I have these dreams that feel so real i mean every touch made me shiver and i haven't been around him in five years and i come to San Antonio to say with my parents all these feeling come up. I mean I'm married to a good man i love him very much
2007-09-10 09:58:45 · 18 answers · asked by A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They are just dreams. I wouldn't read anything into it. He's your ex for a reason.
2007-09-10 10:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of the iceberg on what is really happening in your marriage. I dont mean to scare you but many problems when they either first show up or if they keep reoccurring could be just whats showing from a larger problem that either you or your spouse cannot even see. One of the only things you can do to help is to talk honestly and openly with each other in the marriage. If things become more serious more serious options need to be looked at as possibilities. I have a blog that has more information on some of what I've been writing about. If you feel like checking it out I would completly suggest it. Read here https://tr.im/WNph1
Love is a choice that is made everyday when you wake up and every night when you go to sleep. Some days you may not feel the original feeling but love isnt a feeling or an emotion. Its an action a verb. Falling out of love may just mean you need to spice things up a little or that you were never in love in the first place. Don't just get out of a marriage just because you don't think you like the person anymore.
2016-07-18 19:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my husband 4 years now..and was married to another man for about 3 years before..and I STILL have sexual dreams about my ex-boyfriend whom I dated before my first husband!
They are gooooooood dreams, but it is annoying. I hate the guy, he was the worst possible person for me to be with, but the sex was amazing..and that is why I think I still have dreams about him because he was worthless otherwise.
I think having dreams about someone is one thing, that is okay, you can't really control it...the feelings that are coming up though, that is another thing entirely!
2007-09-10 10:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by SisterSue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They're just dreams, Hon. I wouldn't worry about it. If you have a good man, look at it like you're dreaming of a nice pair of shoes you really liked, but would never buy....and let it be that...just a dream, or fantasy. You've been with him before, so ya know, your brain might just be whipping stuff up in the middle of the night on you for no good reason, and he's just one of the men available in the "data banks". :)
2007-09-10 10:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then keep dreaming, make love to your husband with every feeling that you have and don't put any more into it than that.
2007-09-10 10:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by essencepleasure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can't control our dreams. So I would not worry about it meaning anything. I have lots of strange dreams and I just go on with life and feel they don't mean anything.
2007-09-10 14:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-27 14:20:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that its just fun to fantasize about being with someone else sometimes, as long as you don't read into these dreams too much you should be fine. oh and don't mention them to your husband.. hehe
2007-09-10 10:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard it only reflects that there is something about the ex you miss. Not the whole person mind you. One good quality that you wish the current guy had. Maybe some extra talent between the sheets. Not that you want him back, he may have otherwise been a louse.
2007-09-10 10:13:05 · answer #9 · answered by mouser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreams really don't mean much....its just your subconscious when you sleep....the main thing is its not a nightmare...i love to have sex dreams it makes me mad to wake up..iv been very happily married to my wife too but iv had dreams about my ex and even fantasies about some of our sex too...but i guess more guys do than women. may i ask have you had orgasm during these dreams.....iv only done that one time...
2007-09-10 10:05:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋