i dont know whose baby it is but i have a feeling its not my husbands. omg what should i do!!! help
2007-09-07 17:41:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WHY DO YOU FACKING CARE WHOSE BABY IT IS?
YOU DONT EVEN CARE IF YOU ARE SLEEPING WITH ANOHTER MAN.
2007-09-07 17:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by Ivan K. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to be upfront with your husband. Tell him what you did and let him know that you are not sure whose baby it is. It will be hard for you to come clean about all of this, but this is really your only option. Don't even think about just sweeping that under the rug and going on assuming that it is your husband's baby or worse pretending that you know it is his. That is really dangerous. The outcome come could be fatal if you don't tell him and he eventually finds out on his own. Remember that whatever is done in the dark will come to the light. Maybe your honest will allow you guys to work things out. Whatever the outcome is, you will survive. But at least you will know where you stand on everything.
2007-09-07 17:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I should be answering this, but I believe that every body deserves the truth. A lie hurts more than the truth. The longer u go without tell him the truth, the harder it's going to be to tell him. The consequences of this matter is that he leaves u and you're left to take care of this child by yourself. Or he stays and you guys work out this problem...Most men aren't really forgiving as most women. You just need to prepare yourself for the good and the bad if or when u tell him....You'll thank yourself in the long run....
2007-09-07 17:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell you husband. Not only because of the baby possibly not being his, but also for issue of STD's and AIDS. I have volunteered for the AIDS committee of the city I live in and too often we have seen partners cheat only to find that they have given their spouses an STD or HIV. You need to tell him so both of you can get tested. You have no right to put his sexual reproductive health and life in jeopardy.
I see that you are sorry you have made this mistake and I am sorry about it, but somebody has to tell you harshly that you have done an irresponsible and stupid thing instead of dealing whatever issues you have with your husband. You are going to have to make some serious amends for what you have done. Perhaps your husband will have the heart to forgive you in time, but that can't happen if you don't tell him.
2007-09-07 17:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by Almarie L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How far along are you? Have a DNA test ASAP, talk to your doctor . Once you know who the father is, if it's not your husband's, you need to tell him. If it is your husbands, you have a choice- sometimes it's better to not confess, depends on if there are other kids in the home etc. Either way, learn and grow from this, and vow never to o this agin- lying is bad for a relationship but it also kills your soul- it erodes your self esteem.
2007-09-09 08:52:58 · answer #5 · answered by Down to earth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to know who the father is so the child can have a complete medical history. You will have to be mature, face up to your mistake and hope your husband loves you enough to stay by your side. Hope you learned a lesson from all of this. Know it is hard for you, but don't see how you have a choice but to tell your husband. Good luck to you.
2007-09-07 17:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by pussycat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband so he can get a paternity test when the baby is born and then he can divorce you afterwards. Did you know that in some states infidelity is a felony? Lucky for you, no one knows this or ever takes the case to court and wins.
2007-09-07 17:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty ....honesty....honesty!!!!
that is the only way out of this one. You already took the choice away from your husband by cheating on him......now do this child a favor and be honest. IYou need to be brave for the sake of this unborn child if for nothing else.
I wish you the best of luck .....and remember if this baby isn't your husbands.....it is not the babies fault ...it never is!!!!
2007-09-07 17:49:10 · answer #8 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry.but you have to honest with him about what happen'
he has a right to know that he may be the father of the child
especially since you truly believe he not, then you owe him
the truth, and then do what is right for you and the child, if the
other man is the father then you have some decison to make
on both end of the game.
2007-09-07 17:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to pay the piper hun. You play you gotta pay. Step up be a real person and start living your life honestly. Maybe he will forgive you maybe not, but you'll never be able to sleep or look yourself in the mirror if you don't come clean.
2007-09-09 07:10:10 · answer #10 · answered by ouqtu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him the truth and face the consequences. He has a right to know if the child is his. Put yourself in a fathers position. You would want to know wouldn't you.
2007-09-07 17:45:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋