Marriage & Divorce - 7 September 2007

if so i feel your'e pain, if not...watch out

2007-09-07 23:36:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend wnats to emmigrate to Canada in 2009.

She lives in the Uk, and wants to marry the father of her baby who lives in Canada.

He slept around and she slept with whoever, then she took the babay to meet his father for the 1st time ( the father has never seen his son, and the boy is 20 months old!)

She is looking for jobs over there, but she is just a simple customer service rep.

How does she go about moving to Canada?

2007-09-07 23:33:59 · 4 answers · asked by Rebz 5

my parents had married me on the nick of the time, ( a day b4 they were leaving for abroad) but I am not happy with my wife. I never accepted her as a wife. She keeps on torturing me mentally. As a result I am suffering from hypertension due to this & have undergone operation as well.Now that my parents have realise that it was not fair on their part & asked her family for divorce they arent ready for it. She wants half of the property on her name & still is not ready to divorce me. How can i avoid her.

2007-09-07 23:27:28 · 21 answers · asked by Rajan 1

Ladies, would you try to stay with a man who beat you and treated you less than human in front of your children.Who refered to your stretch marks. from carrying two of his children, as jelly belly. Who constantly made you tremble the moment he walked into the room fearing you may be verbally abused or even physically hurt....the sex is no longer sex but a violent act...leaving you feeling like youre less than garbage???I and alot others feel for you and if you want out just get on this page and ask questions where you can get help and get away with your life and the lives of your children...please help us help you..do you want out???

2007-09-07 23:13:25 · 28 answers · asked by Just try to touch my hat 2

2007-09-07 23:13:03 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have found out that my husband lies about some pretty big stuff. We have talked about it and I have told him I would forgive him and try to work through it but I just can help but think hes still lying. I have tryed to catch him but I have not. I want to belive he is telling the truth and not lying anymore is there anything I can do to start trusting him more after that trust has been broken? please help any advice is welcome but please dont be mean . Sorry for any bad spelling or grammar

2007-09-07 22:17:53 · 25 answers · asked by Katy Lew 5

the guy: is in a distant place; still stays with his wife and kids he says; businessman; was caught talking and hiring whores before; promised to stop; girl caught him again, and then again; he changed for a little bit; has erectile problem at times; he claims he doesn't touch any of them just 'viewing'; girl knows he loves her and want to be with her and is building a future with her; but recently girl caught him emailing again; he says that's nothing, it's online and doesn't mean anything. this guy had hired other females in bed to be with the girl, to fulfill fantasies; behind the back of the girl he still contacts other girls despite giving him all he wished for.

the girl: devastated but willing to work it out; loves the guy so much and believes there's no one else for her but this guy and could never get along being with other men; very loyal, intelligent, sweet and loving to the guy. willing to do anything for the guy, but sometimes feels hope just slips away.

2007-09-07 22:06:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have had no effection, love, romance after our arranged marriage from my husband. I know this is not normal, so what could be the problem?

2007-09-07 21:41:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the procedure for getting a divorce from an unseccessful arranged marriage which happened in india only after 3 months of marriage.
PS....husband lives in india & he has not gotten his visa to come to country of my residence.

2007-09-07 20:54:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you think about 23 y/o girl going to marry a 50 y/o man in the case the parents of the girl is not agree then.is ther any sort of things to make her mind change.

2007-09-07 20:37:44 · 17 answers · asked by sweetmine83 1

I am 6 years married now with a 7 year-old kid. I got married at such an early age, 19.
So here is my problem...
I fell out of love and wanted an escape out of the relationship. But I couldn't because of my daughter and my husband loves me very much and doesn't want to let me go. So I tried to rediscover my feelings with my husband but nothing happens. We are still living together but nothing is actually happening to us. I mean, we are not active in terms of sexual aspect. I just can't do it with him anymore. We have been like this for almost two years.
I just want to clarify my situation, I am not in love with somebody else... I just fell out of love. What must I do?

2007-09-07 19:58:01 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think that people do change, and over the time their feelings and life partners might change also. I have no expectations of my partner to keep me for life, and when he says this "one man, one woman" thing I think of it as of a way too strong of a statement. Am I being too nihilistic?

2007-09-07 19:54:17 · 30 answers · asked by OC 7

Guys and gals who are married. How do you know that the person you are married to is the "one" for you. Please feel free to answer. (HETEROSEXUALS ONLY PLEASE)

2007-09-07 19:44:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

now he gets mad when i call him.i've requested that we follow through w/devorce.or get counseling and to get back together.he tells me,we will talk on this next day off.once again i get nothing and when he does finally answer my call,his attitude and tone are very angry,i think he's meet someone else.what is your opinion?

2007-09-07 19:16:40 · 12 answers · asked by sisters4lifekimmy 1

Your wife is there, she loves you and trusts you, she believes all your excuses from being late from work or traffic. What do you do to overcome the gulit. Are you still able to look her into the eyes and say you love her. Do you ever feel like confessing?
How do you deal with it? Do you try to blame her for not being how you want her to be to help you deal with the guilt? Do you try to be nicer than usual to mislead her? What are your coping tecnques and have you ever gone close yo confessing..

2007-09-07 19:01:37 · 8 answers · asked by silver wings 4

I have a situation here, I have 2 small children with my x fiance - he has kept us homeless for almost a year now. we lived with my parents for 6 months and then his parents for the past 2 months - he works but is paid under the table.. No taxes, no detection - he owes about 17k in back child support for his two grown boys - the IRS wants to talk to him -he denied our first child being his and pushed for DNA testing..shes his - he never signed the birth certificate - he never signed the birth certificate for our son- he's a jerk to me, calls me names, puts me down, says im a bad parent-yes all in front of the kids-His mom asked me and the kids to leave for a few days because the 2 year old fell off the toilet and bumped his lip (it bled) so now im an irresponsible, neglectfull parent. the kids cry to much (getting a cold) she wanted us gone. Now he expects me back monday -I said NO and now he said that if I dont come back with the children monday he will start a motion for custody.

2007-09-07 18:48:12 · 11 answers · asked by Jennifer S 1

2007-09-07 18:39:45 · 14 answers · asked by Nathaniel W 1

I ask my husband if he would like to watch me have sex.
He said only if you'd watch me have sex with a woman 1st.

He did and It was the worst I can't stand myself for even asking him to have sex with another woman!

My husband said I was the one who brought it up and that he felt the same way when I asked him to try it.
I need to get past this , because I'm not throughing almost 12 years away but don't you think he should have said NO?

I asked him this and he said if he did i would have cheated on him and our marriage would be over anyway so through a hell marry and see what happens.

I'm not interseted in cheating or even sex right now but my husband said if I want to have sex with another man "TOO BAD" he'll divorce me and take it all.

He's pissed at me for even bringing this up and I'm pissed that I set the event up in hopes to get my own.

Does anyone other then me think that to much spice can ruin the marriage?

2007-09-07 18:21:15 · 20 answers · asked by The Lady 1

My husband is STILL giving me the silent treatment over my going to dinner with another man while he was out of town but I don't understand it at all. I wish he would just get over it since nothing happened and it was just a casual dinner. It's getting to be really childish! Just this morning he left me a note saying he had to go out of town again on Monday and to pack his bags, instead of just telling me this! He has also resorted to writing notes about other little things too like about what he what's for dinner and to take his clothes to the dry cleaners! It's getting really annoying now! Does anyone think this is childish?

2007-09-07 17:55:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-07 17:52:43 · 10 answers · asked by emily 3

I've been dating this guy on and off for over a year. I love him so much! He's nice, funny, thoughtful and when I'm with him it seems like everything in the world is perfect.

He's 21 and has been out of high school for over 3 years. He's been fired from 2 jobs in the 6 months. He has no plans, is undecided about a career, lives at home, doesn't really plan on going to college and can't find a real job.

I want to be with him so bad but I'm pretty sure that will me an I'd be taking care of him and making more money than him or even worst be t he only working adult in the household.

So I'm not sure if it's worth the risk or if I should try and find someone who wants the same things I do. I just graduated and I start college in the spring. I'm going to get a Master's degree. I plan on owning my own home, car, and starting college funds for my children before they're even born. I don't want to struggle through life like my parents did.

2007-09-07 17:52:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont know whose baby it is but i have a feeling its not my husbands. omg what should i do!!! help

2007-09-07 17:41:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-07 17:27:11 · 9 answers · asked by Diva Mama 1

If your mate suggest that you can learn how to be more giving when you already pay all the bills, take care of the kids, and ect. What the sad part is your mate doesn't work and suggested that you not only pay his or her fines but you help him or her get their license back that clearly didn't have anything to do with you. Would this blow your mind?

2007-09-07 17:09:20 · 25 answers · asked by Promise 2

I've been divorced for four years now. Prior to the break up and ending up in a sour note, I raised this question from my ex-wife. My question was: "In the event we divorce and the time will come when we will reconcile, I will only ask you one question. And that question entails: Have you slept with another man or had casual sex with other men during our separation." Naturally any educated person could anticipate the woman would not divulge the truth -- e.g. she had been intimate with another person. And to the women reading this article would raise the question to me: "How would you know if your ex-wife was telling the truth or not." Naturally if my ex's response was "yes" she would jeopardize her chance of reuniting with me. Or is this type of speculation would be better to remain unanswered. Yes it is possible that my ex-wife MIGHT practice abstince during the four year separation. Sincere replies only please. Thanks

2007-09-07 17:07:58 · 28 answers · asked by Luis D 1

leaving is an option
staying is an option
death is an option
I rather have an option that will help not hinder me.
Do you have experience in or with a person who's in recovery? Do you have honest advice you can give me?
Friends, an understanding ear and good advice is what I'm asking for....thanks

2007-09-07 17:05:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My history for being in trouble is legendary with any one who knows me. I got pregnant my senior year in high school and was due during my graduation... I got married as soon as I turned 18 to a illegal immigrant who hates America. Now I am over $30,000 dollars worth of debt from a company on my name.
I can't seem to keep my husband sober and my two children are sometimes more than I can handle. Every day I wake up and it is the same story or getting worse. I have been held back from getting my education to become a nurse by my husband who continues to say he will take care of everything, while all my bills are snowballing to gross proportions.
I don't even have a drivers license yet, because Hubby always has an excuse not to take me. I am going to be 21 next month and I feel like my life has hit its end. It is to the point where I don't even know where to start on getting my life back on track. Does anyone have some advice???

2007-09-07 16:54:14 · 21 answers · asked by marymouse26 2

can a wife get alimony if she is a service holder? Can she claim the jewellery gifted byher inlaws?

2007-09-07 16:47:07 · 7 answers · asked by puja s 1

...even if you didn't want him to do it? Would you feel freightened and uneasy or proud of him he was taking a stand?????

2007-09-07 16:36:47 · 12 answers · asked by terry_powerprofit 2

I have to ask for a hug or kiss and we have only had sex like 15 times within the past two years.If I ask him what's going wrong he'll say he watching TV or playing Xbox . The only time he wants to show affection is around our famiIies I have never been rejected by a man EVER !!!! I am seriously considering ending this joke of a marriage. I would rather be alone than to be unhappy.

2007-09-07 16:36:13 · 24 answers · asked by D J 1