Marriage & Divorce - 8 September 2007

2007-09-08 23:59:51 · 8 answers · asked by nuhaa3 1

My husband lied to me before marriage that he is divorced. But after my marriage I came to know he is not divorced yet.Later He divorced her legally and Religously.But he does not send her the divorce papers.I dont know Why.The papers are with me. Everytime I ask him he gives his own reasons as busy etc. Respond quickly as to what should I do to make him send Divorce papers immediately to that female and let that female go ahead in her life.

2007-09-08 23:57:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it wrong?

Would it be unfaithful if you then finished the relationshipo and got back to married life?

2007-09-08 23:00:21 · 33 answers · asked by Diamond Geezer 2

He tells me things that in my life have made me sad...like my adoption, and other things. He tells me I am a slut, no good, ect, that there is no use talking to me about anything...As far as realtes to my child, he TELLS me what to do, never 'discusses', then hangs up so there is no discussion. I am FORCED to deal with this (court orders, but no help with it)

2007-09-08 22:50:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married for 5 years with a very attractive wife. I have a very close friend at the office with whom I confide my personal life. He is very experienced with women and advises me how to handle issues I have with my wife. But lately I have started telling him very intimate things about my relationship with my wife and he seems to take particular interest in knowing more about her. The thing is I have also taken a liking in telling him these things and often look forward to meeting him during office hours to tell him these details. I have invited him to join my wife for lunch on 2 occasions and it gives a ver exciting feeling seeing both of them together interacting. Can anybody shed some light on why I feel and act this way?

2007-09-08 21:23:27 · 29 answers · asked by Rick 1

I answered a topic which dealt with a newlywed and her new hub who she found masturbated. I noticed one posting in particular by a man who posted 'What's with all these "young" females coming in here & answering this question as though they are an expert on the subject?'

BTW: How old are you bob, and how do you know all of us are young and inexperienced???

Anyhoo.....let me start the ball rolling. I am in my mid 30's and met my former spouse at 18--he was 20. We married at 20 and 22, and divorced at 31 and 33. We each knew the other masturbated BEFORE marriage. We each knew it had NOTHING to do with sexual dissatisfaction--we had a great sex life, even long after the divorce, lol.

Could most of you actually marry someone without speaking about intimate matters such as this? Seriously? I started masturbating in my teens, and didn't stop because I had a stud at my disposal, it is great stress release and you don't have to worry about pregnancy and/or mess.

2007-09-08 20:48:16 · 18 answers · asked by navy_brat913 2

2007-09-08 20:35:09 · 23 answers · asked by Joy 3

2007-09-08 20:11:46 · 13 answers · asked by abina s 2

You love your husband or wife, no question about it, but you found this special person later after marriage who fits those qualities you sought for before you got married.

Surprisingly, your relationship with this special someone is not just a fling for you, but more of the TRUE LOST LOVE you found so late in life. You can't imagine yourself anymore living life without him/her beside you. You dream of growing old with him/her. But you can' imagine leaving your wife/husband just for this special someone.

2007-09-08 19:54:33 · 13 answers · asked by Calla R 1

2007-09-08 19:43:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Marriage has become a government moeny making sceme. They charge you for the lisecness.They charge you if you have family problems for domestic disputes. They charge you when you get a divorce court fees, legal fees, fines if you yell too much at your spouse. Fees for child custodey hearings and court fees, laywer fees. So if marriage was an insitution of the curch what happened to the separation of church and state? Hasn't marriage just become another government scam?What are your thoughts? Wouldn't we all be better off if people got married just by the church and the goverment was left out of family affairs?

2007-09-08 19:24:24 · 14 answers · asked by Vivianna 4

I've had a long term realtionship its been for 2 years and 2 months we had long distance realtionship and he left his family back and came down to be with me .... But now its diffrent ... Everytime it seems like he doesnt care what I say ....He Tells Me He Loves Me And Sometimes Does Nice Things To Me... But His not an undersantding person... he get annoyed when i cry.... and he hurts me TOO much .... Yet I Love Him To Death ... What Can I Do To Forget Him???? Please Help!!!

2007-09-08 18:55:15 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Me 1

My husband and I were in a heated argument and he started doing all of these wrestling moves on me. He had me in a headlock and he put all of his weight on me. I was trying to fight back, but he wouldn't let me go until I surrendered. Thus... when I ended up with a sprained knee he claims it was my fault! To make matters worse... he kept grabbing my wrists and not letting me go until I "calmed down". When I tried to leave the room he would block the door and wouldn't let me leave. For the first time in my life I'm questioning what I should do??? I have a new baby and a 9 year old and I'm not working. I have no checking or savings account... no car, no license. He's never been physical like this with me before... but what bothers me is that because he never "hit" me, he doesn't see it as abuse. Which really burns me up!!! I'm in a knee brace and crutches... but he say's it was my fault because of the way I was twisting when he was holding me down.... HELP!

2007-09-08 18:11:19 · 45 answers · asked by writeright 2

it's like a mission impossible for them. i haven't really figured it though.

2007-09-08 17:52:58 · 21 answers · asked by the questioner 2

Ok, I'm curious about this. I have a few guy friends. They are like brothers to me (so, nothing sexual or anything). They all have lovely girlfriends too.

I find that when these guy friends are in the presents of other men, they show off. For example, I met up with a few of these guy friends last night at a bar. They had just come from a bachelor party. They were talking and saying to each other, "God, marriage is so stupid. One girl to have sex w/ for the rest of your life" and stuff like that. One of the guys said, "one girl for the rest of you life? That's what the women believe!" All the guys laughed and agreed.

But, what I found crazy is that, all of these guys are Head Over Heels for their girlfriends. They would not cheat and they all plan on marrying these current girlfriends.

So, do guys just make such sterotypical comments in front of other guys just to show off? Opinions? Thoughts?

Mens Answer Wanted too

2007-09-08 17:50:34 · 15 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5

My fiance suddenly stopped kissing me passionately, stopped gving me foreplay, but expects me to please him.
Could he have cheated on me? Is it control? What could be happening? Why would a man do that? Did I do something wrong? It has been like this for over a year. I have hesitated to make wedding plans because of this.

2007-09-08 17:12:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean to ask that after after I and my husband have filed a mutual divorce petition, and after passing out of the 6 months time provided by the court, can my husband now refuse to give me divorce? Can the mutual petition be cancelled by him alone, if I do not agree to cancel it? It is now 9 months running.

2007-09-08 17:09:09 · 6 answers · asked by puja s 1

When I went to the social security office to change my last name, I was told my new name HAD to be exactly the way I signed it on the marriage license. Well, when I signed the marriage license I signed my first name, left out my middle name completely, used the first letter of my maiden name, and then my new last name. I honestly feel like a piece of me is missing without my middle name of Rebecca and only the first letter of my maiden name. Is there any way to change this???

2007-09-08 16:59:06 · 11 answers · asked by copswife134 3

2007-09-08 16:54:22 · 19 answers · asked by lifescircle 5

I'll be returning to work as of 9/17 on a part time basis. I've been a full time stay at home mommy for the last year. Our daughter is only 1 year old. My husband works a day time job and then his "hobby" as a part time job in the evenings... here's my problem. I'll be working 3 evenings a week from about 5-9pm. He's usually on the medic/fire dept the same 3 nights. He can shift things around a little because he's an officer.BUT he wants to get his mom or sister to come over in the evenings when he has our daughter to keep an eye on her because he states he cant get things done with her needing to be watched (DUH she's a toddler) He's a GREAT Dad! An AMAZING husband, but he's not sure how to care for her "on his own" as he put it. Anything I can do to help ease his anxiety and not get mad at him at the same time? I'm on my own and expected to get things done with just me and her, so why cant he for the 5-6hrs I'm gone? AND, my sister would be keeping her on the nights he's at station

2007-09-08 16:39:03 · 11 answers · asked by marcie1997 3

My husband and I have been married for almost one year, we have a 9 month old daughter. But are love life has droped because of me. I am always tired and after spend all day with the baby i don't want to be touched. I also just don't feel pretty. I have some strech make from being pregnant and still have about 15 pounds to loss to be where i was before i had the baby. because of these thing i don't want to ever have sex. I don't know how to get my self back. If anyone has any ideas please let me know?

2007-09-08 16:36:00 · 10 answers · asked by Slim1206 1

2007-09-08 16:07:15 · 17 answers · asked by albandazole 2

I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years already. We are both 28. We both love each other very much. she is getting frustrated that I don't want to have sex with her. She never had sex with anyone. I never had sex with anyone before too. I plan to never have sex. I kiss, foreplay, and hug her but that's it. Not sex. I think sex is perverted. I love her to death. I know she's the one for me. Do you think she will leave me in the future if I don't have sex with her? I know she loves me very much too.

2007-09-08 14:55:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend having been exclusively seeing each other for the past two years. We are both virgins and believe that we should be married before we have any type of sexual relations with each other. Recently our relationship has become a long distance one since we are both starting our second year of college. My boyfriend will be coming back in January to finish school where I live, but here’s where the problem lies: he wants to get an apartment together. When we both discussed are feelings about getting an apartment he was for the idea and I am against it. I was raised on the saying “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free” and I don’t believe that he truly understands where I am coming from. I think that we both should at least be engaged before we move in together and he doesn’t think so. He thinks that we should see how life would be living together before we get married. I think buy moving in together it would lessen the chances of use getting married and increase

2007-09-08 14:20:57 · 34 answers · asked by Honey 3

2007-09-08 14:19:35 · 12 answers · asked by torn 3

I have been a relationship with my husband for 14 years, we have 2 kids together, in our relationship, i have been on drugs and cheated behind his back, he still stayed beside me, i got of drugs and change my hole life around, but every time the kids did somthing wrong it was my fault, he would say things like well it probley from how you used to acted, the kids where youg when i was drugs, it has been almost 5 years and i have not been any where drugs, i know i was in the wrong,for what i did to him and i know that he can not see past his pain, recently i told him it was over, and now he will not even talk to me, i miss him so much what should i do plz help.

2007-09-08 14:16:16 · 5 answers · asked by gizmo_macca_au 1

My husband has withdrawn emotionally from our relationship and I was wondering if there is anything I can do about it? I do admit that I have been nagging him because of his affair and his insistance on going out without me. And I do tell him how angry I am with him and I don't trust him.

He is not making an effort any more though. He acts like he just doesn't care, but then says he wants to make things work. But he also stopped communicating with me.

2007-09-08 14:13:26 · 13 answers · asked by blue eyes 2

my husband and i generally have a good relationship...we got married in secret without our parents knowing as he was going to iraq for deployment ....a few months later my parents found out and luckily my husband was back from iraq by then .....my parents were very fustrated and kept giving me a hard time abt the wedding ...now after some time as they are getting to know my husband they r seeming to be alright with all this and want us to have a big wedding ....my husband is stationed 6 hours away from me 4 now and comes to visit me everyother weekend ...i usually make up wrk excuses to my parents and leave the house to spend time secretly with him as he doesnot want to caome over to greet my parents while he is in town ....this particular weekend having no reasonable excuse i suggested if we could just tell my parents he was in town and have maybe dinner with them so they can bond with him too and after which we will spend all our time together . having heard this..........cont

2007-09-08 14:05:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Has anyone left a cheating, lying spouse that they loved to the bone and would die for- if you did how did you finially decide to leave and how has that decision affected you?

2007-09-08 13:19:25 · 6 answers · asked by Chava 2

2007-09-08 12:43:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous