Marriage & Divorce - 8 September 2007

hello guys iam really shcoked my hubby is ona friendship and dating site called myspace.com and he has been keeping intouch with a woman called kendal what do Ido now iam so upset now and distressed not to mentioned shocked what am I goping to do guys. I havent got the finan cial means to divorce i have no money no where to liveand iam completely upset

2007-09-08 12:42:08 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I NEED HELP FROM YOU GUYS !!
In a nutshell, 2 months ago my husband of 13 years told me he does not love me anymore and wants a divorce. Then I find out he has been seeing someone for the past 3 months. Yes we had problems in our relationship and they were all financial.
He is now living with this women and he has recently showed interest in listening to me talk and tell him he is making a mistake and we can fix our marriage. I keep flipping back and forth from trting to move on and forget about it to forgiving him for what he has done and trying to reach out to him to try to make it work. Yes we have had sex twice since the split and I have asked him if he is only using me for that. He says our sex life is so great and he desires me but he still feels a closeness and connection to me and wants to talk about it when he is ready. Am I being and idiot for this or should I stand by patiently for a bit? I know that no one can tell me what to do but I need advice.

2007-09-08 12:30:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love my husband very much and its quite impossible to live without him both for me and my four year old papa's girl.i really love my husband from the core of my heart,i can live witout anything except for my daughter and my husband.it was really very shocking for me when i came to know that he is having terms with one of his co-worker from the past two years.i feel like doing nothing........nothing.....there must be my fault which made him to do so..........what should i do ,please help.

2007-09-08 12:23:43 · 26 answers · asked by cuttiii 1

he told me he didn't find her attractive but recently she was over and i asked him agian and right in front of her he said "i can't help it she's good looking" He acts weird every time shes over! Whats really going on?

2007-09-08 12:17:07 · 5 answers · asked by tiffany 2

My boyfriend has unpaid back child support. We live in Texas. We would like to get married soon, our question is can we get a marriage licence with him having unpaid back child support?

2007-09-08 12:16:03 · 21 answers · asked by Kayla 2

I am interested in getting a divorce from my wife with whom I have been seperated from for 3 years. We are legally seperated. I found a web site called 3stepdivorce.com. It seems pretty straight up, but I wonder if anyone out there has any experience with this site or maybe another similiar site. How did it go? ANy problems? The price is listed at $299. Are their any hidden fees? Maybe their is an inexpensive way to do this by myself? Let me know what you think. Any advice will be appreciated.

2007-09-08 12:14:06 · 3 answers · asked by steve 2

I feel bad for everyone having problems, it must be hard and my heart goes out to all of you.
Im wondering why we do not see people asking more questions about what they can do for their spouse instead of themselves.
Can anyone name at least two good things they did for their spouse today that made them feel good or happy?
Just two things? Anyone?

2007-09-08 12:10:39 · 7 answers · asked by nelppik 3

I'm a US citizen considering marrying a Kiwi and remaining in NZ, perhaps permanently..
Is NZ citizenship automatic in such a case?
If not, what other steps towards citizenship are necessary?
Thank you

2007-09-08 12:02:59 · 8 answers · asked by Lance W 1

I like my friends husband i dont know if its a crush but i want him .... sexually is that bad ? I been feeling like this for awhile and im also married but no happy !! What should I do tell her or just stay away !

2007-09-08 11:54:30 · 22 answers · asked by Emi 1

married 8 years ago, trying to get a divorce they moved back to indonesia i cant find them.. any suggestions no kids, property etc.

2007-09-08 11:45:30 · 7 answers · asked by graded 1

I know women cheat too but this is focused on my father. He has no respect for my mom every morning he gets up and calls the other women and ever afternoon when he comes home from work he gives her a call b4 anything else. She use to do the "call and hangup thing" but now he just calls her. My mom is not well of financially right now or else she would leave but u can see that the marriage is over and she has confronted him about the women but he denies it. But we're not stupid my sister and I are in our early 20's and I have heard him talk to her on the phone the way he should be talking to my mom. He wonders why I don't have any respect for him and why I always try to avoid him. I wish we were well of financially so we could all move out he doesn't know how sick he makes me. The strange thing is I over hear him telling the other omen about us, things like our majors in school, jobs, hobbies, etc. And if we were to confront him about it he would probably say she just a friend.

2007-09-08 11:32:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-08 11:29:06 · 13 answers · asked by Lori N 1

I know someone who is trying to get married just for the green card. Should I do anything? And if so, what?

2007-09-08 11:21:28 · 29 answers · asked by lisakotrob@sbcglobal.net 1

Any kind of relationships - lovers or friends, if you and the other person go through REALLY bad, hard, and challenging times together (to the point where you don't know what's going to happen) and OVERCOME it, do you value the relationship more? do you feel closer to the person and feel that your relationship has grown more?

I'm not talking about "oh we had a fight" (for like a week), i'm talking where it's dramatic...it's those hard times you just go through (like a blessing in disguise) - a big misunderstanding...

and w. "relationships", i mean you guys had to have been really close, have a great connection, and there's that mutual respect and understanding to fix things

2007-09-08 11:18:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-08 11:15:25 · 21 answers · asked by Jazzy 1

OKay , so i have been w/ my BF for 5 years... I am 21 years old now. We have 2 daughters together and just built out second house.... but i dont think where in love anymore. Hes very controlling and doesnt let me go out to see my friends, and if he does he has to come. He has never trusted me. And i cant help but to resent him, I feel like i missed out on alot of being a teenager, i moved out w/ him when i was 16, and have barley got to see my friends since. I so badly want to go out and see my friends. So i have started playing Second LIfe its a online game, but he is so mad about it and has talked about taking away the computer. But i need somthing!! I have my daughters and i love them but its hard. And he is always working and doesnt pay much attention to them... so what im trying to ask is should we stay together? I think about lkeaving all the time, but i feel so guilty for leaving him alone. And having kids makes the decsion even harder!Any advice at all is very appreciated

2007-09-08 11:06:18 · 18 answers · asked by becky m 1

2007-09-08 10:52:43 · 22 answers · asked by big daddy 4

2007-09-08 10:48:17 · 7 answers · asked by Thursday 1

I have just read the answers to what makes a relationship a success and I can honestly say my relationship fits most of those. I can be myself completly, trust, honesty(and thats been rough).we have many shared interests.best friend. used to be good sex but my hearts not init anymore. BUT he takes no responsibility.I manage the house , the finances, the little money he brings in, I make most desicions -work, social.and organise everything. I feel like I play the parent role? we go for a drink/meal he tells me his order,I carry all the money while travelling and it goes on......I want to go out into the world and adventure-hes happy where he is...
so what makes a relationship work...whats failure? are we allowed to move on to find new or stick it out . we got loads of plus's but I want to finish after 15 years and a child.....do you make do with the plus's or do you go for where your heart dreams.theres no other man in my life right now.

2007-09-08 10:38:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 8 months pregnant and I just found out my hubby has been cheating on me for a couple of months. I do not now what to do, I have nowere to go and he is sorry and wants me to stay. he says he loves me and it was happened when he was drunk, has any woman ever had that happen to them and what did you do, did you leave him and where did you go? I am frightened of what will happen to me because I am going to have his baby in a few weeks. Should I stay until after the baby is born or should I leave now. I dont know what to do. How could he do this to me, I am lost and feel so alone.

2007-09-08 10:37:54 · 13 answers · asked by kimbtilly 2

2007-09-08 10:36:45 · 9 answers · asked by pussycat 5

2007-09-08 10:35:29 · 11 answers · asked by DunDee 1

Esp. when it comes to a girl they like?

2007-09-08 10:31:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am very Extremely Curious About this question. A woman who smiles alot, even on her bad days, [she still smiles]... is a woman who is what????????? What exactly kind of woman is she?????

2007-09-08 10:28:43 · 13 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

Hi guys! thxs for stopping by! i am at crossroads, i am 28 married six months back , recently found out my wife has been cheating on me before and after marriage , i directly and indirectly hinted her to stop all this , but it doesnt.She lied to me on various occasions but now its beyond doubt.....Whenever we fight She threatens me with law , suicide and every way she can ...i am somewhere more worried bcoz of her being totally unpredictable and voilent.She has been pampered child and is supported by her family .......i dont know how to make her faithful to me and improve her behaviour Or should i leave her

2007-09-08 10:27:15 · 14 answers · asked by jhimpuk 1

I signed for my ex husband to take my 2 year old son out of state but in the paper it said that my son is to have no contact with two people in california who are on drugs. My ex completely disregarded this and had them pick him and my son up from the airport, then shut off his phone so I could not reach them to see if my son was alright.
Is there anything I can do short of flying out there like a psycho and taking my son from his drug addict friends house? I can't afford to do this at all, but I am really worried about my son. They are not supposed to come home until Tuesday and I am afraid I will not hear anything from them at all.

2007-09-08 10:09:45 · 25 answers · asked by princessin_bluejeans 2

Two of my friends brought this lifestyle to my attention and although I have no interest in it, I am curious over it. How can one be sure the Head of Household is correct over an issue. Many times, I know I have been wrong and if I had disciplined my partner, I would have done her wrong. In the case of my friends, the woman presented her partner with a contract. Should not the man also be held to a standard?

2007-09-08 10:08:33 · 11 answers · asked by StatesideNow 1

my ex-husband is on his third marriage now but he made this satement recently at our daughters wedding in front of people that knows me, family and friends. he and I are friends and christains now. he cheated on me with the second wife who cheated on him and then he married this lady a few years ago right away.

2007-09-08 09:52:43 · 11 answers · asked by dairylady982000 2

i'd been going out w/ my boyfriend fr 4 yrs & was engaged, when i met this married man, 6 yrs older (he has 3 kids, oldest is 7). we hit it off at once -there was definitely a lot of chemistry.didnt help at all that he put me up at his place for a while when i relocated to his town fr work. i became REALLY good friends with his mom, sis etc. the time came for me to get married - i couldnt take it any longer and told this guy about my feelings...he felt the same way, he even asked me at that point if i wanted him to marry me, but i dint take it seriously - i thought id be fine n only needed it to get it outta my system - i hoped that this was a phase and my feelings would subside once i got married. but its been 2 yrs and i have NOT forgotten him. we meet up at times fr lunch etc, b/c we value the connection we have. but twice in 2 yrs we have broken down and told each other how much we miss each other. i cant think of anyone but him. my feelings for him r too strong. what should i do?

2007-09-08 09:50:28 · 12 answers · asked by Karine SwissArmy 2

She is about 5'5 and has a ring on marriage finger Please Help Me

2007-09-08 09:44:34 · 9 answers · asked by Who Gives a F*ck 2