to touch her in the ways she most enjoys.

I don't know what "breathe her" or "feel her in your blood means". I am not poetic like that. I'm a literalist.

Tasting her is one of my favorite things to do!

There are no unborn children in her eyes: our youngest was born almost 10 years ago, and that's enough.

I do indeed hold her tenderly and/or tightly and I do treat her right.

Answer 5

I know my husband loves me. He tells me everyday 3-4 times. I gave him a beautiful child and we have a great life. If he did some of the things in the song, it would probably just be irritating.

Answer 6

Here's an idea. Ask Cecilie Thomsen if Bryan Adams actually gets the true meaning of what he has written, after his purported affair with Princess Diana.

Your husband will treat you as you require of him.

Answer 7

well, one, the song really isn't that complex, i'm sure plenty of guys can do most of the things in it, as far as 'hearing every thought', etc., sorry but that's a supernatural talent that no human has at this time, and it's unreasonable to expect it; no one can read your mind, all you do is communicate to the best of your ability, on both sides, and don't expect your guy to automatically know all about you--some things he will never know, to tell you the truth--enjoy your differences, enjoy the things he does do for you, and you'll get by fine.

Answer 8

Sometimes my hubby is like that. Sometimes he isn't, I think all marriages take work and eventually you either fall more in love with that person everyday or you realize how miserable you are. Good luck finding your Mr Right!

Answer 9

I do love my wife like that. I guess I learned how to love from my parents, who were married for 66 years.
I'm grateful for every night we go to bed, always making some sort of physical contact while we sleep, even if it's just our toes touching.
I'm grateful for every morning we wake up, for I know we have another joyous day ahead of us.
I'm grateful for everything she does for me, and I try to return her love in kind.
I'm grateful to God, for sending me the true love of my life.

Answer 10

Yes..I did... to my sweet wife and .still i am doing it....I felt like this song written and sung for me and my wife....
And last May 20 th was our 14th wedding anniversary., to be frank with you that we do argue and fight but all those was regarding our two boys mischiefs or something silly and it lasts only hours or usually it ends on the bed.