I feel bad for everyone having problems, it must be hard and my heart goes out to all of you.
Im wondering why we do not see people asking more questions about what they can do for their spouse instead of themselves.
Can anyone name at least two good things they did for their spouse today that made them feel good or happy?
Just two things? Anyone?
2007-09-08 12:10:39 · 7 answers · asked by nelppik 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do things for mine all the time. Today I had breakfast waiting for him when he got up (at 11 am), and was nice enough to go and get his shoes out of his car for him since he kicked them off on his way home from work last night. Other then that nothing because he came home at 6 and was out the door again at 11:30.
2007-09-08 12:21:53 · answer #1 · answered by cris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I made coffee for my spouse before he left to take our son and his friend to an Amusement park. We talked on the phone mid-day so he could update me on how it was all going. No big bells and whistles or glory, but we are looking out for each other here. I am home ill, so he took two teenage boys for a fun day. Yesterday he took care of the house so I could rest, then I took care of the kids so he could rest. Can't beat that. The people not having problems aren't her looking for advice. The people having problems want to hear from the ones who aren't in hopes of being happy too. It is all good. Don't worry.
2007-09-08 19:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was married for 15 years. He was a shift worker and there wasnt one time I didnt get up with him in the early hours of the morning, make his lunch or dinner and kiss him goodbye. I would always greet him lovingly when he came home from work. I would ring him and tell him how much I loved him. I would pack a little cupcake in his lunch with a candle on his birthday. I would always be willing to make love to him. I showed him all the love in the world. It didnt matter how nice I was to him, he couldnt help himself with other women. He didnt cheat on me once.....I lost count of the times he cheated. I wish yahoo answers was around when I was going through my difficult time because I really needed some unbiased opinions. Some people cant help themselves....they are too self absorbed to care about the impact of what they are doing on their spouse. I needed help, not him, he was quite happy doing what he was doing....he didnt have a conscience. Maybe if I got some help I would have left him a long time before I did. I was a wonderful wife to him, but it didnt do me any good.....he was hell bent on destroying the marriage (even if he didnt realise it)
2007-09-08 19:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by rightio 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I made him coffee and served it to him, after letting him do whatever he wanted to do to me in bed ;). Honest!!
I agree with you, tho. Isnt it just easier to ask your spouse what they would like you to do, rather than ask somebody else?
2007-09-08 19:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry going through a divorce after 30 years, it's what he wanted, he got it!!
2007-09-08 19:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, I told her I'd give her a divorce and then laughed at her when she said she still cared after months of her saying she didn't
2007-09-08 19:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I made his lunch
He took a nap and I did not wake him up.
2007-09-08 19:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by hotmomma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋